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Can't stop crying

SARANKEITH12SARANKEITH12
in TTC after 35
I am so very upset , i had 3 pos HPT . 1 neg blood text . Has this ever happend to anyone . You get your hopes up and then let down .
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  • 10-4LilBuddy10-4LilBuddy member

    I'm so sorry, hon.  IF is a terrible emotional roller coaster.  Take time to grieve every month and take care of yourself.  It really takes a lot to muster your strength to go into every month.  It's been so long that I am finding it harder and harder to get my hopes up every month.

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  • cheryegracecheryegrace member
    I'm so sorry you got bad news. Month after month of this type of news is a burden to anyone TTC. It makes it almost unbearable in some ways. I pray the next month is your month.
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  • danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member

    I'm so so sorry about this-- what a disappointment, after getting hopes up.

    What brand HPTs were you using? Did the docs give you any idea how the HPTs could be + but your beta negative-- did they think it was a chemical pregnancy that didn't progress by the time your blood test was drawn?

     

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  • lmielocl1lmielocl1 member
    I am so sorry!! I had two similar cycles in 2009 before we conceived our son (who is now 22 months).  Both were within a couple of months of one another. I can definitely relate!  What worked for me on our successful cycles was taking baby aspirin during our treatments.  (((Hugs)))
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  • robbensmrobbensm member
    I am so, so, so sorry - hugs
    Me 39 & suspected PCOS, DH 42. Went off BCP when we got married in 11/11, seriously TTC since 3/12.  Six cycles of clomid = BFNs.  Suspected endometriosis & HSG showed both tubes blocked.  Sept 2013 IVF 5D transfer of two perfect embryos = BFN.  Started acupuncture and taking time off to drop some pounds & get healthier before FET in April 2014.
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  • BabyVDMBabyVDM member

    I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. 

    Don't give up hope.  It's a hard road and there's nothing you can do but keep walking it.

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