It's fairly early for me, I'm probably only 10 or 11 DPO right now, but I've gotten 2 days of faint lines. So, a line is a line right?
I'm 39, DH is 41 and we've been trying for 3 months. So, needless to say w/all the info out there about "older" couples and their struggles to conceive, we're still standing around a little gobsmacked that this is happening so fast.
I went online to my doctor's appt portal and put in my request for my first appt today. I left a message saying I used a wondfo & frer, got light lines on both. I figured I was about 10DPO, but didn't temp just used a CBFM, so couldn't be sure.
Well, what I put in the comments apparently confounded them, so I got a call about it! Just about one of the funniest calls I've ever received. The girl was trying SO hard to be professional, but clearly there had been some conversation behind the scenes about the bat$hit crazy old pregnant lady leaving cryptic messages.
The only thing that made me go hmmmm, was the question tinged w/surprise, "So, this was a planned pregnancy?" Anyone else get that question from scheduling staff? Thought it was a little inappropriate, but maybe it's de rigeur?
Anyhow- HI! I'm happy to join you!
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Welcome and congrats! I agree with PP. I went in for Blood work on 3 separate occasions (in week 5). They checked both HcG and Progesterone numbers each time. Not sure if this is their norm or because I was 38 at the time? Then saw the OB for 1st appointment between week 7 and 8.
The early blood work definitely gave me peace of mind as early on I didn't have very many pregnancy symptoms other than sore breasts.
Again, welcome...congrats...and best wishes for a healthy 9 months!
Congrats and Welcome!
What kind of dumb arsh question is that?! Was it planned? Weird.
Well I asked a friend if this is something that should raise a flag, but she said it can be pretty normal. Partic if it's a place that will give you resources if it's not planned and you would want other options. So, I'm just chalking it up to standard protocol.
Thanks for the welcome!
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YAY! That's so exciting! Here's to a healthy 9 months!
Like you I was 39 and my SO was 40 when we started TTC. It took us 4 mos and I was so dang ecstatic. I was prepared to try for a year.
I also got a lot of people asking if it was planned. Stupid people. I don't remember if anyone from my Dr.s office actually asked that though. I think people assume that because we are "older" that it was an accident. That people actually ask though is beyond rude.
I think the OB's office asks in case you have been "partying" and/or taking vitamins and meds.
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Congratulations and welcome. I'm new here too.
When I called my Dr.s office I told them I had been to a Reproductive Endochrinologist, so they new it was planned and they tagged me as a follow up visit since I already have confirmation from a doctor. This way they won't re-run the blood work.
I do think it is weird for them to ask if it was planned, but it may be standard.
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Welcome! The midwife I saw at my first appointment did ask if this was a planned pregnancy, but only after I told her that my kids are 9 and 6. She didn't say anything about my age, but when I told her how old my kids are, she said, "Oh, that's a big space. Were you trying to get pregnant?" In our case, the answer is no. We are quite surprised!
So, you must be do in April? I had my two children in April and in June. Spring is such a wonderful time to have a baby! This surprise child of ours is due in January. Not so idea, but oh well!