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PrimRoseMama · August 2012

davis0905:
If there was a "like" button, I was "like" your post a hundred times over. Despite what you have experienced so far, there are people here who can offer sensitivity and will give you the support you are reqesting and certainly deserve. So I hope you'll stick around. Snarks aka Bullies are everywhere and probably are found in higher numbers on community forums...it sucks but you just gotta ignore them and don't give them the attention they are so despereately seeking.

Who are you & why are you so butthurt? If you are going to endorse whiny douchebiitches then why don't you stick to FB & not worry your pretty little head about what goes on here?

ragexlove · August 2012

momofone0901:
before thebump existed, those of us ttc chatted through theknot. i was a regular member of the ttc board and had my son in 2005.
i am currently ttc baby#2 and came here for support and empathy, since i assume we are all here for similar reasons. what i have found has been rude, 'mean girl' behavior that is not only immature but downright mean.
people come here because they are excited and many seeking the unknown. they ask questions because they know you have been or are in their shoes. if someone asks a question that you could easily answer, either ignore it or answer it. no need for snarky remarks and re-directs to the newbie board.
many of you who are quick with a rude cut-down when somebody asks about symptoms would likely be lying if you said you never obsessed over symptoms while ttc, esp during 2ww.
if you are here, i assume you are ttc and therefore will bring children into this world. i hope you teach them better manners than you display to others.

Completely agree with you, well said!

bitty94 · August 2012

JulianneJacks:
bitty94:
PrimRoseMama:

bitty94:
i came here to get advise and because i was excited that my fiance and i were going to try for our first child. all i got within the first post was a ton of bad and rude comments. i thought this site was nice.

No you came here looking for other teens who are trying to get pregnant on purpose. There are not many of those, hint hint, most of them are busy being kids. Why should we be nice if we think people are stupid?!

but the thing is, you dont have to be such a witch about it

Excuse me? Most of the people who responded to you were genuinely offering you advice. You will need to grow a thicker skin if you're going to be a teen mom. People are very mean to my two friends who had teenage pregnancies and treat them like they are trailor trash even though one of them has become very successful later in life.

um, no. 90% of the comments were very rude and uncalled for. yes, i am 18, and still in school, but i am very mature and so is my FI. we know whats coming and if we didnt and only wanted a baby just cuz, then we wouldnt be trying and i wouldnt even be on this site. and i wouldnt have to listen to any of this crap all you people have given me. if we didnt think we could do it and raise a child like every freakin body else, then we would wait.

PrimRoseMama · August 2012

ragexlove:
momofone0901:
before thebump existed, those of us ttc chatted through theknot. i was a regular member of the ttc board and had my son in 2005.
i am currently ttc baby#2 and came here for support and empathy, since i assume we are all here for similar reasons. what i have found has been rude, 'mean girl' behavior that is not only immature but downright mean.
people come here because they are excited and many seeking the unknown. they ask questions because they know you have been or are in their shoes. if someone asks a question that you could easily answer, either ignore it or answer it. no need for snarky remarks and re-directs to the newbie board.
many of you who are quick with a rude cut-down when somebody asks about symptoms would likely be lying if you said you never obsessed over symptoms while ttc, esp during 2ww.
if you are here, i assume you are ttc and therefore will bring children into this world. i hope you teach them better manners than you display to others.

Completely agree with you, well said!

Hey here's an idea: you, doucheyholierthanthoupreachy pants & the teen mom can braid each others' hair & skip off down the yellow brick road! That will lead you TF out.

artistlife · August 2012

bitty94:
JulianneJacks:
bitty94:
PrimRoseMama:

bitty94:
i came here to get advise and because i was excited that my fiance and i were going to try for our first child. all i got within the first post was a ton of bad and rude comments. i thought this site was nice.

No you came here looking for other teens who are trying to get pregnant on purpose. There are not many of those, hint hint, most of them are busy being kids. Why should we be nice if we think people are stupid?!

but the thing is, you dont have to be such a witch about it

Excuse me? Most of the people who responded to you were genuinely offering you advice. You will need to grow a thicker skin if you're going to be a teen mom. People are very mean to my two friends who had teenage pregnancies and treat them like they are trailor trash even though one of them has become very successful later in life.
um, no. 90% of the comments were very rude and uncalled for. yes, i am 18, and still in school, but i am very mature and so is my FI. we know whats coming and if we didnt and only wanted a baby just cuz, then we wouldnt be trying and i wouldnt even be on this site. and i wouldnt have to listen to any of this crap all you people have given me. if we didnt think we could do it and raise a child like every freakin body else, then we would wait.

You see the great thing about the interwebs is that you don't have to listen to anything...you read it and you don't even have to do that. If you can hear my voice you may want to go back to those therapists.

bitty94 · August 2012

CLECyclist:
bitty94:
um, no. 90% of the comments were very rude and uncalled for. yes, i am 18, and still in school, but i am very mature and so is my FI. we know whats coming and if we didnt and only wanted a baby just cuz, then we wouldnt be trying and i wouldnt even be on this site. and i wouldnt have to listen to any of this crap all you people have given me. if we didnt think we could do it and raise a child like every freakin body else, then we would wait.
All you're doing is proving (again and again) how immature you truly are.

how? please tell me how. so i can fix this and be perfect for you

mitzidanny · August 2012

Happy TUESDAY everyone, just another crazy, Crazy-Day!

PrimRoseMama · August 2012

bitty94:
JulianneJacks:
bitty94:
PrimRoseMama:

bitty94:
i came here to get advise and because i was excited that my fiance and i were going to try for our first child. all i got within the first post was a ton of bad and rude comments. i thought this site was nice.

No you came here looking for other teens who are trying to get pregnant on purpose. There are not many of those, hint hint, most of them are busy being kids. Why should we be nice if we think people are stupid?!

but the thing is, you dont have to be such a witch about it

Excuse me? Most of the people who responded to you were genuinely offering you advice. You will need to grow a thicker skin if you're going to be a teen mom. People are very mean to my two friends who had teenage pregnancies and treat them like they are trailor trash even though one of them has become very successful later in life.
um, no. 90% of the comments were very rude and uncalled for. yes, i am 18, and still in school, but i am very mature and so is my FI. we know whats coming and if we didnt and only wanted a baby just cuz, then we wouldnt be trying and i wouldnt even be on this site. and i wouldnt have to listen to any of this crap all you people have given me. if we didnt think we could do it and raise a child like every freakin body else, then we would wait.

Pssst... Mature people usually don't have to tell other people how mature they are. They show it with prudent actions & wise decisions. Throwing a hissy fit because people told you the truth is the opposite of mature.

It absolutely sounds like you want a baby for funsies. You don't have any idea what you are talking about & that is why you should wait. If you can't argue your point without text speak, sorry not buying the mature claim.

Please please grow up before you have a baby.

RockyR12 · August 2012

ragexlove:
momofone0901:
before thebump existed, those of us ttc chatted through theknot. i was a regular member of the ttc board and had my son in 2005.
i am currently ttc baby#2 and came here for support and empathy, since i assume we are all here for similar reasons. what i have found has been rude, 'mean girl' behavior that is not only immature but downright mean.
people come here because they are excited and many seeking the unknown. they ask questions because they know you have been or are in their shoes. if someone asks a question that you could easily answer, either ignore it or answer it. no need for snarky remarks and re-directs to the newbie board.
many of you who are quick with a rude cut-down when somebody asks about symptoms would likely be lying if you said you never obsessed over symptoms while ttc, esp during 2ww.
if you are here, i assume you are ttc and therefore will bring children into this world. i hope you teach them better manners than you display to others.

Completely agree with you, well said!

Really? "Well said?" You don't like capital letters either?

notkateanymore · August 2012

bitty94:
JulianneJacks:
bitty94:
PrimRoseMama:

bitty94:
i came here to get advise and because i was excited that my fiance and i were going to try for our first child. all i got within the first post was a ton of bad and rude comments. i thought this site was nice.

No you came here looking for other teens who are trying to get pregnant on purpose. There are not many of those, hint hint, most of them are busy being kids. Why should we be nice if we think people are stupid?!

but the thing is, you dont have to be such a witch about it

Excuse me? Most of the people who responded to you were genuinely offering you advice. You will need to grow a thicker skin if you're going to be a teen mom. People are very mean to my two friends who had teenage pregnancies and treat them like they are trailor trash even though one of them has become very successful later in life.
um, no. 90% of the comments were very rude and uncalled for. yes, i am 18, and still in school, but i am very mature and so is my FI. we know whats coming and if we didnt and only wanted a baby just cuz, then we wouldnt be trying and i wouldnt even be on this site. and i wouldnt have to listen to any of this crap all you people have given me. if we didnt think we could do it and raise a child like every freakin body else, then we would wait.

You need less Bump and more English class.

Akiesha · August 2012

PrimRoseMama:
ragexlove:
momofone0901:
before thebump existed, those of us ttc chatted through theknot. i was a regular member of the ttc board and had my son in 2005.
i am currently ttc baby#2 and came here for support and empathy, since i assume we are all here for similar reasons. what i have found has been rude, 'mean girl' behavior that is not only immature but downright mean.
people come here because they are excited and many seeking the unknown. they ask questions because they know you have been or are in their shoes. if someone asks a question that you could easily answer, either ignore it or answer it. no need for snarky remarks and re-directs to the newbie board.
many of you who are quick with a rude cut-down when somebody asks about symptoms would likely be lying if you said you never obsessed over symptoms while ttc, esp during 2ww.
if you are here, i assume you are ttc and therefore will bring children into this world. i hope you teach them better manners than you display to others.

Completely agree with you, well said!
Hey here's an idea: you, doucheyholierthanthoupreachy pants & the teen mom can braid each others' hair & skip off down the yellow brick road! That will lead you TF out.

haha Prim your posts crack me up! love it

SCSmith2011 · August 2012

bitty94:
JulianneJacks:
bitty94:
PrimRoseMama:

bitty94:
i came here to get advise and because i was excited that my fiance and i were going to try for our first child. all i got within the first post was a ton of bad and rude comments. i thought this site was nice.

No you came here looking for other teens who are trying to get pregnant on purpose. There are not many of those, hint hint, most of them are busy being kids. Why should we be nice if we think people are stupid?!

but the thing is, you dont have to be such a witch about it

Excuse me? Most of the people who responded to you were genuinely offering you advice. You will need to grow a thicker skin if you're going to be a teen mom. People are very mean to my two friends who had teenage pregnancies and treat them like they are trailor trash even though one of them has become very successful later in life.
um, no. 90% of the comments were very rude and uncalled for. yes, i am 18, and still in school, but i am very mature and so is my FI. we know whats coming and if we didnt and only wanted a baby just cuz, then we wouldnt be trying and i wouldnt even be on this site. and i wouldnt have to listen to any of this crap all you people have given me. if we didnt think we could do it and raise a child like every freakin body else, then we would wait.

Wait I thought you were 17. Get your story straight.

bitty94 · August 2012

you guys are so cute. mwah

bettywhitettgp · August 2012

OP and TeenMom are not the only annoying posters in this thread. Just sayin'!

TeamAwesomeBaby · August 2012

bitty94:
you guys are so cute. mwah

Can you tell us what you think the hardest part about having a baby is going to be?

MsCraftsy · August 2012

TeamAwesomeBaby:
bitty94:
you guys are so cute. mwah

Can you tell us what you think the hardest part about having a baby is going to be?

Oh. Yes! Please respond to this question.

You are so witty young padiwan. Don't listen to these mean bishes! They are just jelly of you and your youth!

Also, I totes missed your other post. You're 17? That's coolsy! How are you going to provide for this child? What type of educational background do you have? Are you on your parents insurance or do you have medical insurance? What about maternity insurance? Do you have your own place? What about savings? Who is going to take care of the baby when you're at school?

Oh! And totes tell me about your FI! I bet he's o-some!

mitzidanny · August 2012

TeamAwesomeBaby:
bitty94:
you guys are so cute. mwah

Can you tell us what you think the hardest part about having a baby is going to be?

I dont think she realizes they will actually give her a little human to take home once she gives birth... it will spit, poop, pee... cry when he/she is hungry sleepy, sick, tired, annoyed, warm, cold.... it will need a crib, car seat, dippers like there is no tomorrow, clothes every month or so, formula (which by the way is crazy expensive), bibs, pacifiers... i can go on and on....

if she really is mature she wont get past the first line, ITS A LITTLE HUMAN, not a puppy! it will require ALL of your attention...

**sorry guys i went caps crazy for a second....

TeamAwesomeBaby · August 2012

mitzidanny:
TeamAwesomeBaby:
bitty94:
you guys are so cute. mwah

Can you tell us what you think the hardest part about having a baby is going to be?
I dont think she realizes they will actually give her a little human to take home once she gives birth... it will spit, poop, pee... cry when he/she is hungry sleepy, sick, tired, annoyed, warm, cold.... it will need a crib, car seat, dippers like there is no tomorrow, clothes every month or so, formula (which by the way is crazy expensive), bibs, pacifiers... i can go on and on....
if she really is mature she wont get past the first line, ITS A LITTLE HUMAN, not a puppy! it will require ALL of your attention...
**sorry guys i went caps crazy for a second....

I'm just genuinely curious. I've heard a lot from her about why she thinks she's ready for a baby, but she hasn't acknowledged what will be difficult. I want to know what sacrifices she thinks she'll be making, and what she's nervous about. In the thread she deleted, I suggested she try nannying or volunteering at a local preschool, since she obviously loves kids. It would also be a good opportunity to see both sides of the coin.

Anyway, bitty, if you're still reading - what specifically do you think are the hard parts about having a baby? I'm not asking to make fun; I really do want to know your answer.

peanutmuse · August 2012

I'm a bit of an unusual participant on this board. I don't care about DDs. Drive-by BFPs...meh, whatever, I just ignore them. Stupid questions? Yup, just ignore those too. The one thing that gets on my nerves is people like OP who think they have become queen of what other people can and can't say on this board.

beth9409 · August 2012

momofone0901:

people come here because they are excited and many seeking the unknown. they ask questions because they know you have been or are in their shoes. if someone asks a question that you could easily answer, either ignore it or answer it. no need for snarky remarks and re-directs to the newbie board.

Just wanted to point out that it is a thread within TTGP and not another board. It was created so that people could get a lot of information in one post. It will answer a lot of the basic TTC questions.

SkyBee · August 2012

bitty94:
CLECyclist:

bitty94:
um, no. 90% of the comments were very rude and uncalled for. yes, i am 18, and still in school, but i am very mature and so is my FI. we know whats coming and if we didnt and only wanted a baby just cuz, then we wouldnt be trying and i wouldnt even be on this site. and i wouldnt have to listen to any of this crap all you people have given me. if we didnt think we could do it and raise a child like every freakin body else, then we would wait.

All you're doing is proving (again and again) how immature you truly are.

how? please tell me how. so i can fix this and be perfect for you

For one, educated and mature adults use capitalization. Oh and they also don't get upset when people share sound advice........... especially when it is asked for. Take it or leave it, but it is true that most would consider 18 too young to go and try to get pregnant, including me.

hopeful808 · August 2012

Am I the only one who is finding this post hilarious?

bettywhitettgp · August 2012

ChancieMark:
bettywhitettgp:
OP and TeenMom are not the only annoying posters in this thread. Just sayin'!

TTGP: It's repetitive and redundant OR same sh!t different day. I am easily bored with the shenanigans and crazy PWing in this place!

HppyMommaOfOne · August 2012

I have found a couple other sites/forums/boards MUCH better than this(twoweekwait.com/babyandbump.com). I'm glad you said something, This is my last post and I'm out. Deleting my account, NEVER coming back. These women first off have no lives (when you look at their post count and it's 500-over a thousand!) REALLY?! I'm sorry the rest of use HAVE LIVES. I have a child to take care of and was hoping to come here for the occasional support, NOT THE CASE. Even with a legit question you still get constant attitude. You can reply, but I'm not going to see any of it. Have a fun time being BITTER ladies.

P.S. TRY BEING NICE TO PEOPLE WHO DON'T OR BARELY POST AND GET BFP. Y'ALL ARE WAY TOO BITTER TO EVEN NICELY CONGRAT THEM.

sad...

WorkinWeezel · August 2012

hey, it's Tuesday

KdgTeacher · August 2012

HppyMommaOfOne:

I have found a couple other sites/forums/boards MUCH better than this(twoweekwait.com/babyandbump.com). I'm glad you said something, This is my last post and I'm out. Deleting my account, NEVER coming back. These women first off have no lives (when you look at their post count and it's 500-over a thousand!) REALLY?! I'm sorry the rest of use HAVE LIVES. I have a child to take care of and was hoping to come here for the occasional support, NOT THE CASE. Even with a legit question you still get constant attitude. You can reply, but I'm not going to see any of it. Have a fun time being BITTER ladies.

P.S. TRY BEING NICE TO PEOPLE WHO DON'T OR BARELY POST AND GET BFP. Y'ALL ARE WAY TOO BITTER TO EVEN NICELY CONGRAT THEM.

sad...

Email community@thebump.com and they'll get that account deleted for ya!

Buuuh-bye!

HappyCraftyMama · August 2012

LOL. I love this thread! I am new here, but you all are nuts. I like it.

PrimRoseMama · August 2012

HppyMommaOfOne:
I have found a couple other sites/forums/boards MUCH better than this(twoweekwait.com/babyandbump.com). I'm glad you said something, This is my last post and I'm out. Deleting my account, NEVER coming back. These women first off have no lives (when you look at their post count and it's 500-over a thousand!) REALLY?! I'm sorry the rest of use HAVE LIVES. I have a child to take care of and was hoping to come here for the occasional support, NOT THE CASE. Even with a legit question you still get constant attitude. You can reply, but I'm not going to see any of it. Have a fun time being BITTER ladies.

P.S. TRY BEING NICE TO PEOPLE WHO DON'T OR BARELY POST AND GET BFP. Y'ALL ARE WAY TOO BITTER TO EVEN NICELY CONGRAT THEM.

sad...

I have a life and it is considerably more entertaining for the bump.

I take care of my kid just fine thank you.

You have a serious case of Stupid, so its probably pointless to explain, but the drive-by's don't contribute anything. They just want to announce to us that they are pregnant. Well, that's great, but we don't care because you haven't done anything for us either.

Nice with the bitter card. I'm not bitter, asshat, I'm sweet and sour.

BankerBSN · August 2012

Just to be fair, my siggy have a warning blinkie that I am a witch. YW.

SpartanGirl24 · August 2012

PrimRoseMama:

Nice with the bitter card. I'm not bitter, asshat, I'm sweet and sour.

I heart you. Lol

PrimRoseMama · August 2012

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SpartanGirl24:
PrimRoseMama:

Nice with the bitter card. I'm not bitter, asshat, I'm sweet and sour.
I heart you. Lol

Cool Angel

Spookster · August 2012

OP

pgermain11 · August 2012

hjk5000:

I can't express how much I laughed at the O RLY owl as well as this entire thread.

RDK24 · August 2012

Thanks for the evening entertainment, folks! I needed this today. The lack of punctuation, grammar and spelling from certain posters, on the other hand, has made me feel stabby. Off to find some wine ...

leasaj · August 2012

I responded to a post earlier today apologizing to someone for other ppl's comments b/c of these same issues. I was ripped apart (even sent very nasty personal messages). Please don't think that everyone is mean-spirited.

BellaLux · August 2012

bettywhitettgp:
OP and TeenMom are not the only annoying posters in this thread. Just sayin'!

Yes indeed!

JilllyBean · August 2012

Most people get butthurt when they don't lurk and just post right away with some ridiculous question. If you did lurk, I promise you would learn a lot and not get so bent out of shape. I just can't comprehend how people come on and post here without lurking first, just to check things out. It boggles my mind.

Erin90210girl · August 2012

PrimRoseMama:
davis0905:
If there was a "like" button, I was "like" your post a hundred times over. Despite what you have experienced so far, there are people here who can offer sensitivity and will give you the support you are reqesting and certainly deserve. So I hope you'll stick around. Snarks aka Bullies are everywhere and probably are found in higher numbers on community forums...it sucks but you just gotta ignore them and don't give them the attention they are so despereately seeking.
Who are you & why are you so butthurt? If you are going to endorse whiny douchebiitches then why don't you stick to FB & not worry your pretty little head about what goes on here?

I think you need more material. We get it, you like to say butthurt. While I am at it, I feel like you have a compiled list of all the common phrases and answers used on this board and throw them into every single one of your posts. Not very original and makes it look like you are trying way to hard. Now that I got that off my chest I am going to go eat dinner with my hubby and/or hubs and/or hubster.

Rdautenhahn · August 2012

If you lurked you would have seen the snark and you should have known this is not the place for you. I don't post often, but I have found a wealth of knowledge here from the women.

I love these posts. - Grown women (and a random 17 year old) basically throwing a temper tantrum cause someone was "mean" to them. If you are so hurt by these posts I seriously wonder what you do for a living. Since you have been so shocked that people actually have their own opinions.

JilllyBean · August 2012

bdcram:
Erin90210girl:
PrimRoseMama:
davis0905:
If there was a "like" button, I was "like" your post a hundred times over. Despite what you have experienced so far, there are people here who can offer sensitivity and will give you the support you are reqesting and certainly deserve. So I hope you'll stick around. Snarks aka Bullies are everywhere and probably are found in higher numbers on community forums...it sucks but you just gotta ignore them and don't give them the attention they are so despereately seeking.
Who are you & why are you so butthurt? If you are going to endorse whiny douchebiitches then why don't you stick to FB & not worry your pretty little head about what goes on here?
I think you need more material. We get it, you like to say butthurt. While I am at it, I feel like you have a compiled list of all the common phrases and answers used on this board and throw them into every single one of your posts. Not very original and makes it look like you are trying way to hard. Now that I got that off my chest I am going to go eat dinner with my hubby and/or hubs and/or hubster.
Win.

Dont forget Hubasaurus. I've been thinking this lately too!

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