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Warning DS mentioned - Birth month boards

cmenascocmenasco member
in Late Term and Child Loss
I have a almost 20 month old son and I use to lurking on all sorts of boards.  2 under 2, 12-24 month old, attachment parenting, eco-friendly board, and DS birth month, Dec 2010 board.  I haven't once been able to go to Oct 2012 board to see how all the other mama's are doing with their pregnancy.  Now it seems that everywhere I go there is mention of a baby being born, pregnancy or other things that bring me to tears.  Today I was looking at his birth month board to look for help on sleeping and BAM, there are multiple post about babies (2nd LO being born).  I guess it's just you ladies I can visit right now, or I just better stay away from the bump all together....
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Re: Warning DS mentioned - Birth month boards

  • MeggM1MeggM1 member
    I haven't been to the July 2011 BMB that I was originally a part of since my loss.  I can't bear to see twin moms due around the same time as me and their twin children thriving, and sometimes it's really hard to even see little girls the same age as my surviving twin son.  It's taken some self control at times but it's definitely been in my best interest to avoid that board.  To that end I haven't even visited the January 2013 board for my rainbow pregnancy.  I would be the cynical pregnant lady that can't say anything positive, so I stick here and most recently started branching out on the Pregnant After a Loss board.  Totally okay to stick where you are comfortable!
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  • lmielocl1lmielocl1 member

    I am so sorry!!  I too have an almost 22 month old son so I know how you are feeling. You are not alone!!  ((Hugs))

    - Leslie 

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  • ally2011ally2011 member

    I would encourage you to stay away from many of those boards, and especially BMB.  The times I have been back to the Sept 2011 board I have ended up in a funk for the day.  

    I am so sorry for your loss, we are all  here for you.

    Hugs,
    Jenn 

    We are so thankful that our second daughter, Lillian Elizabeth "Lily", was born healthy and happy on February 11, 2013.  We love her to pieces.  

    We lost our first daughter, Hannah Grace on May 4, 2011.  She was buried on May 14 during a beautiful service at my home church. We are grateful that if she could not be here with us, that she is healed and whole with the Lord. We look forward to the day when we will get to meet her. We love her so much.


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