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October 2012 Moms
Sleep tight, Sweet Boy :-(
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Re: Sleep tight, Sweet Boy :-(
"Just keep swimming, just keep swimming..."
I'm so sorry for your loss of Isaac - maybe there is some comfort knowing he is safe in the arms above? (sometimes that helsp - sometimes that makes people mad
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I can speak to this organization: https://www.nationalshare.org/
Unfortunately I know 3 people who have lost babies for various reasons and they have all found comfort in it at some point.
Though this is raw - I can offer a blight of hope - friends of ours lost a son in Jan at 3 days old (after birth due to genetic / complications) and we just found out they are through their first trimester and due in November. They had previously used fertility and thought they couldn't conceive naturally. Sometimes God has bigger plans.. hang in there (and sorry for the heavy God references - the org is not religion affiliated)
Hugs and thoughts!
BFP #1 on 8/10/11 EDD 4/21/12~ m/c 8/16/11 at 4w6d
BFP #2 on 1/15/12 EDD 9/26/12~ m/c 1/22/12 at 4w4d
BFP #3 on 2/15/12 EDD 10/28/12 BFP Chart
~~Baby MDem Born 11/7/12~~
[spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow
BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010
BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)
3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!
Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500
First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat
LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!
TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015
Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015
Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270
First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.
JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.
TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]
My heart hurts for you and your husband. Isaac and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love the flower garden.
Families are Forever and I know that you will be reunited with your sweet Issac once more, and that you will have eternity to spend with him. I dont know if you will even get to see what I write, but please read this article:
https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1992/04/doors-of-death?lang=eng
Life does not begin with birth, nor does it end with death. Prior to our birth, we dwelled as spirit children with our Father in Heaven. There we eagerly anticipated the possibility of coming to earth and obtaining a physical body. Knowingly we wanted the risks of mortality, which would allow the exercise of agency and accountability.
Our thoughts and sincerest prayers are with you and your husband as you share this time of sorrow. May it strengthen your marriage and draw you closer to him.
BFP 7.16.11 - Chemical M/C 7.26.11
BFP 1.12.12 - EDD 10.12.12 - Stick baby stick!
Beta#1 (12DPO) - Beta 48 Prog 34
Beta #2(19DPO) - Beta 1767 Prog 54 - Beta #3(26DPO) -
My BFP Chart
October 2012 Moms Blog
My heart is seriously breaking for you. I cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I think it is truly heartwarming how you plan to remember him, and I hope you are able to find peace.
Please know that I (and the rest of the October moms) are always here for you if you need someone to talk to.
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
I am so very sorry for you loss, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
After a loss at 13wks and years dealing with IF and failed treatments (3 failed IUI and 1 failed IVF), we have been blessed with DS (surprise BFP) and now his little sister (2nd round of clomid and TI) on her way.
IUI #1=BFN
IUI #2=BFP! Beta#1:87 Beta #2:1050
~It's a GIRL!~
"Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength."