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lmb5109 · July 2012

T&P to you, your family, and your beautiful daughter! Know that she will be watching over you.

Starfish+77 · July 2012

I've been following your posts and you've been in my thoughts often. Was so hoping for a different outcome for you. So very sorry to read this! You'll continue to be in my thoughts and prayers, hope to see you back here soon!

GHBEA · July 2012

I am very sorry.

jaimeCRN · July 2012

I am so incredibly sorry. ((hugs))

JenniatONU · July 2012

I'm so very sorry. My thoughts are with you and your husband.

Meagan0528 · July 2012

Lots and lots and lots of thoughts and prayers for you and your husband. Take care of each other, and best of luck in the future.

orgnlmama · July 2012

I am so sorry that you had to make this decision. I wish you peace in the up coming weeks. The Loss Board are for women with later pregnancy losses, like yourself as well as infant and child loss. It may be a source of comfort for you. I will keep you, your family and your baby girl in my prayers.

mrs.kapow · July 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss and will be thinking of you and your husband as you handle this together.

Dawnson · July 2012

I am so sorry! Sending thoughts, prayers, and hugs!

happilyeverafterxo · July 2012

Oh my goodness...I am truly sorry that you ever had to make such a decision...I am praying for you and your family and will continue to do so in the coming weeks. I am so, so, sorry

angelsmile · July 2012

I can't even imagine what you are going through, but I hope that He brings you peace and blesses you again when you are ready.

shoehussy · July 2012

I am so sorry! I just said a prayer for you and your family. Stay strong and God will get you through this.

ChristinaBRN · July 2012

So so sorry for your loss

jg1011 · July 2012

Sending you many thoughts and prayers and you and your husband navigate this very difficult time. I am sure that God will be walking with you through this....take the strength that you need to grieve together. God Bless you and your family. I hope and pray you will be back here posting really soon!

MamaToOne2010 · July 2012

Hi,

I am so terribly sorry for your news! I just feel like I should tell you that God will always be with you and see you through anything! However, all babies belong to God, birth defects or not! I was born with Spina Bifida and doctors told my parents (before I was born) that I'd never walk, be mentally incapable, die young, etc.....

But because of God's wonderful love for His children, he healed me from all the doctor's predictions and I am 24 living life fully have my own kids, etc.

Don't give up on your baby, please!!! God bless, t&p for you either way!!

-With love

Little Dawson · July 2012

I'm very sorry you had to make this decision, it is not an easy one to make. I've talked over and over with my husband, and I believe we would make the same decision. I hope you know we are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers and that you find healing.

CP0979 · July 2012

I'm so sorry. I will pray for u and your LO.

myco bonnie · July 2012

I'm so very sorry to hear this. I can't imagine what you must be going though. My thoughts are with you.

Mama2one2010: I'm sure that this isn't a decision OP has made lightly, or without due consideration. This is a decision that primarily concerns her family and her body, and a decision that deserves support and respect without judgement.

sebailey6 · July 2012

myco bonnie:

I'm so very sorry to hear this. I can't imagine what you must be going though. My thoughts are with you.

Mama2one2010: I'm sure that this isn't a decision OP has made lightly, or without due consideration. This is a decision that primarily concerns her family and her body, and a decision that deserves support and respect without judgement.

@mycobonnie: Thank you so much for your support without judgement as well as your kind thoughts and respect! We are in a vulnerable state right now and need all the thought, prayers, love, and respect we can get...without judgement.

@ everyone else: All I have to say is wow! I logged out yesterday with about 15 replies...and logged back in this morning to see an outpouring of thoughts and prayers. We need as many prayer warriors as we can get at this point. This was not a decision made on a whim by any means. To say that this is the most difficult decision ever is an UNDERSTATEMENT. I can't even put into words what this feels like for my husband and I. But we are eternally grateful for all your support and thoughts and prayers. My whole family and I are a united front in this life changing event. And I thank God, most of all, for my husband and all of our family standing behind us. So thank you again...definitely continue to pray for our days to come. Btw, our baby girl's name is KALANI...which happens to mean THE HEAVEN. Which is where she will be safe in God's hand and beside my mom.

MamaToOne2010 · July 2012

I didn't intend to be judgmental, I know you didn't make the decision on a whim by any means, I just wanted to say that all children are miracles and even with birth defects, they can live very happy lives as long as their family loves and supports them. I know because I am living proof!

I just think all babies deserve a chance at life, but as I said before I will pray for you and SO no matter what you decide to do!!

sebailey6 · July 2012

MamaToOne2010:

I didn't intend to be judgmental, I know you didn't make the decision on a whim by any means, I just wanted to say that all children are miracles and even with birth defects, they can live very happy lives as long as their family loves and supports them. I know because I am living proof!

I just think all babies deserve a chance at life, but as I said before I will pray for you and SO no matter what you decide to do!!

I understand. And thank you.

NoeliaV · July 2012

I am so very sorry for you and your sweet baby girl. Many good thoughts and prayers for you.

Mrs.RockyM · July 2012

I'm so sorry. I'll definitely be thinking about you and your family.

LuckyMissus · July 2012

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious Kalani. I love the name, I'm sure it's as beautiful as her.

sebailey6 · July 2012

LuckyMissus:

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious Kalani. I love the name, I'm sure it's as beautiful as her.

We chose her name even before we got married and pregnant:) So how fitting that heaven will be her home??

pinitbaby · July 2012

So sorry to hear, I wish you all peace in your decision and hope to see you back one day xo

Jacquiemark · July 2012

I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you through this difficult time.

daniellerm23 · July 2012

Wow, this is difficult. I am so very sorry to read about this and that you are going through this. Thinking about you through this difficult time!

jessalared · July 2012

sebailey6:
LuckyMissus:

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious Kalani. I love the name, I'm sure it's as beautiful as her.

We chose her name even before we got married and pregnant:) So how fitting that heaven will be her home??

You have a great attitude, you can tell god is helping you through this. He needed her a bit early and she will be in good hands. Kalani is beautiful

sebailey6 · July 2012

jessalared:
sebailey6:
LuckyMissus:

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious Kalani. I love the name, I'm sure it's as beautiful as her.

It has to be God giving me strength to face this...because if I had to do it without His grace I wouldn't be able to.

We chose her name even before we got married and pregnant:) So how fitting that heaven will be her home??

You have a great attitude, you can tell god is helping you through this. He needed her a bit early and she will be in good hands. Kalani is beautiful

elizb137 · July 2012

I know I'm late on this, but just wanted to let you know that you're in my prayers, and you and your family will continue to be in my prayers during this awful and difficult time. I know my DH and I would make the same choice, as heartbreaking as that is. Try to take comfort that sweet Kalani is a beautiful child that God will take good care of in Heaven. My heart is with you all.

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