What bugs you way more than it should?
People stepping on the back of my flip flop makes me IRATE. Like, I can't even handle it. Not just when I'm a pregnantbitch, either, but always. My sister stepped on the back of my flip flop at Disney World one time and I knocked her ice cream cone out of her hand. THAT'S WHAT YOU GET.
Now you go.
Re: your irrational pet peeves?
DF is terrible about this...
he'll start a conversation with something like "did i tell you what happened today?" i'll answer "no what happened?" and then silence.
that irks me to no end lol sometimes i have to repeat myself 2 or 3 times to get him to tell me whatever it is he wants to tell me.
Elizabeth Grace 11.20.05 Nora June 7.15.08 Beatrix Catherine 9.4.12
Awesome haha.
When I'm walking down an empty hallway towards a person and they stare at the ground or at the other wall and don't even make the slightest eye contact as you near each other. Socially awkward much? I'm totally looking at you, newbie employee on the 2nd floor.
People that park their shopping carts in aisle of the grocery store. It drives me crazy!!!! It just goes to the whole entitlement issues of our country, IMO. They don't give a crap, nor consider others... all they think about is themselves... Makes my skin itch!!!!
When it happens, I just move their cart and proceed. I get glared at sometimes, but I make my point.....
YES! Ugh! I always try to think that they must be on their way to labor and delivery.
I get pissed off when people are in a good mood and I'm crabby.
I also get pissed off when people are in a bad mood and I'm happy.
I wish people would just share my mood all the time.
Hey - you said irrational, right?
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10.03.12 at 41w5d
OMGYES. Why?????
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anderson . september 2008
vivian . february 2010
mabel . august 2012
When a table that I know was seated after me gets served first. This happened on Saturday when H and I went out for breakfast. I was incredibly hungry anyway, but we had already been seated for five minutes when the table next to us was seated. The server took drink orders from the other table first, brought out their coffee/juice/water, then came to our table for our orders (and damn it, I needed my caffeine, so this did not sit well with me). He would have taken their food order first, too, but H and I had already decided, so we just ordered with our drinks.
I got way more pissed than was probably reasonable.
I hate this too! I just noticed the other day that my oldest guy plastered the side window with angry bird stickers he got at a bday party. I have yet to peel them off, because I am too lazy. I think I will make him do it as punishment for sticking them there in the first place!
A few things at the grocery store:
-When people stop to talk in the middle of the aisle and block the whole thing so no one can get by. They're always totally oblivious they're doing it which makes it much more frustrating.
-When I'm looking at something and someone comes and stands in front of me to look at something. Not to quickly grab something, but to stand there and compare products.
-When I stop my cart so someone can get by me and then someone behind me cuts in and goes around. Yeah, I was just standing there for fun.
People (mostly co-workers) who want to have conversations before 10:00 AM.
It is 7:56 AM. I have only been awake for a little over 75 minutes and I'm hardly sleeping 4 hours a night. Please allow me to consume a caffeinated beverage and sit here in my quiet little silence, listening to the radio, before you come in here and initiate a conversation with me. I cannot fake the enthusiasm before 10 AM, so come back later. Kthxbi.
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You should come live in a college town. Never, ever have I been around such self absorption. Fall semester starts in a month, and I am totally dreading it. Going to the grocery store is next to impossible because they are the absolute worst about parking in the middle of the aisle and then striking up conversations with people they know or taking 3 hours to peruse products. I can't tell you how many times I've needed to be admitted to a mental institution after grocery shopping. It's as if no one else exists except for other college students.
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going off of this, I HATE it when people leave their shopping carts to roll around the parking lot. Yesterday I watched a lady leave a cart in the lot..even though she was literally parked RIGHT next to a corral for them. Lazy much?
I hate when smokers leave their butts everywhere..especially when people throw them out the window while driving. It's disgusting. Most of the trash collected at beach cleanups and highway cleanups are cigarette butts.
I agree with aurora though..I don't think that my pet peeves are irrational ;-)
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DS September 2012
Good one. Drives me crazy, too. Texas has a program where you can go online and report litterbugs. You give the license plate # and time/place of the incident, and the litterer is sent a letter about the incident along with a litter bag for their car. I kept a note pad in my center console when we lived in TX just for this purpose. Who knows if it would change anyone's ways (you probably suck as a human if you'd throw garbage out your window in the first place), but it made me feel a whole lot better.
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anderson . september 2008
vivian . february 2010
mabel . august 2012
1. When people drive 60 mph or less in the far left lane. MOVE!
2. When people at work walk up to my area, see me on the phone, and decide to wait for me to get off the phone. Go away! I'll either come to you when I'm done, or you can just come back later.
3. When people stretch over my food.
4. When people ask 'Can I ask you a question?' Hello, you just asked me a question, silly! Just ask the darn question. Don't ask me a question to ask me a question, KWIM.
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People who chew ice. The sounds is like nails on a chalkboard to me.
Even more irrational? Ticking clocks. DH and I have three clocks in the house that are now no more than wall art. Why? I had to take the batteries out because they ticked too loudly. No one else ever noticed, but I swear I could hear them when I was rooms away.
Voicemail, at least on cell phones, and especially when it's, "Hey, it's mom, call me back."
I can see you called. You left nothing important in your vm. Send me a text if you want a response ASAP as I can do that from my desk.
1. When my neighbors bang on the wall because I'm apparently being too loud. Yes - because banging on the wall a million times to tell me to shut up when I'm closing a stuck closet door will make things better. Your banging was more noise than my shutting the door. That happened this morning, and I purposely slammed a door shut before leaving. They're gonna hate me when I have a newborn.
2. People who drive the same speed as me and I'm in the slow lane. Speed the fluck up or slow down and get behind me. You're in the fast lane - MOVE ON MAN.
3. This is more a pregnancy one - when people say "You poor thing, being pregnant during the summer. You must be dying! Bet next time you won't get pregnant during the summer!" The heat isn't killing me; the non-stop nausea I experienced up until two weeks ago was killing me. That's why we have A/C in our cars and buildings people - I'm not gonna melt. Geez.
THIS. Drives me absolutely insane. I have to drive in traffic every morning to go to work. A LOT of people do this. I just don't understand it.
I also cannot stand when people who are entering the freeway use the merging lane to cut in front of as many cars as they can. Uh, hello, you don't have the right of way douchebag. I purposely do whatever I can to make sure they don't cut in front of me.
THIS! I will even put half my car in the ending lane and half in my lane so these douches can't pass... I got over ages ago because I know how to read, what is their excuse?!
lol. Better than this is the creepy guy at my work who, rather than say hello when passing in the hall, just does this weird eyebrow raise. He looks like a predator.
Exaaaactly!
I can't stand when people drive less than the speed limit, or almost come to a complete stop to turn a corner. It invokes feelings of road rage in me.
I also can't stand posts on Facebook that go something like.."The worst thing ever just happened! - Ugh!" Either tell the story or don't put it on Facebook. I am not going to ask what happened, especially if I know you won't reply anyway. My future SIL does this sort of thing all the time. It makes me feel stabby.
This is also one of my top peeves. Also, if they aren't currently passing anyone, they need to move over! They have no business in the left lane if they aren't. In Germany, you get tickets for this. I think they have it figured out, IMO....
BIG ONE. Yes. This random acquaintance of mine got a so-so point and shoot camera two weeks ago, and since then has been doing nothing but posting her "photo shoots" on FB. The pics are not even close to being good, and again, she's using some dinky little camera to take them. Then she started incessantly pinning photography ideas on Pinterest, and EACH ONE is posting to her FB. I just saw last night that she responded to a compliment on her pic with "thanks! I'm hoping to get my business going before Christmas!" OMG NOOOOOOO.
I need to defriend, I think.
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anderson . september 2008
vivian . february 2010
mabel . august 2012
I have a relative who notoriously posts things like "just never thought it could feel this bad!" or "I'M SO OVER IT" or whatever, baiting people into asking her what's wrong. Which nobody does. Clear sign that you need to step away from FB, relative, because NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR NONSENSE.
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anderson . september 2008
vivian . february 2010
mabel . august 2012
Cooper Edward
9.25.12
THIS. i have actually defriended people for this. it's immature and it drives me nuts. stabby...very.
this might be a regional thing, i dunno. but i HATE when power companies take giant chunks out of trees to make room for power lines. it looks RIDICULOUS and it makes me actually get super pissed off when i see it. it cracks DH up to no end, but it makes me BSC!
YES. Which reminds me, I still need to read Tom Vanderbilt's book Traffic: Why We Drive the Way We Do (And What it Says About Us). I heard about it a few years back on NPR (article here).
In general, all available traffic lanes should be used as long as they are available and "valid." This means if there's a sign saying "lane ends 1000 feet," drivers should continue to use that lane until the actual merge point. This does not mean that drivers should use an exit lane to pass other traffic, then cut back into regular traffic.
I hate it as much as others here when people break traffic rules, but continuing to use a valid lane of travel for as long as possible is smart and improves traffic flow overall. The assholes are the people who refuse to let those drivers in because they think the other driver "cheated."
Couldn't agree more. I always move people's carts for them. Especially when I've stood there patiently for a little bit, expecting them to GET THE POINT. Those people and the ones who think they should both stop in the same place, pointing the opposite way and blocking the whole aisle. Grrrrr.
On the 4th of July, my husband and I saw a red convertible with 4 young guys do this - RACING along the shoulder as we were at a standstill - and were both irritated. A few minutes later, as traffic moved along, we saw that he had been pulled over a few blocks up...it was the best. We seriously both had grins from ear to ear!