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NAR: It's been almost a year... :(

ellekaeellekae member
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This September marks one year since my niece was stillborn at 26 weeks. I'm feeling really sad about it already, and I know my sister and BIL must already be thinking about it too. They've started training to be foster parents after struggling with IF for 8 cycles (I know that's not very long for some IF veterans out there), so I know they are pursuing growing their family...

Sometimes I just can't stop thinking about the little girl that I love so much but never got to meet. I guess I am just sad this morning.

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Re: NAR: It's been almost a year... :(

  • crene84crene84 member
    Sorry to hear that.  It is hard.  My sister miscarried at 12 weeks recently and I can't help but think about it every now and again..and I know when the due date approaches (end of Jan/early Feb), it's going to be on everyone's mind.  It is sad, but I guess I just try to focus on the fact that they have a beautiful 1 year old daughter.  We always knew she was a blessing but even more so now.
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  • jillianmbjillianmb member
    Wow I can't imagine having a baby stillborn at 26 weeks.  That is devastating.  Saying a prayer for your whole family today as you remember that precious little girl. 

    TTC September 2010 thru October 2011
    SA February 2011: Normal
    RE App. October 2011 - Recc. Clomid and IUI

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    Met our 2 year old son in Russia July 2012!
    Court trip October 2012
    Home November 24 2012!

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    Dx DOR, endometriosis, low sperm count 
    Clomid + IUI#1, #2 = BFN / IUI #3 = ???

    Laparoscopy scheduled December 2013

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  • DaisyZHDaisyZH member
    Prayers for your sister and BIL, you and your family Sad


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