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December 2010 Moms
Serendipity117
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"When are you due?"
Serendipity117
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DHs coworker just asked me this. I really didn't know how to react so I just played iit off like it was funny, joking that G was 3 months old already. I'm pretty sure the guys wife wanted to smack him.
Now that we're on our way home I just feel like I want to cry. Don't get me wrongn I still have a bunch of weight to lose before I reach my goal but I sure didn't think I looked pregnant anymore. So far I've lost all the baby weight plus a little. Right now my self esteem is just shot. 
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Re: "When are you due?"
Ugh, men can be soooo dense! Sorry this happened to you. Great job on all of the weight loss and I bet you look awesome.
It happened to me too and it was actually a woman that I asked me! It was some of our neighbors that saw me at the drug store and I when I was due. He was pretty young and I told them I'd already had him, dropped everything I was holding, and start crying. See, you held it together much better than I did!
Uggghhh!! Who The F asks that!
3 days after I had hazel I was working at my studio's dance recital when a mom goes "I thought you already had your child" and I was like beast you saw me a week ago, are you standing here telling me I look just as pregnant as I did right before giving birth! I really just said "yeah I did" but I was so mad and I had been feeling really skinny up until that point too since I had just dropped half the weight I gained during pregnancy.
Some people are so freaking insensitive.
Ginny DX 21-Hydroxylase Deficiency Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia
Charlie DX Specific Antibody Deficiency & ASD
Chalk that up to a being a man! And 3 months is no time at all, so no need to feel badly!
How many people have told you "You look great!" after you say your baby is 3 months old? I bet a whole bunch! Try to think of them!
Gah! Some people are so dumb. I'm sure he's just a clueless man who kind or sort of remembered you were pregnant at one time. Dummy!