My parents live out of state, and I wanted to tell them first, before we tell my ILs, because ILs already have 4 grandkids and I'm an only child. H and I threw around some ideas for how to tell them, and he finally came up with "Let's get them a sympathy card that says "I"m so sorry" on the outside and blank on the inside, and then write "that you're so old you're going to be grandparents.'" I laughed.
Yeah, we're actually doing it. I can't wait to hear my mom's reaction.
Re: H is a bit of a troll
2010: 41 books, 2011: 31 books, 2012: 100 books
With our first we didn't tell anyone until the second trimester. MH, his sister, his brother, my brother, and my brother-in-law all have April birthdays so we just do one big April birthday celebration. The date of the party worked out perfect for our announcement, so I told them that we would get the cake. We wrote on the cake Happy Birthday Rob, Deb, Mike, Daddy, and Dale! Unfortunately, no one got it. My brother-in-law was skyping from California so MH kept holding up the cake and asking him if he could read it. My FIL was videotaping and actually turned it off before anyone figured out who Daddy was.
This time we are putting the baby in a onesie that says Cutest Big Sister. We'll see how long it takes for someone to figure it out