Im just curious how someone becomes a moderator. I'm not implying I would ever want to do it in a ZILLION years but just wondering how someone gets selected. Anyone know?
I'm curious also. All of a sudden one day our mod changed from Emily to Alicia.. I don't know how/why that happened.
It's all my fault...I did not know any of this info before. I emailed BK and told her that I was going to take a break for bit. Alicia said she would take over, so I told BK that. Big mistake and I apologize.
Im just curious how someone becomes a moderator. I'm not implying I would ever want to do it in a ZILLION years but just wondering how someone gets selected. Anyone know?
I'm curious also. All of a sudden one day our mod changed from Emily to Alicia.. I don't know how/why that happened.
It's all my fault...I did not know any of this info before. I emailed BK and told her that I was going to take a break for bit. Alicia said she would take over, so I told BK that. Big mistake and I apologize.
No worries; there's no way you could have known! Hey we've all got our hands full nowadays so I understand wanting a break.
I'm a little disturbed that our mod had knowledge that a convicted sex offender (for child pornography) had direct access to images of our children and she chose not to do/say anything about it. I'm sure in her heart of hearts she believes he is innocent, but the fact remains he was convicted of this crime TWICE. It makes me question her judgement and integrity and I don't think she showed enough responsibility to be a mod.
Alicia, I'm not trying to attack you as a person, but as a parent I'm uncomfortable with the choices you made. The fact that you can not take ownership of this and see that you made a mistake makes me question your ability to serve as a mod.
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I'm a little disturbed that our mod had knowledge that a convicted sex offender (for child pornography) had direct access to images of our children and she chose not to do/say anything about it. I'm sure in her heart of hearts she believes he is innocent, but the fact remains he was convicted of this crime TWICE. It makes me question her judgement and integrity and I don't think she showed enough responsibility to be a mod.
Alicia, I'm not trying to attack you as a person, but as a parent I'm uncomfortable with the choices you made. The fact that you can not take ownership of this and see that you made a mistake makes me question your ability to serve as a mod.
Yeah, I think it's about time for a mod resignation letter. I'd also like to know how everyone has such detailed info on this character like how to find his registry? Guess you guys got info before it was mod blocked?
ETA: Emily, don't beat yourself up girl!
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I agree with what others have said about the bullying. I really enjoyed the June board back before Christmas, but then around New Year's it totally changed. It became much more unfriendly, and I found myself wary of posting. I also never joined the FB group. It didn't seem like my cup of tea. In fact, I started to post a lot more and enjoy the June board more after the board split between TB and FB.
Agree completely. My due date was June 3 so I was practically on the board from day 1. Had such a great time until AlisonMarie and her sidekick (turned moderator...!?!) ruined it. Quit checking in with the board around the beginning of my third tri.
Also thrilled I didn't join the FB group even though the board took a major hit from it and those two had a "join the group or get bent"" attitude.
That is what a lot of people that stuck around thought. It was FB vs TB and it turned really quiet. And if someone voiced that fact, the people causing the trouble would show up again and make problems. It was actually nice and quiet and although a lot of the people I liked reading about were gone some really nice people stuck around.
I'm not thrilled about the mod choice either. The day I saw that change I thought REALLY? She didn't even post over here (except on UO or FFFC when provoked or promote how awesome FB was) but now that this whole thing melted down she's over here acting like nothing happened. Sorry, I don't care to read about anything in your life when you made such stupid choices. I'm pretty sure other people would agree about that. Emily, please don't feel bad. You had no idea what would have come from that.
I'm a little disturbed that our mod had knowledge that a convicted sex offender (for child pornography) had direct access to images of our children and she chose not to do/say anything about it. I'm sure in her heart of hearts she believes he is innocent, but the fact remains he was convicted of this crime TWICE. It makes me question her judgement and integrity and I don't think she showed enough responsibility to be a mod.
Alicia, I'm not trying to attack you as a person, but as a parent I'm uncomfortable with the choices you made. The fact that you can not take ownership of this and see that you made a mistake makes me question your ability to serve as a mod.
Yeah, I think it's about time for a mod resignation letter. I'd also like to know how everyone has such detailed info on this character like how to find his registry? Guess you guys got info before it was mod blocked?
ETA: Emily, don't beat yourself up girl!
Allison told us he was a felon and a sex offender and invited us to google him. Since it was on FB, we knew his name, their last name, and which state they live in, so it was pretty easy to find him on the registry. A couple of the other members found a newspaper article that discussed him getting busted for breaking and entering, and then busted for child pornography after a bunch of computers were seized from his apartment. The pornography found was of children between the ages of 2 and 13. I guess the explanation from her husband is that the porn was already on the computer when he stole it or something to that effect. However, at the end of the article, it states he was dishonorably discharged from the army reserves and spent 8 months in jail for possession of child pornography in 2001 (7 years prior to the B&E). The explanation for THAT from Allison is the newspaper article is lying, he never served in the army.
None of us are buying it. Oh, except for Alicia.
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I'm a little disturbed that our mod had knowledge that a convicted sex offender (for child pornography) had direct access to images of our children and she chose not to do/say anything about it. I'm sure in her heart of hearts she believes he is innocent, but the fact remains he was convicted of this crime TWICE. It makes me question her judgement and integrity and I don't think she showed enough responsibility to be a mod.
Alicia, I'm not trying to attack you as a person, but as a parent I'm uncomfortable with the choices you made. The fact that you can not take ownership of this and see that you made a mistake makes me question your ability to serve as a mod.
Yeah, I think it's about time for a mod resignation letter. I'd also like to know how everyone has such detailed info on this character like how to find his registry? Guess you guys got info before it was mod blocked?
ETA: Emily, don't beat yourself up girl!
Allison told us he was a felon and a sex offender and invited us to google him. Since it was on FB, we knew his name, their last name, and which state they live in, so it was pretty easy to find him on the registry. A couple of the other members found a newspaper article that discussed him getting busted for breaking and entering, and then busted for child pornography after a bunch of computers were seized from his apartment. The pornography found was of children between the ages of 2 and 13. I guess the explanation from her husband is that the porn was already on the computer when he stole it or something to that effect. However, at the end of the article, it states he was dishonorably discharged from the army reserves and spent 8 months in jail for possession of child pornography in 2001 (7 years prior to the B&E). The explanation for THAT from Allison is the newspaper article is lying, he never served in the army.
None of us are buying it. Oh, except for Alicia.
Ahh, thanks for the update, Regina. Guess since I'm not on the FB group I'll never know if he's creeping around me...
Can't believe she even still wants to be the mod anyways. And for what it's worth, just because Allison isn't on TB anymore doesn't mean her and Alicia aren't talking anymore.
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I'm a little disturbed that our mod had knowledge that a convicted sex offender (for child pornography) had direct access to images of our children and she chose not to do/say anything about it. I'm sure in her heart of hearts she believes he is innocent, but the fact remains he was convicted of this crime TWICE. It makes me question her judgement and integrity and I don't think she showed enough responsibility to be a mod.
Alicia, I'm not trying to attack you as a person, but as a parent I'm uncomfortable with the choices you made. The fact that you can not take ownership of this and see that you made a mistake makes me question your ability to serve as a mod.
Yeah, I think it's about time for a mod resignation letter. I'd also like to know how everyone has such detailed info on this character like how to find his registry? Guess you guys got info before it was mod blocked?
ETA: Emily, don't beat yourself up girl!
Allison told us he was a felon and a sex offender and invited us to google him. Since it was on FB, we knew his name, their last name, and which state they live in, so it was pretty easy to find him on the registry. A couple of the other members found a newspaper article that discussed him getting busted for breaking and entering, and then busted for child pornography after a bunch of computers were seized from his apartment. The pornography found was of children between the ages of 2 and 13. I guess the explanation from her husband is that the porn was already on the computer when he stole it or something to that effect. However, at the end of the article, it states he was dishonorably discharged from the army reserves and spent 8 months in jail for possession of child pornography in 2001 (7 years prior to the B&E). The explanation for THAT from Allison is the newspaper article is lying, he never served in the army.
None of us are buying it. Oh, except for Alicia.
Ahh, thanks for the update, Regina. Guess since I'm not on the FB group I'll never know if he's creeping around me...
Can't believe she even still wants to be the mod anyways. And for what it's worth, just because Allison isn't on TB anymore doesn't mean her and Alicia aren't talking anymore.
Allison is lying about the Army thing... Her post below claims that he has PTSD from his time in the Army
02-21-2012 at 11:20 AMallisonmar...Joined on 03-22-2006Atlanta4,855 Posts53,659 PointsWe do both have issues with depression. Well, I'm Bipolar and not taking my medication while I'm pregnant, so that's an issue that we try to work around. Money concerns are weighing heavily on us both at the moment and I know he's depressed about his weight. I can't get the man to go to the doctor. He doesn't have health insurance so he uses that as his excuse. I don't think he has sleep apnea (although that is just my layman's opinion). I'd like him to get it checked out but he won't. Also, I know he's depressed but he refuses medication on that as well. A few months ago I noticed he had started sleeping with a light on. I teased him a bit about it, and he opened up to me for the first time about his time in the Army and some of the things he had to do on some of his deployments. He says sometimes he has a hard time getting to sleep at night when the light is off because he can see the faces of all the dead people he saw (and yes...he had to kill a few people himself...yikes...how did I not know any of this for over 6 years!?). He is VERY tight lipped about his time in the Army, but I know he's got some PTSD going on, but again, he won't even speak about seeing a doctor about it. God help me if he has low testosterone...I don't even want to think of what his libido would be like if he had MORE testosterone... He says he's going to work on the weight issue starting when we get home (which will be today, so we'll see pretty soon if he's serious this time). We're both doing the no eating out thing for the 40 days of Lent, so that will also help.As far as talking to him about it...I've tried. We've gone around and around on this SO much that the second I bring it up he just gets defensive about it. We used to be able to discuss it calmly. We'd come to an agreement and decide things would change and then they wouldn't. Each subsequent time it has been more and more difficult to have a rational discussion about it. Maybe some PP's that mentioned our differing sleep schedules are right. I can see where there could be a benefit there, but dang...I just don't think a grown up adult should be laying around in bed until noon every day of the week (unless they work 2nd shift or something similar). Also, I agree with the PP that said work outside the home would be a good idea. I know he should be working outside the home, but again...he resists. Gah!!! Stubborn @ss men!!!
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I'm a little disturbed that our mod had knowledge that a convicted sex offender (for child pornography) had direct access to images of our children and she chose not to do/say anything about it. I'm sure in her heart of hearts she believes he is innocent, but the fact remains he was convicted of this crime TWICE. It makes me question her judgement and integrity and I don't think she showed enough responsibility to be a mod.
Alicia, I'm not trying to attack you as a person, but as a parent I'm uncomfortable with the choices you made. The fact that you can not take ownership of this and see that you made a mistake makes me question your ability to serve as a mod.
Yeah, I think it's about time for a mod resignation letter. I'd also like to know how everyone has such detailed info on this character like how to find his registry? Guess you guys got info before it was mod blocked?
ETA: Emily, don't beat yourself up girl!
Allison told us he was a felon and a sex offender and invited us to google him. Since it was on FB, we knew his name, their last name, and which state they live in, so it was pretty easy to find him on the registry. A couple of the other members found a newspaper article that discussed him getting busted for breaking and entering, and then busted for child pornography after a bunch of computers were seized from his apartment. The pornography found was of children between the ages of 2 and 13. I guess the explanation from her husband is that the porn was already on the computer when he stole it or something to that effect. However, at the end of the article, it states he was dishonorably discharged from the army reserves and spent 8 months in jail for possession of child pornography in 2001 (7 years prior to the B&E). The explanation for THAT from Allison is the newspaper article is lying, he never served in the army.
None of us are buying it. Oh, except for Alicia.
Ahh, thanks for the update, Regina. Guess since I'm not on the FB group I'll never know if he's creeping around me...
Can't believe she even still wants to be the mod anyways. And for what it's worth, just because Allison isn't on TB anymore doesn't mean her and Alicia aren't talking anymore.
Allison is lying about the Army thing... Her post below claims that he has PTSD from his time in the Army
Wow, good find!!! I could have SWORN she had said he was in the army at some point, but I couldn't remember for sure.
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Wow...I've been away from the June board and over at 0-3 babies. And am shocked to see all of what went down here...
My only question is to Alicia...Since you and Allison are such good friends, would you trust her to babysit your LO at her house? If the answer is no, then you can see why the June Moms are all upset...If your answer is, yes...you have much deeper issues.
Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
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Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
I would like my money back too. I'm sure she makes enough money at her little high school cheerleader gig to pay me back. Stupid snatch.
Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
Thank you for the rundown!
I didn't donate money, but I'd be pretty livid too if I found out that I donated money for a house cleaner b/c mama bear was on bedrest and dad couldn't get a job b/c he's a perv.
Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
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Okay, just LOLed and woke my kiddo up who was sleeping on my chest. Not cool, Emily... Not cool!! :0)
I said this somewhere else- why in the world did y'all donate to that demeaning wench in the first place!? Y'all are much bigger women than me!! Sorry for everyone who got conned.. That blows. I never even got so far on the board to even know she was getting donations, but I'm pretty sure my first thought wouldn't have been "yeah, let me send my hard earned dollars to Miss Pleasantry". Y'all are good people with big hearts!!
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Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
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Okay, just LOLed and woke my kiddo up who was sleeping on my chest. Not cool, Emily... Not cool!! :0)
I said this somewhere else- why in the world did y'all donate to that demeaning wench in the first place!? Y'all are much bigger women than me!! Sorry for everyone who got conned.. That blows. I never even got so far on the board to even know she was getting donations, but I'm pretty sure my first thought wouldn't have been "yeah, let me send my hard earned dollars to Miss Pleasantry". Y'all are good people with big hearts!!
We donated because at the time, it seemed like everything was just snowballing for her. One thing after another was going wrong. Had she just been some random b!tch, I would not have sent her a penny. But it was a woman carrying 2 precious babies. They (so they say) couldn't pay their bills, couldn't buy food, etc. No matter how much of a B someone is, the unborn children shouldn't have to suffer.
In the days and weeks leading up to all of this coming to light, her sob story started to get worse. Every single day something absolutely horrible happened to her and her babies were giving her such a hard time. Yet, she had time to sit on FB ALL DAY LONG and comment on EVERYTHING that anyone she "liked" posted. It all started getting really annoying and then the bomb dropped and no one believes anything she has to say anymore. I don't think that most of the awful things she was going through were true at all.
Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
I would like my money back too. I'm sure she makes enough money at her little high school cheerleader gig to pay me back. Stupid snatch.
I'm so happy I saw through her bullshit and never donated money. I feel so bad for those that did. And the Facebook group is such a happier place without A&A!
Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
::slow clap::
Okay, just LOLed and woke my kiddo up who was sleeping on my chest. Not cool, Emily... Not cool!! :0)
I said this somewhere else- why in the world did y'all donate to that demeaning wench in the first place!? Y'all are much bigger women than me!! Sorry for everyone who got conned.. That blows. I never even got so far on the board to even know she was getting donations, but I'm pretty sure my first thought wouldn't have been "yeah, let me send my hard earned dollars to Miss Pleasantry". Y'all are good people with big hearts!!
We donated because at the time, it seemed like everything was just snowballing for her. One thing after another was going wrong. Had she just been some random b!tch, I would not have sent her a penny. But it was a woman carrying 2 precious babies. They (so they say) couldn't pay their bills, couldn't buy food, etc. No matter how much of a B someone is, the unborn children shouldn't have to suffer.
In the days and weeks leading up to all of this coming to light, her sob story started to get worse. Every single day something absolutely horrible happened to her and her babies were giving her such a hard time. Yet, she had time to sit on FB ALL DAY LONG and comment on EVERYTHING that anyone she "liked" posted. It all started getting really annoying and then the bomb dropped and no one believes anything she has to say anymore. I don't think that most of the awful things she was going through were true at all.
Pretty much this. I personally did not like her when we were all on TB. I thought she was a huge B and I could never understand why she had a following. I didn't post much here because of her and her little minion.
Then I went over to FB and all I saw from her were sob stories. Ohh we have no money... my house is disgusting and I'm on bedrest and my husband doesn't know how to clean... my husband can't get a job (now we know why!)... I'm so stressed... blah blah blah. I relay all this now in a "wow, what a whiny cvvnt" tone, but at the time, I felt REALLY bad for her. All I saw was this poor woman, pregnant with twins and on bedrest, struggling to not go into preterm labor and stressed to the max. I actually started to feel guilty for previously thinking she was a big B.
Funnily enough, I think towards the end she was fishing for another donation drive. Every single day, sometimes multiple times a day, she had some new tragedy to lay on us.
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Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
::slow clap::
Okay, just LOLed and woke my kiddo up who was sleeping on my chest. Not cool, Emily... Not cool!! :0)
I said this somewhere else- why in the world did y'all donate to that demeaning wench in the first place!? Y'all are much bigger women than me!! Sorry for everyone who got conned.. That blows. I never even got so far on the board to even know she was getting donations, but I'm pretty sure my first thought wouldn't have been "yeah, let me send my hard earned dollars to Miss Pleasantry". Y'all are good people with big hearts!!
We donated because at the time, it seemed like everything was just snowballing for her. One thing after another was going wrong. Had she just been some random b!tch, I would not have sent her a penny. But it was a woman carrying 2 precious babies. They (so they say) couldn't pay their bills, couldn't buy food, etc. No matter how much of a B someone is, the unborn children shouldn't have to suffer.
In the days and weeks leading up to all of this coming to light, her sob story started to get worse. Every single day something absolutely horrible happened to her and her babies were giving her such a hard time. Yet, she had time to sit on FB ALL DAY LONG and comment on EVERYTHING that anyone she "liked" posted. It all started getting really annoying and then the bomb dropped and no one believes anything she has to say anymore. I don't think that most of the awful things she was going through were true at all.
Pretty much this. I personally did not like her when we were all on TB. I thought she was a huge B and I could never understand why she had a following. I didn't post much here because of her and her little minion.
Then I went over to FB and all I saw from her were sob stories. Ohh we have no money... my house is disgusting and I'm on bedrest and my husband doesn't know how to clean... my husband can't get a job (now we know why!)... I'm so stressed... blah blah blah. I relay all this now in a "wow, what a whiny cvvnt" tone, but at the time, I felt REALLY bad for her. All I saw was this poor woman, pregnant with twins and on bedrest, struggling to not go into preterm labor and stressed to the max. I actually started to feel guilty for previously thinking she was a big B.
Funnily enough, I think towards the end she was fishing for another donation drive. Every single day, sometimes multiple times a day, she had some new tragedy to lay on us.
First she got MRSA, Then She pulled something in her knee and needed surgery, and She couldn't find a job except one that pays $8/hr doing manual labor, then Her PEDO husband got denied a job a friggen Homedepot, oh and don't forget the new van that needed $1500 worth of work!! BLAH BLAH BLAH Liar liar pants on F*cking Fire!
Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
I would like my money back too. I'm sure she makes enough money at her little high school cheerleader gig to pay me back. Stupid snatch.
Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
I would like my money back too. I'm sure she makes enough money at her little high school cheerleader gig to pay me back. Stupid snatch.
I agree with what others have said about the bullying. I really enjoyed the June board back before Christmas, but then around New Year's it totally changed. It became much more unfriendly, and I found myself wary of posting. I also never joined the FB group. It didn't seem like my cup of tea. In fact, I started to post a lot more and enjoy the June board more after the board split between TB and FB.
Agree completely. My due date was June 3 so I was practically on the board from day 1. Had such a great time until AlisonMarie and her sidekick (turned moderator...!?!) ruined it. Quit checking in with the board around the beginning of my third tri.
Also thrilled I didn't join the FB group even though the board took a major hit from it and those two had a "join the group or get bent"" attitude.
That is what a lot of people that stuck around thought. It was FB vs TB and it turned really quiet. And if someone voiced that fact, the people causing the trouble would show up again and make problems. It was actually nice and quiet and although a lot of the people I liked reading about were gone some really nice people stuck around.
I'm not thrilled about the mod choice either. The day I saw that change I thought REALLY? She didn't even post over here (except on UO or FFFC when provoked or promote how awesome FB was) but now that this whole thing melted down she's over here acting like nothing happened. Sorry, I don't care to read about anything in your life when you made such stupid choices. I'm pretty sure other people would agree about that. Emily, please don't feel bad. You had no idea what would have come from that.
Seriously.
I didn't join the FB group in large part because I disliked the bullying culture she brought to the board (and Alicia backed her up on at times) and I knew I wouldn't feel comfortable posting a lot of stuff out of fear that she'd attack me. I'm glad I didn't join- I have such a soft heart that I know I would've been suckered/conned into donating, and we really don't have a lot extra lying around with the baby now. I am so sorry for all you ladies who were conned by Allison and Alicia into donating your hard earned money. If either of them has a conscience they should be offering to return the money since Allison lied by omission about why they were broke (hubby can't find a job because he is a CONVICTED SEX OFFENDER is pretty hugely different from just having lots of bad luck).
Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
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Okay, just LOLed and woke my kiddo up who was sleeping on my chest. Not cool, Emily... Not cool!! :0)
I said this somewhere else- why in the world did y'all donate to that demeaning wench in the first place!? Y'all are much bigger women than me!! Sorry for everyone who got conned.. That blows. I never even got so far on the board to even know she was getting donations, but I'm pretty sure my first thought wouldn't have been "yeah, let me send my hard earned dollars to Miss Pleasantry". Y'all are good people with big hearts!!
We donated because at the time, it seemed like everything was just snowballing for her. One thing after another was going wrong. Had she just been some random b!tch, I would not have sent her a penny. But it was a woman carrying 2 precious babies. They (so they say) couldn't pay their bills, couldn't buy food, etc. No matter how much of a B someone is, the unborn children shouldn't have to suffer.
In the days and weeks leading up to all of this coming to light, her sob story started to get worse. Every single day something absolutely horrible happened to her and her babies were giving her such a hard time. Yet, she had time to sit on FB ALL DAY LONG and comment on EVERYTHING that anyone she "liked" posted. It all started getting really annoying and then the bomb dropped and no one believes anything she has to say anymore. I don't think that most of the awful things she was going through were true at all.
Pretty much this. I personally did not like her when we were all on TB. I thought she was a huge B and I could never understand why she had a following. I didn't post much here because of her and her little minion.
Then I went over to FB and all I saw from her were sob stories. Ohh we have no money... my house is disgusting and I'm on bedrest and my husband doesn't know how to clean... my husband can't get a job (now we know why!)... I'm so stressed... blah blah blah. I relay all this now in a "wow, what a whiny cvvnt" tone, but at the time, I felt REALLY bad for her. All I saw was this poor woman, pregnant with twins and on bedrest, struggling to not go into preterm labor and stressed to the max. I actually started to feel guilty for previously thinking she was a big B.
Funnily enough, I think towards the end she was fishing for another donation drive. Every single day, sometimes multiple times a day, she had some new tragedy to lay on us.
Ahhhh okay. I guess since I'm not in the FB group I never saw tragedy after tragedy being broadcasted. All I remember from her was how she was such a heinous b!tch to everyone!
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I never really liked Allison much, and the feeling was reciprocated. I was constantly bullied by Allison, coincidently stemming from her calling her father a pedophile. This was an Internet board; I wasn't scared off by her. Yes, I've seen Alicia be Allison's little minion, but I've see some of the ladies that have posted on this thread do the same.
Allison and her husband always seemed like a couple of sloths to me. She didn't hide it from anybody that her husband would play video games all day and sleep until noon. For the life of me, I don't understand why anybody would have donated for a housekeeper when their home had an able body sitting around doing nothing.
I just dont understand.
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I never really liked Allison much, and the feeling was reciprocated. I was constantly bullied by Allison, coincidently stemming from her calling her father a pedophile. This was an Internet board; I wasn't scared off by her. Yes, I've seen Alicia be Allison's little minion, but I've see some of the ladies that have posted on this thread do the same.
Allison and her husband always seemed like a couple of sloths to me. She didn't hide it from anybody that her husband would play video games all day and sleep until noon. For the life of me, I don't understand why anybody would have donated for a housekeeper when their home had an able body sitting around doing nothing.
I just dont understand.
Amen!
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Re: money for pedobear
No worries; there's no way you could have known! Hey we've all got our hands full nowadays so I understand wanting a break.
Alicia, I'm not trying to attack you as a person, but as a parent I'm uncomfortable with the choices you made. The fact that you can not take ownership of this and see that you made a mistake makes me question your ability to serve as a mod.
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Yeah, I think it's about time for a mod resignation letter. I'd also like to know how everyone has such detailed info on this character like how to find his registry? Guess you guys got info before it was mod blocked?
ETA: Emily, don't beat yourself up girl!
That is what a lot of people that stuck around thought. It was FB vs TB and it turned really quiet. And if someone voiced that fact, the people causing the trouble would show up again and make problems. It was actually nice and quiet and although a lot of the people I liked reading about were gone some really nice people stuck around.
I'm not thrilled about the mod choice either. The day I saw that change I thought REALLY? She didn't even post over here (except on UO or FFFC when provoked or promote how awesome FB was) but now that this whole thing melted down she's over here acting like nothing happened. Sorry, I don't care to read about anything in your life when you made such stupid choices. I'm pretty sure other people would agree about that. Emily, please don't feel bad. You had no idea what would have come from that.
Allison told us he was a felon and a sex offender and invited us to google him. Since it was on FB, we knew his name, their last name, and which state they live in, so it was pretty easy to find him on the registry. A couple of the other members found a newspaper article that discussed him getting busted for breaking and entering, and then busted for child pornography after a bunch of computers were seized from his apartment. The pornography found was of children between the ages of 2 and 13. I guess the explanation from her husband is that the porn was already on the computer when he stole it or something to that effect. However, at the end of the article, it states he was dishonorably discharged from the army reserves and spent 8 months in jail for possession of child pornography in 2001 (7 years prior to the B&E). The explanation for THAT from Allison is the newspaper article is lying, he never served in the army.
None of us are buying it. Oh, except for Alicia.
Ahh, thanks for the update, Regina. Guess since I'm not on the FB group I'll never know if he's creeping around me...
Can't believe she even still wants to be the mod anyways. And for what it's worth, just because Allison isn't on TB anymore doesn't mean her and Alicia aren't talking anymore.
Allison is lying about the Army thing... Her post below claims that he has PTSD from his time in the Army
Wow, good find!!! I could have SWORN she had said he was in the army at some point, but I couldn't remember for sure.
Wow...I've been away from the June board and over at 0-3 babies. And am shocked to see all of what went down here...
My only question is to Alicia...Since you and Allison are such good friends, would you trust her to babysit your LO at her house? If the answer is no, then you can see why the June Moms are all upset...If your answer is, yes...you have much deeper issues.
So, here's a rundown of the situation...
Allison's husband served in the army, confirmed by Allison, later denied by Allison after his dishonorable discharge came to light.
Alicia is Allison's butt-buddy, and regardless of where the initial idea came from, she had complete control over all monies donated for Allison's woes. Even after the amount needed for a house cleaner was collected, Alicia kept pushing out the collection date, which resulted in the large cash sum given to Allison. IF it was given to Allison. Maybe they split it? Alicia, you're starting to look EXTREMELY suspect.
Alicia knew about the child porn charges 7 months ago, per her own admission in pm's between her and another member of the FB group. She knew while the money was being collected and NEVER UTTERED A WORD TO ANY OF US.
F you Alicia. We want our money back. I feel conned by both Allison AND you. Why in the world did you not tell us her husband is a CSO???
This whole debacle disgusts and infuriates me.
I would like my money back too. I'm sure she makes enough money at her little high school cheerleader gig to pay me back. Stupid snatch.
Thank you for the rundown!
I didn't donate money, but I'd be pretty livid too if I found out that I donated money for a house cleaner b/c mama bear was on bedrest and dad couldn't get a job b/c he's a perv.
Okay, just LOLed and woke my kiddo up who was sleeping on my chest. Not cool, Emily... Not cool!! :0)
I said this somewhere else- why in the world did y'all donate to that demeaning wench in the first place!? Y'all are much bigger women than me!! Sorry for everyone who got conned.. That blows. I never even got so far on the board to even know she was getting donations, but I'm pretty sure my first thought wouldn't have been "yeah, let me send my hard earned dollars to Miss Pleasantry". Y'all are good people with big hearts!!
We donated because at the time, it seemed like everything was just snowballing for her. One thing after another was going wrong. Had she just been some random b!tch, I would not have sent her a penny. But it was a woman carrying 2 precious babies. They (so they say) couldn't pay their bills, couldn't buy food, etc. No matter how much of a B someone is, the unborn children shouldn't have to suffer.
In the days and weeks leading up to all of this coming to light, her sob story started to get worse. Every single day something absolutely horrible happened to her and her babies were giving her such a hard time. Yet, she had time to sit on FB ALL DAY LONG and comment on EVERYTHING that anyone she "liked" posted. It all started getting really annoying and then the bomb dropped and no one believes anything she has to say anymore. I don't think that most of the awful things she was going through were true at all.
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Pretty much this. I personally did not like her when we were all on TB. I thought she was a huge B and I could never understand why she had a following. I didn't post much here because of her and her little minion.
Then I went over to FB and all I saw from her were sob stories. Ohh we have no money... my house is disgusting and I'm on bedrest and my husband doesn't know how to clean... my husband can't get a job (now we know why!)... I'm so stressed... blah blah blah. I relay all this now in a "wow, what a whiny cvvnt" tone, but at the time, I felt REALLY bad for her. All I saw was this poor woman, pregnant with twins and on bedrest, struggling to not go into preterm labor and stressed to the max. I actually started to feel guilty for previously thinking she was a big B.
Funnily enough, I think towards the end she was fishing for another donation drive. Every single day, sometimes multiple times a day, she had some new tragedy to lay on us.
First she got MRSA, Then She pulled something in her knee and needed surgery, and She couldn't find a job except one that pays $8/hr doing manual labor, then Her PEDO husband got denied a job a friggen Homedepot, oh and don't forget the new van that needed $1500 worth of work!! BLAH BLAH BLAH Liar liar pants on F*cking Fire!
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Seriously.
I didn't join the FB group in large part because I disliked the bullying culture she brought to the board (and Alicia backed her up on at times) and I knew I wouldn't feel comfortable posting a lot of stuff out of fear that she'd attack me. I'm glad I didn't join- I have such a soft heart that I know I would've been suckered/conned into donating, and we really don't have a lot extra lying around with the baby now. I am so sorry for all you ladies who were conned by Allison and Alicia into donating your hard earned money. If either of them has a conscience they should be offering to return the money since Allison lied by omission about why they were broke (hubby can't find a job because he is a CONVICTED SEX OFFENDER is pretty hugely different from just having lots of bad luck).
Ahhhh okay. I guess since I'm not in the FB group I never saw tragedy after tragedy being broadcasted. All I remember from her was how she was such a heinous b!tch to everyone!
The irony of this is too much.
I never really liked Allison much, and the feeling was reciprocated. I was constantly bullied by Allison, coincidently stemming from her calling her father a pedophile. This was an Internet board; I wasn't scared off by her. Yes, I've seen Alicia be Allison's little minion, but I've see some of the ladies that have posted on this thread do the same.
Allison and her husband always seemed like a couple of sloths to me. She didn't hide it from anybody that her husband would play video games all day and sleep until noon. For the life of me, I don't understand why anybody would have donated for a housekeeper when their home had an able body sitting around doing nothing.
I just dont understand.
Amen!