My husband of almost 3 years and I have started TTC. We started about 5 months ago and still nothing yet. He says we just have to give it time and that's fine because hes only been ready for those 5 months, while I have been ready for a family for about 2 years. We havent told many people about us TTC but the people I do talk to say to stop trying and thats when it will happen. How do you stop trying? I dont track anything and I'm not obsessed about doing the baby dance everyday or at exact times, it happens when it happens but I watch the calendar and try to predict days. My husband doesnt want it to be scientific, he wants it to just happen. I'm so confused about what I should be doing about ALL of this. Can anyone offer advice?