Last night I lurked to see if this board would be for me, and it sounds as though there are a lot of strong women here who have found comfort in each other during this very difficult time in our lives. I would like to introduce myself and share my story...
Mid March my husband and I started to try for our second child - we already have a DS who is 21 mos. On April 29 we were so excited to find out we were pregnant, and a little surprised it happened so quickly! Based off my LMP my EDD was 12/23/12; I made an appointment to go see my Dr when I would be 8 weeks. The afternoon of May 10 I went to the bathroom and saw light pink spotting when I wiped. It was almost the weekend and just 4 days before I was supposed to see my doc, so I called right away to see if I could come in that day. I was able to get in ASAP, where we actually saw the baby's HB. My uterus was measuring where it should be, but the baby was measuring behind by 2 weeks. I was put on bed rest, along with a progesterone supplement for my low levels, and was told to come back in 2 weeks (or call if things didn't improve). A few hours later, bright red. I went to the ER where they discovered I had a small hemorrhage, and was told to stay on BR until it went away. After a couple days the bleeding stopped completely, only to return a few days later on a Fri night. I spoke with my doc who wanted to see me that Monday. In my gut I knew what had happened, but that Monday my biggest fears were confirmed when the baby's heart had stopped beating, likely the day the bleeding returned. I was supposed to go in the very next morning for a D&C, but instead had the baby naturally at home just a few hours before my scheduled surgery. My doc still went through with the D&C just to make sure everything was gone (which it pretty much was). Since then I've been all over the place... good days, bad days. Sorry if the intro was a little long, but I just had to get that off my chest. I am also very sorry for all of your losses, and look forward to getting to know you.
Re: Hi... I'm new here
BFP #1 4/10/12, lost at 8 weeks.
BFP #2 EDD 4/18/13. Its a Boy!
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BFP#1 3/8/12; diagnosed w/ Anencephaly at 12w6d; D&C 5/9/12
BFP#2 7/18/12; A/S 10/26/12 It's a Girl! EDD 3/29/13
Phoebe Jordan Born 3/20/13
I'm sorry for your loss. The support on this board has been incredible. I hope that your recovery goes well and that you find support with your friends and family as well as here.
Many T&P's coming your way.
BFP #1 4/29/12 m/c 5/18/12 at 6w2d
BFP #2 8/28/12 EDD 5/10/13 MC 9/22/12 at 6w4d
BFP #3 12/31/12 EDD 9/12/13
Me Dx: DOR DH: all tests normal
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