Here goes:
My husband gets up when the baby gets up, and I sleep in a little (or a lot if he works a later shift). It started out in the early days, b/c DH has always said if he wakes up, he's up for good and can't go back. I am NOT that way, so when LO wasn't STTN yet, he would get him in the morning and let me rest more. The habit has just continued, and sometimes I feel a little guilty Then sometimes I don't! I have to admit, I didn't want to FF, but this is a perk I enjoy!
Re: FFFC
This is exactly how it is in our house but the exact opposite. I am just like YH, if I wake up in the middle of the night, I am up for good. I have an extremely hard time falling back to sleep. If I actually can do it, it will take me hours.
MH always listens to the monitor during the night and if needed he will get up in the middle of the night (which is extremely rare). I have no problem waking early so I get up with him around 6am and let MH sleep until I leave for work at 8:30am since he works in the afternoon and takes care of him during he day hours.
This. In recent weeks M has been waking up crying or screaming. He's sick now (as am I) and I've been up since about 1 or 1:30 this morning because he screamed most of the night. I'm exhausted but have him home with me today because he had a fever this morning and couldn't go to daycare. DH is working today and all weekend as well so I'm dealing with this all by myself. I sometimes wonder if I'll ever get a good nights' sleep again.
Hang in there ladies! I'm sure when they are teens we wont be able to get them out of bed!
If DS wakes any time before 7, I don't get him. Not once has he started crying and fallen back to sleep, but I'm sure that will come one of these days.