A - I do think that we need to initiate sexting to our SOs.
B - I have never in my life "flicked the bean" or however that was phrased.
WHA?
Swear.
Oh my...........some of my O are better by myself LOL! Plus, I would have never made it through the deployments (DH is in the Army) if I didn't diddle my skittle
The skittle talk has to stop, LMAO All that keeps going through my mind is "Taste the rainbow"
I think the BMB are always a little more hush hush about these types of things, for some reason.
I used to initiate Sexting days where the girls would send sexts to their DH/SO and we would respond back with what they said. It was pretty hilarious.
I remember that. Was it 3-6?
me: Reverse cowgirl?
DH: be home in 5
:note his office is 45 minutes away
Sadly, DH knows I'm a big tease and will be too tired to do anything when DS goes to bed.
ha-ha reverse cowgirl for the win! ha-ha those were good times.
A - I do think that we need to initiate sexting to our SOs.
B - I have never in my life "flicked the bean" or however that was phrased.
never? EVER? I am not buying it.
No, I swear to you. I was never that curious about sex or anything sex related prior to losing my virginity... and then once I started to have sex, that was enough for me. For me personally, I would never have been able to masturbate while dating someone because I would have felt unfaithful (Crazy, I know). And then any period of time that I was single, I didn't feel like I needed the "release" and so I've done just fine.
and even now, you never have the urge to just....release? I think you should try it one rainy Saturday when DH is out of the house.
A - I do think that we need to initiate sexting to our SOs.
B - I have never in my life "flicked the bean" or however that was phrased.
never? EVER? I am not buying it.
Maybe she's never "flicked the bean" because she's too busy showing her Rabbit her hole. Although, I believe the Rabbit's ears would most likely be considered "flicking the bean."
No joke. You lost me.
ha-ha the rabbit is supposed to be the best toy ever made. It's not bad but after you use it enough the beads get all wonky and it's just not the same. Or was that just mine? LOL
A - I do think that we need to initiate sexting to our SOs.
B - I have never in my life "flicked the bean" or however that was phrased.
never? EVER? I am not buying it.
Maybe she's never "flicked the bean" because she's too busy showing her Rabbit her hole. Although, I believe the Rabbit's ears would most likely be considered "flicking the bean."
No joke. You lost me.
ha-ha the rabbit is supposed to be the best toy ever made. It's not bad but after you use it enough the beads get all wonky and it's just not the same. Or was that just mine? LOL
HAHA, are you like Charlotte on Sex and the City, where the girls had to host an intervention because Charlotte wasn't leaving her apartment anymore and began a relationship with the rabbit?
Me: 27 DH: 28
Diagnosis: PCOS, irregular cycles, old lady eggs. DH is fine.
Started TTC in January 2010. BFP December 25, 2011 between IF appts.
A - I do think that we need to initiate sexting to our SOs.
B - I have never in my life "flicked the bean" or however that was phrased.
never? EVER? I am not buying it.
Maybe she's never "flicked the bean" because she's too busy showing her Rabbit her hole. Although, I believe the Rabbit's ears would most likely be considered "flicking the bean."
No joke. You lost me.
ha-ha the rabbit is supposed to be the best toy ever made. It's not bad but after you use it enough the beads get all wonky and it's just not the same. Or was that just mine? LOL
HAHA, are you like Charlotte on Sex and the City, where the girls had to host an intervention because Charlotte wasn't leaving her apartment anymore and began a relationship with the rabbit?
ha-ha not anymore. Talk to me 5 years ago and that might have been the case.
A - I do think that we need to initiate sexting to our SOs.
B - I have never in my life "flicked the bean" or however that was phrased.
never? EVER? I am not buying it.
No, I swear to you. I was never that curious about sex or anything sex related prior to losing my virginity... and then once I started to have sex, that was enough for me. For me personally, I would never have been able to masturbate while dating someone because I would have felt unfaithful (Crazy, I know). And then any period of time that I was single, I didn't feel like I needed the "release" and so I've done just fine.
and even now, you never have the urge to just....release? I think you should try it one rainy Saturday when DH is out of the house.
We have sex every day, sometimes more than once. I can't imagine what doing it to myself would do that he doesn't.
A - I do think that we need to initiate sexting to our SOs.
B - I have never in my life "flicked the bean" or however that was phrased.
never? EVER? I am not buying it.
No, I swear to you. I was never that curious about sex or anything sex related prior to losing my virginity... and then once I started to have sex, that was enough for me. For me personally, I would never have been able to masturbate while dating someone because I would have felt unfaithful (Crazy, I know). And then any period of time that I was single, I didn't feel like I needed the "release" and so I've done just fine.
and even now, you never have the urge to just....release? I think you should try it one rainy Saturday when DH is out of the house.
We have sex every day, sometimes more than once. I can't imagine what doing it to myself would do that he doesn't.
fair enough. I am jealous that you have time for that.
A - I do think that we need to initiate sexting to our SOs.
B - I have never in my life "flicked the bean" or however that was phrased.
never? EVER? I am not buying it.
No, I swear to you. I was never that curious about sex or anything sex related prior to losing my virginity... and then once I started to have sex, that was enough for me. For me personally, I would never have been able to masturbate while dating someone because I would have felt unfaithful (Crazy, I know). And then any period of time that I was single, I didn't feel like I needed the "release" and so I've done just fine.
and even now, you never have the urge to just....release? I think you should try it one rainy Saturday when DH is out of the house.
We have sex every day, sometimes more than once. I can't imagine what doing it to myself would do that he doesn't.
fair enough. I am jealous that you have time for that.
Don't get me wrong - I didn't say long, passionate love-making sessions. But enough that it's satisfying. We each are currently working two full time jobs. But we make it work!
Kellers... Does your SO wack off when you're not there to help him release? I'm just wondering what his view is on it. He might not have the same standards or view of materbation as you do... I mean, what is he going to do during your 6 week wait after you give birth? If you found out that he was materbating, do you view that as "cheating" on you?
(Not trying to pick on you... just curious. So if you aren't comfortable answering, you don't have to.)
No, we both have the same view actually. He will only do it when I am able to watch or "partake" in it in some way. He doesn't do it when he is completely by himself. If he feels horny, he tells me and then we find time to have sex or play around, whatever.
During the 6 week wait, he will be just as pent up as I am, I assume... or I will help him get off in other ways, but he won't be doing anything by himself. We've already had this discussion, haha. No, I don't view it as cheating necessarily. We both feel that if either of us is lacking in sexual satisfaction, then a conversation with the other and taking "corrective action" is all it should take to fix it. I don't force him to refrain either, it's how he views it, too. I wouldn't have felt any different about him if he didn't think the same as me!
Re: CP: speaking of the skittle...
HAHA, are you like Charlotte on Sex and the City, where the girls had to host an intervention because Charlotte wasn't leaving her apartment anymore and began a relationship with the rabbit?
We have sex every day, sometimes more than once. I can't imagine what doing it to myself would do that he doesn't.
Don't get me wrong - I didn't say long, passionate love-making sessions. But enough that it's satisfying. We each are currently working two full time jobs. But we make it work!
No, we both have the same view actually. He will only do it when I am able to watch or "partake" in it in some way. He doesn't do it when he is completely by himself. If he feels horny, he tells me and then we find time to have sex or play around, whatever.
During the 6 week wait, he will be just as pent up as I am, I assume... or I will help him get off in other ways, but he won't be doing anything by himself. We've already had this discussion, haha. No, I don't view it as cheating necessarily. We both feel that if either of us is lacking in sexual satisfaction, then a conversation with the other and taking "corrective action" is all it should take to fix it. I don't force him to refrain either, it's how he views it, too. I wouldn't have felt any different about him if he didn't think the same as me!
Feel free to ask away, I don't feel picked on.