One of my coworkers just asked me to help plan my boss' baby shower. Whose due 2 months before my first EDD. She does not know I'm in the middle of my 2nd miscarriage, but still. It hurts either way. So now I'm sitting at my desk, crying. And, because I don't want to look like a jackass, I swallowed hard, fought back the tears and said, "sure."