I just picked up and started reading "Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish their Adoptive Parents Knew". 1/3 of the way through and very informative. So far it talks mostly about the LOSS adoptive kids feel about their birth moms. I may have my mom read it as well, because it will be important for grandparents to understand what is going on too and see what language is appropriate for the child when they are sad or have questions. I also picked up but haven't opened "Adoption Nation". Of course all of the back cover has quotes that this is a MUST READ and "Invaluable Resource". Just wondering if there are any must reads out there that any of you have read and would recommend. If this topic has been covered before, sorry, I only have gone back a month or two in posts.