! (Decoding Jamie)

Cranang · August 2012

mlangs:
morethancottoncandy:
Cranang:
morethancottoncandy:
Cranang:

morethancottoncandy:
Hmmmm, there seem to be a few overly defensive Dec. '12s lurking here.

This.

YIKES.

Did you see the "FFS" post over there? Wow.

Where on earth did that chick get the idea that this post by Melle was bashing their board? That's a little over-sensitive.

My thoughts exactly.

History.. That's where... I said something and backed it up... Maybe she didn't mean this one post as a bash but it has happened enough in the past. You can claim to be part of a group and trash talk them all the time everywhere else. If she has a problem with our BMB that's fine, but it is time to stop dragging it all over the bump making more drama when she claims she wants none.

I know Melle pretty well, and I don't get that from her. It seems like you're the one bringing the drama...

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mlangs · August 2012

Bliss+Berry:
Cranang:
mlangs:
morethancottoncandy:
Cranang:
morethancottoncandy:
Cranang:

morethancottoncandy:
Hmmmm, there seem to be a few overly defensive Dec. '12s lurking here.

This.

YIKES.

Did you see the "FFS" post over there? Wow.

Where on earth did that chick get the idea that this post by Melle was bashing their board? That's a little over-sensitive.

My thoughts exactly.

History.. That's where... I said something and backed it up... Maybe she didn't mean this one post as a bash but it has happened enough in the past. You can claim to be part of a group and trash talk them all the time everywhere else. If she has a problem with our BMB that's fine, but it is time to stop dragging it all over the bump making more drama when she claims she wants none.

I know Melle pretty well, and I don't get that from her. It seems like you're the one bringing the drama...
I've seen a lot of Melle's posts as well and I don't get that impression at all. Her posts are very kind.
The "FFS" post on 9-12 didn't have any other purpose but drama and shitstirring. You were the one "dragging it all over the bump" in this case.

Thats fine... I took my drama back to where the accusations were then... Where they should have been all along if that's the place being called out. I said my piece and I am done.

morethancottoncandy · August 2012

Bliss+Berry:
Cranang:
mlangs:

History.. That's where... I said something and backed it up... Maybe she didn't mean this one post as a bash but it has happened enough in the past. You can claim to be part of a group and trash talk them all the time everywhere else. If she has a problem with our BMB that's fine, but it is time to stop dragging it all over the bump making more drama when she claims she wants none.

I know Melle pretty well, and I don't get that from her. It seems like you're the one bringing the drama...
I've seen a lot of Melle's posts as well and I don't get that impression at all. Her posts are very kind.
The "FFS" post on 9-12 didn't have any other purpose but drama and shitstirring. You were the one "dragging it all over the bump" in this case.

This.

rockinmommy · August 2012

morethancottoncandy:
Bliss+Berry:
Cranang:
mlangs:

History.. That's where... I said something and backed it up... Maybe she didn't mean this one post as a bash but it has happened enough in the past. You can claim to be part of a group and trash talk them all the time everywhere else. If she has a problem with our BMB that's fine, but it is time to stop dragging it all over the bump making more drama when she claims she wants none.

I know Melle pretty well, and I don't get that from her. It seems like you're the one bringing the drama...

I've seen a lot of Melle's posts as well and I don't get that impression at all. Her posts are very kind.

The "FFS" post on 9-12 didn't have any other purpose but drama and shitstirring. You were the one "dragging it all over the bump" in this case.

This.

How did mlangs drag drama anywhere? That FFS was on her BMB, and was also about the posts on the BMB, where she posts very often. She has every right to come on this post and defend her side.

I don't think MelleTX was trying to cause conflict with this post, and most of us have the general consensus that she is not hayjamie, and that hayjamie is just a really annoying AE w/ a lot of time on their hands.

PurpleDrewbie5 · August 2012

morethancottoncandy:
Hmmmm, there seem to be a few overly defensive Dec. '12s lurking here.

This is what I was thinking. Surely nobody over the age of 14 would actually type/text like that. I work with youth and some of the girls text like that but none of them are over 14. If this person is real she must be lying about graduating high school. If she is not real, typn lk sh ds prl tks a rly lng tm.

ETA: I didn't see there were 2pages to this thread. I see this has already been addressed.

Cranang · August 2012

rockinmommy:
morethancottoncandy:
Bliss+Berry:
Cranang:
mlangs:

History.. That's where... I said something and backed it up... Maybe she didn't mean this one post as a bash but it has happened enough in the past. You can claim to be part of a group and trash talk them all the time everywhere else. If she has a problem with our BMB that's fine, but it is time to stop dragging it all over the bump making more drama when she claims she wants none.

I know Melle pretty well, and I don't get that from her. It seems like you're the one bringing the drama...

I've seen a lot of Melle's posts as well and I don't get that impression at all. Her posts are very kind.

The "FFS" post on 9-12 didn't have any other purpose but drama and shitstirring. You were the one "dragging it all over the bump" in this case.

This.

How did mlangs drag drama anywhere? That FFS was on her BMB, and was also about the posts on the BMB, where she posts very often. She has every right to come on this post and defend her side.

I don't think MelleTX was trying to cause conflict with this post, and most of us have the general consensus that she is not hayjamie, and that hayjamie is just a really annoying AE w/ a lot of time on their hands.

Right, she was dragging an innocuous statement made on the baby showers board back to December12, trying to get everyone riled up that Melle was over here talking sh!t about them. And I don't care if she comes here to "defend" herself (and if that was a "defense" it was pretty crappy.)

But she's accusing Melle of doing the same thing she's doing. She came over here, to a board she never posts on, and basically calls Melle out. That's starting drama.

Liz4444 · August 2012

OK, let me see if I can get this straight. Melle starts a post about Hayjamie on a board where HJ just had a long, dramatic OP. In this post, Melle factually states the 2 other boards HJ has posted on.

Somehow, I fail to see how this is dramatic or bashing another board.

I am pretty familiar with Melle, while she might complain occasionally, she's not the type to bash. And, anyone who thinks her OP is bashing anyone is just reaching desperately for ways to make Melle seem bad.

BrittanyDoesDerby · August 2012

Cranang:

Right, she was dragging an innocuous statement made on the baby showers board back to December12, trying to get everyone riled up that Melle was over here talking sh!t about them. And I don't care if she comes here to "defend" herself (and if that was a "defense" it was pretty crappy.)

But she's accusing Melle of doing the same thing she's doing. She came over here, to a board she never posts on, and basically calls Melle out. That's starting drama.

She's not really doing the same thing that she is accusing Melle doing. She believed that Melle was being unfair by saying that the AE was someone from Dec '12. Then, she posted on Dec '12 to let the board know. I don't really believe this is quite the big deal that everyone is making it out to be.

Cranang · August 2012

BrittanyDoesDerby:
Cranang:

Right, she was dragging an innocuous statement made on the baby showers board back to December12, trying to get everyone riled up that Melle was over here talking sh!t about them. And I don't care if she comes here to "defend" herself (and if that was a "defense" it was pretty crappy.)

But she's accusing Melle of doing the same thing she's doing. She came over here, to a board she never posts on, and basically calls Melle out. That's starting drama.

She's not really doing the same thing that she is accusing Melle doing. She believed that Melle was being unfair by saying that the AE was someone from Dec '12. Then, she posted on Dec '12 to let the board know. I don't really believe this is quite the big deal that everyone is making it out to be.

Oh it's definitely not. But I read that "FFS" post on Dec12, and it was not simply letting the board know.

I just think it's weird to accuse Melle of spreading drama. Yes, she BELIEVED that Melle was talking crap, but she was wrong. Just seems a little hypocritical to accuse someone of spreading drama, and then going back with bad information and spreading drama on the BMB. Or does it not count if it's the BMB?

Liz4444 · August 2012

Cranang:
BrittanyDoesDerby:
Cranang:

Right, she was dragging an innocuous statement made on the baby showers board back to December12, trying to get everyone riled up that Melle was over here talking sh!t about them. And I don't care if she comes here to "defend" herself (and if that was a "defense" it was pretty crappy.)

But she's accusing Melle of doing the same thing she's doing. She came over here, to a board she never posts on, and basically calls Melle out. That's starting drama.

She's not really doing the same thing that she is accusing Melle doing. She believed that Melle was being unfair by saying that the AE was someone from Dec '12. Then, she posted on Dec '12 to let the board know. I don't really believe this is quite the big deal that everyone is making it out to be.

Oh it's definitely not. But I read that "FFS" post on Dec12, and it was not simply letting the board know.

I just think it's weird to accuse Melle of spreading drama. Yes, she BELIEVED that Melle was talking crap, but she was wrong. Just seems a little hypocritical to accuse someone of spreading drama, and then going back with bad information and spreading drama on the BMB. Or does it not count if it's the BMB?

And now Dec '12 is saying that BSB is always looking for someone to pick on and we have chosen them as our target. I don't know about the Melle history, but things are just being made up at this point.

BrittanyDoesDerby · August 2012

Cranang:
BrittanyDoesDerby:
Cranang:

Right, she was dragging an innocuous statement made on the baby showers board back to December12, trying to get everyone riled up that Melle was over here talking sh!t about them. And I don't care if she comes here to "defend" herself (and if that was a "defense" it was pretty crappy.)

But she's accusing Melle of doing the same thing she's doing. She came over here, to a board she never posts on, and basically calls Melle out. That's starting drama.

She's not really doing the same thing that she is accusing Melle doing. She believed that Melle was being unfair by saying that the AE was someone from Dec '12. Then, she posted on Dec '12 to let the board know. I don't really believe this is quite the big deal that everyone is making it out to be.

Oh it's definitely not. But I read that "FFS" post on Dec12, and it was not simply letting the board know.

I just think it's weird to accuse Melle of spreading drama. Yes, she BELIEVED that Melle was talking crap, but she was wrong. Just seems a little hypocritical to accuse someone of spreading drama, and then going back with bad information and spreading drama on the BMB. Or does it not count if it's the BMB?

I don't think Melle was intentionally spreading drama, either. I just think everyone is a little crazed after this hayjamie fiasco and it got blown out of proportion on both sides.

Cranang · August 2012

Liz4444:
Cranang:
BrittanyDoesDerby:
Cranang:

Right, she was dragging an innocuous statement made on the baby showers board back to December12, trying to get everyone riled up that Melle was over here talking sh!t about them. And I don't care if she comes here to "defend" herself (and if that was a "defense" it was pretty crappy.)

But she's accusing Melle of doing the same thing she's doing. She came over here, to a board she never posts on, and basically calls Melle out. That's starting drama.

She's not really doing the same thing that she is accusing Melle doing. She believed that Melle was being unfair by saying that the AE was someone from Dec '12. Then, she posted on Dec '12 to let the board know. I don't really believe this is quite the big deal that everyone is making it out to be.

Oh it's definitely not. But I read that "FFS" post on Dec12, and it was not simply letting the board know.

I just think it's weird to accuse Melle of spreading drama. Yes, she BELIEVED that Melle was talking crap, but she was wrong. Just seems a little hypocritical to accuse someone of spreading drama, and then going back with bad information and spreading drama on the BMB. Or does it not count if it's the BMB?

And now Dec '12 is saying that BSB is always looking for someone to pick on and we have chosen them as our target. I don't know about the Melle history, but things are just being made up at this point.

This sh!t is crazy. The last post on that thread says that girl never flamed Melle.

I guess I don't understand the definition of flamed. *sigh*

And this one is for mlangs, because you all are big meanie heads.

"We feel sorry for your DHs and we hope your babies are born ugly."

(I don't actually feel like that, but I wanted you to feel like you were right.)

ETA:This quote was from mlangs...I didn't make that up or anything...Just didn't want you to think I was saying that.

MelleTX · August 2012

Whoah!!!

Looks like I missed a lot this morning. I appreciate everyone sticking up for me, I really do. But I think it's time to let this one go.

I said something that was taken out of context which obviously brought up old feelings of hurt. It was unintentional. At this point no one is going to change anyone else's mind.

All that's happening now is more people are getting mad at more people.

Let's call it a bad situation from yesterday and move on.

mlangs · August 2012

Cranang:
Liz4444:
Cranang:
BrittanyDoesDerby:
Cranang:

Right, she was dragging an innocuous statement made on the baby showers board back to December12, trying to get everyone riled up that Melle was over here talking sh!t about them. And I don't care if she comes here to "defend" herself (and if that was a "defense" it was pretty crappy.)

But she's accusing Melle of doing the same thing she's doing. She came over here, to a board she never posts on, and basically calls Melle out. That's starting drama.

She's not really doing the same thing that she is accusing Melle doing. She believed that Melle was being unfair by saying that the AE was someone from Dec '12. Then, she posted on Dec '12 to let the board know. I don't really believe this is quite the big deal that everyone is making it out to be.

Oh it's definitely not. But I read that "FFS" post on Dec12, and it was not simply letting the board know.

I just think it's weird to accuse Melle of spreading drama. Yes, she BELIEVED that Melle was talking crap, but she was wrong. Just seems a little hypocritical to accuse someone of spreading drama, and then going back with bad information and spreading drama on the BMB. Or does it not count if it's the BMB?

And now Dec '12 is saying that BSB is always looking for someone to pick on and we have chosen them as our target. I don't know about the Melle history, but things are just being made up at this point.

This sh!t is crazy. The last post on that thread says that girl never flamed Melle.

I guess I don't understand the definition of flamed. *sigh*

And this one is for mlangs, because you all are big meanie heads.

"We feel sorry for your DHs and we hope your babies are born ugly."

(I don't actually feel like that, but I wanted you to feel like you were right.)

ETA:This quote was from mlangs...I didn't make that up or anything...Just didn't want you to think I was saying that.

Those weren't my words... I was quoting melle at that point, but thanks for not feeling that way.

MelleTX · August 2012

... or we could keep pointing fingers...whatever you guys want to do.

But you are missing the fun over on 1st Tri and Baby Names as hayjamie is over there!

Cranang · August 2012

mlangs:
Cranang:
Liz4444:
Cranang:
BrittanyDoesDerby:
Cranang:

Right, she was dragging an innocuous statement made on the baby showers board back to December12, trying to get everyone riled up that Melle was over here talking sh!t about them. And I don't care if she comes here to "defend" herself (and if that was a "defense" it was pretty crappy.)

But she's accusing Melle of doing the same thing she's doing. She came over here, to a board she never posts on, and basically calls Melle out. That's starting drama.

She's not really doing the same thing that she is accusing Melle doing. She believed that Melle was being unfair by saying that the AE was someone from Dec '12. Then, she posted on Dec '12 to let the board know. I don't really believe this is quite the big deal that everyone is making it out to be.

Oh it's definitely not. But I read that "FFS" post on Dec12, and it was not simply letting the board know.

I just think it's weird to accuse Melle of spreading drama. Yes, she BELIEVED that Melle was talking crap, but she was wrong. Just seems a little hypocritical to accuse someone of spreading drama, and then going back with bad information and spreading drama on the BMB. Or does it not count if it's the BMB?

And now Dec '12 is saying that BSB is always looking for someone to pick on and we have chosen them as our target. I don't know about the Melle history, but things are just being made up at this point.

This sh!t is crazy. The last post on that thread says that girl never flamed Melle.

I guess I don't understand the definition of flamed. *sigh*

And this one is for mlangs, because you all are big meanie heads.

"We feel sorry for your DHs and we hope your babies are born ugly."

(I don't actually feel like that, but I wanted you to feel like you were right.)

ETA:This quote was from mlangs...I didn't make that up or anything...Just didn't want you to think I was saying that.

Those weren't my words... I was quoting melle at that point, but thanks for not feeling that way.

How were you quoting Melle when you said this:

"They are about half a second away from one of them saying they feel sorry for your DHs and they hope our babies are born ugly. Just wait, it's coming. I can feel it.

Because, yeah.... we're all a bunch of meanie heads."

???

MelleTX · August 2012

Cranang:
mlangs:
Cranang:
Liz4444:
Cranang:
BrittanyDoesDerby:
Cranang:

Right, she was dragging an innocuous statement made on the baby showers board back to December12, trying to get everyone riled up that Melle was over here talking sh!t about them. And I don't care if she comes here to "defend" herself (and if that was a "defense" it was pretty crappy.)

But she's accusing Melle of doing the same thing she's doing. She came over here, to a board she never posts on, and basically calls Melle out. That's starting drama.

She's not really doing the same thing that she is accusing Melle doing. She believed that Melle was being unfair by saying that the AE was someone from Dec '12. Then, she posted on Dec '12 to let the board know. I don't really believe this is quite the big deal that everyone is making it out to be.

Oh it's definitely not. But I read that "FFS" post on Dec12, and it was not simply letting the board know.

I just think it's weird to accuse Melle of spreading drama. Yes, she BELIEVED that Melle was talking crap, but she was wrong. Just seems a little hypocritical to accuse someone of spreading drama, and then going back with bad information and spreading drama on the BMB. Or does it not count if it's the BMB?

And now Dec '12 is saying that BSB is always looking for someone to pick on and we have chosen them as our target. I don't know about the Melle history, but things are just being made up at this point.

This sh!t is crazy. The last post on that thread says that girl never flamed Melle.

I guess I don't understand the definition of flamed. *sigh*

And this one is for mlangs, because you all are big meanie heads.

"We feel sorry for your DHs and we hope your babies are born ugly."

(I don't actually feel like that, but I wanted you to feel like you were right.)

ETA:This quote was from mlangs...I didn't make that up or anything...Just didn't want you to think I was saying that.

Those weren't my words... I was quoting melle at that point, but thanks for not feeling that way.

How were you quoting Melle when you said this:

"They are about half a second away from one of them saying they feel sorry for your DHs and they hope our babies are born ugly. Just wait, it's coming. I can feel it.

Because, yeah.... we're all a bunch of meanie heads."

???

Actually, that was me!

She just copied a section of the whole rant, I believe. It's been a while. But that was the original conversation that started this mess. There was some pretty mean talk over there about this Board and I came over here and linked to it to tell you guys what was going on.

I think (can't remember, honestly) that someone had gotten a harsh response here for something and went there to complain about how mean this board was. It upset me so I "tattled" on them.

Then they called me out over there in anther thread for calling them out here and I walked right over there and admitted that I had done it and told them why. And then after some back and forth it ended pretty calmly. I told them why I said it and why I thought there was a lot of drama on that board. And one of the people who called me out apologized to me and I apologized to her and then we started talking about something else.

Ironically, the one person who I thought was the dama person hasn't been on that board for quite a while. Not that I have seen.

mlangs · August 2012

Cranang:
mlangs:
Cranang:
Liz4444:
Cranang:
BrittanyDoesDerby:
Cranang:

Right, she was dragging an innocuous statement made on the baby showers board back to December12, trying to get everyone riled up that Melle was over here talking sh!t about them. And I don't care if she comes here to "defend" herself (and if that was a "defense" it was pretty crappy.)

But she's accusing Melle of doing the same thing she's doing. She came over here, to a board she never posts on, and basically calls Melle out. That's starting drama.

She's not really doing the same thing that she is accusing Melle doing. She believed that Melle was being unfair by saying that the AE was someone from Dec '12. Then, she posted on Dec '12 to let the board know. I don't really believe this is quite the big deal that everyone is making it out to be.

Oh it's definitely not. But I read that "FFS" post on Dec12, and it was not simply letting the board know.

I just think it's weird to accuse Melle of spreading drama. Yes, she BELIEVED that Melle was talking crap, but she was wrong. Just seems a little hypocritical to accuse someone of spreading drama, and then going back with bad information and spreading drama on the BMB. Or does it not count if it's the BMB?

And now Dec '12 is saying that BSB is always looking for someone to pick on and we have chosen them as our target. I don't know about the Melle history, but things are just being made up at this point.

This sh!t is crazy. The last post on that thread says that girl never flamed Melle.

I guess I don't understand the definition of flamed. *sigh*

And this one is for mlangs, because you all are big meanie heads.

"We feel sorry for your DHs and we hope your babies are born ugly."

(I don't actually feel like that, but I wanted you to feel like you were right.)

ETA:This quote was from mlangs...I didn't make that up or anything...Just didn't want you to think I was saying that.

Those weren't my words... I was quoting melle at that point, but thanks for not feeling that way.

How were you quoting Melle when you said this:

"They are about half a second away from one of them saying they feel sorry for your DHs and they hope our babies are born ugly. Just wait, it's coming. I can feel it.

Because, yeah.... we're all a bunch of meanie heads."

???

My words were in italics... I went back and found the things that she has said in other boards, since I made an accusation I backed it up. I admit that maybe I misunderstood what she said this time, but with the history being what it is... it wasn't a far jump.

At this point no one is going to agree and it is what it is.

MelleTX · August 2012

mlangs:
My words were in italics... I went back and found the things that she has said in other boards, since I made an accusation I backed it up. I admit that maybe I misunderstood what she said this time, but with the history being what it is... it wasn't a far jump.
At this point no one is going to agree and it is what it is.

See above....

So... what's your end game? What do you want?

MelleTX · August 2012

Ok, I have to go back to work now. These babies won't pay for themselves.

You think about what you need or what you want out of all of this and let me know. I am sure that (above history aside) we can agree on something.

But I will be offline until late tonight because I have my first Preparation for Childbirth class tonight. (yay)

So, carry on without me.

jvdavisbaby · August 2012

MelleTX:

Actually, that was me!

She just copied a section of the whole rant, I believe. It's been a while. But that was the original conversation that started this mess. There was some pretty mean talk over there about this Board and I came over here and linked to it to tell you guys what was going on.

I think (can't remember, honestly) that someone had gotten a harsh response here for something and went there to complain about how mean this board was. It upset me so I "tattled" on them.

Then they called me out over there in anther thread for calling them out here and I walked right over there and admitted that I had done it and told them why. And then after some back and forth it ended pretty calmly. I told them why I said it and why I thought there was a lot of drama on that board. And one of the people who called me out apologized to me and I apologized to her and then we started talking about something else.

Ironically, the one person who I thought was the dama person hasn't been on that board for quite a while. Not that I have seen.

Melle thank you for clarifying because I was totally lost

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