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Did you tell your BFs?

MoiselleMoiselle
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I know its different since we all lost pregnancies.  I have 2 BFFs in San Diego, that I have yet to tell.  I want to tell them so much, but I want to do it in person and maybe wait a little longer.

When did you tell your BFFs?

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Re: Did you tell your BFs?

  • teach101teach101
    I actually waited to tell mine at about 10 weeks, I was just nervous and tired of being the bearer of bad news, but you should tell them when you want to.
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  • jnealetjnealet member

    I read that wrong - sorry!  I told the ones that I would have called if anything went wrong and I told them around 6-7 weeks.  The rest of my friends were told between 13 and 19 weeks.

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  • Sueball1Sueball1 member
    I actually waited to tell my best friends, for a myriad of reasons... but I did tell a local friend who had been with me through the 2 losses and was also TTC, b/c I knew she would understand if anything happened and be able to be excited for me in the ways I needed her to be. But that's just me. I think you should tell whoever you want to tell!! Be excited and happy - it won't jinx anything!!
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  • BarnStarBarnStar
    I told my BFFs within a couple days of telling our parents. But we told everyone really early - like 5wks ish.
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  • Kristyn4Kristyn4
    I really really want to tell my BFFs now. In fact my longest, best BFF is super PG. She got PG when I first did, we went through a long spell of not talking. Now things are good and I just can't wait to tell her. I might surprise her tomorrow at her work. I think she will be really surprised and happy.?
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  • NelyBellyNelyBelly
    I just told one BF a week ago - I have 4 BFs. I'm waiting until the New Year to tell my friends.
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  • mrsdanigirl8mrsdanigirl8 member

    I waited to see her in person since she lives in Switzerland right now.

    She came home unexpectedly a week before we were going to visit her so instead of waiting to tell her when we got to Switzerland we told her when we saw her (I was 15 weeks along). It was her birthday so I put a picture of the sonogram in the card. She was bawling when I told her :)

    She's a doula and is very excited that I'm pregnant again but understood that I had to wait to tell her.

    Married 6-30-07, BFP 9-1-07, M/C & D&C 10-5-07, BFP #2 6-20-08, BFP #3 3-28-2010 Mommy to Ethan born 2-22-09 7lbs 13.5oz & 21" long SAL Buddy to March04b2b imageFamily Blog|Food Blog
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  • Stellar1Stellar1
    Right away!
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