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Sex is now work... rant.

ToxityRueToxityRue
in August 2012 Moms
Oh my gosh last night I was convinced that my hoohoo was out of service. DF and I havent had sex in like 3 weeks or so... between my 3rd trimester draining me and his work draining him, our libidos were dead. Well last night I was actually in the mood a little but DF didnt get off for another hour so I thought Id just take care of it myself then go to sleep. It just wouldnt happen... like I couldnt get there and it freaked me out. When DF got home he asked what was wrong and I told him my lady parts were broken. He laughed, loved on me, and went to take a shower. When he came to bed of course he thought to prove me wrong and started trying stuff... I was horrified. What if I couldnt get there with him? After some coaxing I gave in... then another issue arose.... he didnt really fit like normal. My parts were too tight and it hurt super bad. Hormones took over and I started bawling out of sheer frustration. Could I seriously not even be intimate? I expected him to immediately be put off but he just curled around me and held me, telling me it was ok and trying to calm me down. He told me we could still enjoy being together in this way, we would just have to do it differently. So after we kissed and slowed things down, we actually were able to have sex in the end. It just took forever for me. I was so shocked he was so patient and understanding. Im ready for my body to function normally again...
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  • Mizsoccer83Mizsoccer83 member
    Awe-its a good thing your DH is so patient and supportive. He sounds a lot like mine, which is great. We had this same thing happen the last time we tried being intimate and I got bothered as well. We havent tried being intimate since, but we do a lot of cuddling, etc. I am sure the moment will arise for us to try again before LO arrives and when we do we will be a lot more prepared, but having an understanding and supportive spouse helps so much! Try not to stress, it is a part of the many changes our bodies are going through during this time and I imagine (and hope) all will go back to normal after our LO's get here.
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  • JayandEmmJayandEmm member

    Dude. This happened to us last night too.

    I could not get aroused. All of DH's normal tricks to get me in the mood, did not work. I kept apologizing for my vagina being dead. Lol.

    DH took a shower with me, and somehow that worked.

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  • samantha0513samantha0513

    So glad I'm not the only one that doesn't really feel "in the mood". Last time we did, it felt awkward like we had a big beach ball in the way and couldn't find a good position. I was joking about it with my husband last night and he said it was like we were two walrus' having sex! Yup, he actually said that. As if I didn't feel big already! To which I promptly told him good luck with getting any at all until after the baby is born and I'm recovered!

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  • ToxityRueToxityRue
    OMG walruses? Really? lol Yeah, DF might as well forget I have a vagina if he said something like that.
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