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  • imageMrsNorry:

    And the point of this was...?

    OP, you are a huge AW and PW. Please grow up. 

     This. Thanks for the entertainment, OP.


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  • Ok, I deffinitely read enough. For your information, My mom is in jail, my dad died when I was 6 years old. I moved in with a family when I was 8 years old and had been living with them until I was 15, I than moved to a different home where the son was abusive towards me and I had to move out at 17, I was back and forth between my grandparents until I met, Mark. He had a house and we moved in together when I was 17. We got engaged at 18 and I became pregnant at 18. I don't understand where the rudeness and venom is coming from either. I was pregnant and had an ultrasound, I started bleeding on March 3rd. I am pregnant now. That's all that I know. I don't know how m/c work, I only have had one. Sorry if I come off as fishy? I think most of you (the ones who are rude) come off as an attacker and a bully on a pregnancy website. That's not a mature way to act and it's kind of ridiculous. You can all think what you want, I will go to a different board. Sorry for being a teen mom and needing some extra support and kindness!
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  • imageAri1028:
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      I am seriously wondering where the hell your parents are. It wouldn't matter to them how long we had been together, at 18 I wasn't allowed to move in with a BF. Heck I wasn't allowed to close my door when he was over at 18. Just everything seems so weird with you. This isn't a place where teen moms show up. When they do they normally get flamed off the board. I dunno. 

    I'm 18 and I haven't been flamed off of this board. My bf and I have been cohabitating for about 6 months but I'll let my parents know they shouldn't have allowed me to move in with him. Oh wait, I'm old enough to live on my own and make decisions for myself.

    However, are you still in high school? She is still in high school from the way it sounds. I couldn't move in with my BF until I graduated from beauty school.

    Yes, I was when we first started living together. Unfortunately school is impossible when you're throwing up every 10 mins from hyperemesis so I am testing out of high school for my diploma. I'm not saying the OP doesn't sound crazycakes and her stories don't sound fishy, but that comment just rubbed me the wrong way.

    Thats nice for you. However, like 90% of parents out there wouldn't let their CHILD live with their boyfriend when their in high school. Even if they are 18. My parents wouldn't let me close my bedroom door in high school. So good for you.  

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  • No, I am not still in high school. I graduated from high school last year. A year early.
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  • imageNana_Osaki06:
    imageAri1028:
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      I am seriously wondering where the hell your parents are. It wouldn't matter to them how long we had been together, at 18 I wasn't allowed to move in with a BF. Heck I wasn't allowed to close my door when he was over at 18. Just everything seems so weird with you. This isn't a place where teen moms show up. When they do they normally get flamed off the board. I dunno. 

    I'm 18 and I haven't been flamed off of this board. My bf and I have been cohabitating for about 6 months but I'll let my parents know they shouldn't have allowed me to move in with him. Oh wait, I'm old enough to live on my own and make decisions for myself.

    However, are you still in high school? She is still in high school from the way it sounds. I couldn't move in with my BF until I graduated from beauty school.

    Yes, I was when we first started living together. Unfortunately school is impossible when you're throwing up every 10 mins from hyperemesis so I am testing out of high school for my diploma. I'm not saying the OP doesn't sound crazycakes and her stories don't sound fishy, but that comment just rubbed me the wrong way.

    Thats nice for you. However, like 90% of parents out there wouldn't let their CHILD live with their boyfriend when their in high school. Even if they are 18. My parents wouldn't let me close my bedroom door in high school. So good for you.  

    No, my mom was one of them. I couldn't do jackshit when I lived under her roof. That's why I moved out once I was in the right financial situation to do so. Parents have no control over their kids once they move out and are no longer dependent on them. I don't understand how they would have any say in an 18 year old moving out. It's not against the law, what the hell would they do?

     
                                                             | R 11/22/12  |  L 03/14/14 |
  • imagePaigeAndMarkA:
    Ok, I deffinitely read enough. For your information, My mom is in jail, my dad died when I was 6 years old. I moved in with a family when I was 8 years old and had been living with them until I was 15, I than moved to a different home where the son was abusive towards me and I had to move out at 17, I was back and forth between my grandparents until I met, Mark. He had a house and we moved in together when I was 17. We got engaged at 18 and I became pregnant at 18. I don't understand where the rudeness and venom is coming from either. I was pregnant and had an ultrasound, I started bleeding on March 3rd. I am pregnant now. That's all that I know. I don't know how m/c work, I only have had one. Sorry if I come off as fishy? I think most of you (the ones who are rude) come off as an attacker and a bully on a pregnancy website. That's not a mature way to act and it's kind of ridiculous. You can all think what you want, I will go to a different board. Sorry for being a teen mom and needing some extra support and kindness!

    All you're doing is inviting people to say, "You should have thought about that before you opened your legs!" Teen moms don't need extra support and kindness, not sure what fantasy land you live in. They need thicker skin.

     
                                                             | R 11/22/12  |  L 03/14/14 |
  • Short answers- You will most likely rotate through nurses just like you rotate through docs.  One miscarriage does not require the extra monitoring you seem to want.  Lastly, 10 phone calls for one appt is outrageous on your part.  Get a list of questions and call. 

  • I never asked for extra. I was just hoping to find a little bit here.
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  • LMAO.....Pregnancy hormones on this web site are so amusing.

    As for the original question...Unfortunatly I think your dr appts are pretty normal. With my first pregnancy I pretty much lived at the office because of High Blood Pressure.  EVERY week I had TWO standing appointments and EVERY appt the RN (same woman) would ask me the SAME question about my pap smear!!  I got so sick of it I talked to the Dr. about it.  Some people just have HORRIBLE memories. And as for the ultrasound....what everyone said is pretty much true. They CAN NOT tell you anything.  My tech wouldn't say anything besides the sex and I saw her every other week. But nothing compared to the tech at the hospital I had to go to ONCE.  She was a wretched bit**!!!

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  • imagePaigeAndMarkA:
    Ok, I deffinitely read enough. For your information, My mom is in jail, my dad died when I was 6 years old. I moved in with a family when I was 8 years old and had been living with them until I was 15, I than moved to a different home where the son was abusive towards me and I had to move out at 17, I was back and forth between my grandparents until I met, Mark. He had a house and we moved in together when I was 17. We got engaged at 18 and I became pregnant at 18. I don't understand where the rudeness and venom is coming from either. I was pregnant and had an ultrasound, I started bleeding on March 3rd. I am pregnant now. That's all that I know. I don't know how m/c work, I only have had one. Sorry if I come off as fishy? I think most of you (the ones who are rude) come off as an attacker and a bully on a pregnancy website. That's not a mature way to act and it's kind of ridiculous. You can all think what you want, I will go to a different board. Sorry for being a teen mom and needing some extra support and kindness!

    Honestly, everyone has a story...and this is the internet..you are putting WAY too much out there. Your stories are inconsistent about how you are now pregnant so it forces other bumpies to question you, hence, "fishy." You are seeking attention from the wrong source...this site is clearly too much for you.  

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  • imageAri1028:
    imageNana_Osaki06:
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    imageNana_Osaki06:

      I am seriously wondering where the hell your parents are. It wouldn't matter to them how long we had been together, at 18 I wasn't allowed to move in with a BF. Heck I wasn't allowed to close my door when he was over at 18. Just everything seems so weird with you. This isn't a place where teen moms show up. When they do they normally get flamed off the board. I dunno. 

    I'm 18 and I haven't been flamed off of this board. My bf and I have been cohabitating for about 6 months but I'll let my parents know they shouldn't have allowed me to move in with him. Oh wait, I'm old enough to live on my own and make decisions for myself.

    However, are you still in high school? She is still in high school from the way it sounds. I couldn't move in with my BF until I graduated from beauty school.

    Yes, I was when we first started living together. Unfortunately school is impossible when you're throwing up every 10 mins from hyperemesis so I am testing out of high school for my diploma. I'm not saying the OP doesn't sound crazycakes and her stories don't sound fishy, but that comment just rubbed me the wrong way.

    Thats nice for you. However, like 90% of parents out there wouldn't let their CHILD live with their boyfriend when their in high school. Even if they are 18. My parents wouldn't let me close my bedroom door in high school. So good for you.  

    No, my mom was one of them. I couldn't do jackshit when I lived under her roof. That's why I moved out once I was in the right financial situation to do so. Parents have no control over their kids once they move out and are no longer dependent on them. I don't understand how they would have any say in an 18 year old moving out. It's not against the law, what the hell would they do?

    Well, with my parents they would stop paying for my Beauty School tuition. Lets see move in with boyfriend or loose my trust fund that paid for my extra schooling. I chose the school. I moved in with him after I finished my schooling. Got pregnant 4 months later. Guess that's why my parents wanted me to wait until after I got done with school.  I was on birth control and it still happened. Oh well. Guess my parents were just controlling.

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  • imagelittlemac1117:
    lol @ all of this.

    I agree. However, between my DD, WoW and this my afternoon has been very interesting.

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  • imageNana_Osaki06:
    imageAri1028:
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    imageNana_Osaki06:

      I am seriously wondering where the hell your parents are. It wouldn't matter to them how long we had been together, at 18 I wasn't allowed to move in with a BF. Heck I wasn't allowed to close my door when he was over at 18. Just everything seems so weird with you. This isn't a place where teen moms show up. When they do they normally get flamed off the board. I dunno. 

    I'm 18 and I haven't been flamed off of this board. My bf and I have been cohabitating for about 6 months but I'll let my parents know they shouldn't have allowed me to move in with him. Oh wait, I'm old enough to live on my own and make decisions for myself.

    However, are you still in high school? She is still in high school from the way it sounds. I couldn't move in with my BF until I graduated from beauty school.

    Yes, I was when we first started living together. Unfortunately school is impossible when you're throwing up every 10 mins from hyperemesis so I am testing out of high school for my diploma. I'm not saying the OP doesn't sound crazycakes and her stories don't sound fishy, but that comment just rubbed me the wrong way.

    Thats nice for you. However, like 90% of parents out there wouldn't let their CHILD live with their boyfriend when their in high school. Even if they are 18. My parents wouldn't let me close my bedroom door in high school. So good for you.  

    No, my mom was one of them. I couldn't do jackshit when I lived under her roof. That's why I moved out once I was in the right financial situation to do so. Parents have no control over their kids once they move out and are no longer dependent on them. I don't understand how they would have any say in an 18 year old moving out. It's not against the law, what the hell would they do?

    Well, with my parents they would stop paying for my Beauty School tuition. Lets see move in with boyfriend or loose my trust fund that paid for my extra schooling. I chose the school. I moved in with him after I finished my schooling. Got pregnant 4 months later. Guess that's why my parents wanted me to wait until after I got done with school.  I was on birth control and it still happened. Oh well. Guess my parents were just controlling.

    Now THAT makes sense. You were still dependent on them to pay for your schooling. In that situation of course parents would still have control over their kid.

     
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  • OP, I'm sorry you have had a difficult life, but the comments you are getting have nothing to do with that. You are getting responses to your question, and the fact that you are acting like a needy child, which correlates with your other post (which you DD'd apparently). I'm almost positive that none of us is gettig a red carpet rolled out at every appointment, so if you want answers from your Ob, bring questions written down. And a calendar, so you stop harassing the front desk for your inability to remember your appointments.

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  • imagePaigeAndMarkA:
    No, I am not still in high school. I graduated from high school last year. A year early.

    In a previous post I distinctly recall you mentioning a graduation party for you and your FI coming up soon...so is it a year after your graduation?  Another thing that sounds fishy.  

    Now, to let go of snark a little.  You mentioned that you don't know how m/c work...which scares me that you probably are very uneducated on your body in general, please do some reading and familiarize yourself with how your body works.  Also the fact you are barely a legal adult, suffered a m/c and chose to get pregnant again immediately leads me to believe you have a lot of learning and growing up to do. 

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  • I personality feel like its impossible to m/c and a week later get pregnant. It takes a week for the fertilized egg to travel to the uterus and an additional week to implant before it releases hcg. Or am I wrong? 
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    I personality feel like its impossible to m/c and a week later get pregnant. It takes a week for the fertilized egg to travel to the uterus and an additional week to implant before it releases hcg. Or am I wrong? 

    You would be right. Hence why my cycle after I miscarried took almost 60 days until I got my period.

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  • imageNana_Osaki06:
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      I am seriously wondering where the hell your parents are. It wouldn't matter to them how long we had been together, at 18 I wasn't allowed to move in with a BF. Heck I wasn't allowed to close my door when he was over at 18. Just everything seems so weird with you. This isn't a place where teen moms show up. When they do they normally get flamed off the board. I dunno. 

    I'm 18 and I haven't been flamed off of this board. My bf and I have been cohabitating for about 6 months but I'll let my parents know they shouldn't have allowed me to move in with him. Oh wait, I'm old enough to live on my own and make decisions for myself.

    However, are you still in high school? She is still in high school from the way it sounds. I couldn't move in with my BF until I graduated from beauty school.

    I'm not saying OP isn't crazy cakes but you honey don't sound like a winner either. I would side eye the sh!t out of you as well. You got KU young "on bcp", your parent's paid your way through school and you were the same age as OP. Yet you are judging OP? Nice! 

    eta- not saying young moms are bad but young moms judging other young moms...come on.  

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  • imageTheBishTTGP:

    I'm not saying OP isn't crazy cakes but you honey don't sound like a winner either. I would side eye the sh!t out of you as well. You got KU young "on bcp", your parent's paid your way through school and you were the same age as OP. Yet you are judging OP? Nice! 

    eta- not saying young moms are bad but young moms judging other young moms...come on.  

    And yet *she* isn't on the internet posting A TON of stupid sh*t then acting all mad when everyone calls her out. Just because she is a young mom doesn't mean she is immature like the OP. She actually has a very good head on her shoulders. 

  • imageMrsNorry:
    imageTheBishTTGP:

    I'm not saying OP isn't crazy cakes but you honey don't sound like a winner either. I would side eye the sh!t out of you as well. You got KU young "on bcp", your parent's paid your way through school and you were the same age as OP. Yet you are judging OP? Nice! 

    eta- not saying young moms are bad but young moms judging other young moms...come on.  

    And yet *she* isn't on the internet posting A TON of stupid sh*t then acting all mad when everyone calls her out. Just because she is a young mom doesn't mean she is immature like the OP. She actually has a very good head on her shoulders. 

    Agreed, MrsNorry.

      


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  • imageMrsNorry:
    imageTheBishTTGP:

    I'm not saying OP isn't crazy cakes but you honey don't sound like a winner either. I would side eye the sh!t out of you as well. You got KU young "on bcp", your parent's paid your way through school and you were the same age as OP. Yet you are judging OP? Nice! 

    eta- not saying young moms are bad but young moms judging other young moms...come on.  

    And yet *she* isn't on the internet posting A TON of stupid sh*t then acting all mad when everyone calls her out. Just because she is a young mom doesn't mean she is immature like the OP. She actually has a very good head on her shoulders. 

    Oh yes because being whinny and hormonal on a interwebz forum makes you 100% immature. Its TB don't take it too seriously. Right I totally believe she has a *great* head on her shoulders when she got KU while *on* bcp, because that happens so often.  

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  • imageTheBishTTGP:

    Oh yes because being whinny and hormonal on a interwebz forum makes you 100% immature. Its TB don't take it too seriously. Right I totally believe she has a *great* head on her shoulders when she got KU while *on* bcp, because that happens so often.  

    I didn't say the OP was 100% immature...but she's pretty close to it. She posted a thread about her friend's perfect pregnancy, didn't get the responses she wanted, DD'd that thread and decided to GBCB on a completely different board. I don't take TB seriously. But I'd say the OP takes it a little TOO seriously, if you ask me. 

    I'm not here to debate whether or not Nana got pregnant on BCP...I wasn't there, I wouldn't know. What I do know, from what she's posted, is she has a good head on her shoulders. What I know of the OP is that she is a whiny, dramatic, AW. I call it how I see it, that's all. 

  • imageMrsNorry:
    imageTheBishTTGP:

    Oh yes because being whinny and hormonal on a interwebz forum makes you 100% immature. Its TB don't take it too seriously. Right I totally believe she has a *great* head on her shoulders when she got KU while *on* bcp, because that happens so often.  

    I didn't say the OP was 100% immature...but she's pretty close to it. She posted a thread about her friend's perfect pregnancy, didn't get the responses she wanted, and decided to GBCB on a completely different board. I don't take TB seriously. But I'd say the OP takes it a little TOO seriously, if you ask me. 

    I'm not here to debate whether or not Nana got pregnant on BCP...I wasn't there, I wouldn't know. What I do know, from what she's posted, is she has a good head on her shoulders. What I know of the OP is that she is a whiny, dramatic, AW. I call it how I see it, that's all. 

    Well it's TB it's not really real life. I get that OP is kind of an idiot, but I just found it funny another poster points that out yet reveals she too is a young mom and got KU while on "BCP". That is all.   

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  • imageTheBishTTGP:
    imageNana_Osaki06:
    imageAri1028:

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      I am seriously wondering where the hell your parents are. It wouldn't matter to them how long we had been together, at 18 I wasn't allowed to move in with a BF. Heck I wasn't allowed to close my door when he was over at 18. Just everything seems so weird with you. This isn't a place where teen moms show up. When they do they normally get flamed off the board. I dunno. 

    I'm 18 and I haven't been flamed off of this board. My bf and I have been cohabitating for about 6 months but I'll let my parents know they shouldn't have allowed me to move in with him. Oh wait, I'm old enough to live on my own and make decisions for myself.

    However, are you still in high school? She is still in high school from the way it sounds. I couldn't move in with my BF until I graduated from beauty school.

    I'm not saying OP isn't crazy cakes but you honey don't sound like a winner either. I would side eye the sh!t out of you as well. You got KU young "on bcp", your parent's paid your way through school and you were the same age as OP. Yet you are judging OP? Nice! 

    eta- not saying young moms are bad but young moms judging other young moms...come on.  

    You obviously have no idea what the hell you are talking about. My parents and my grandfather put away money for me when I was a baby for my college. The rule was that until I graduated my secondary schooling (aka my beauty school since that is what I chose over traditional college) I had to live with my parents, have a job, finish school, and abide by their rules until graduation. If I did not want to follow their rules then I would of gotten my trust fund when I turned 31. I chose to follow the rules and go to school to get a career.

    I got engaged when I was 19 a month before I graduated beauty school. When I graduated we moved in with friends while I gained clientele at my salon. Yes, I was on BCP. I was trying to be responsible and NOT get pregnant so young. Unfortunately BCP is not 100% effective and it didn't work. I was 20 when I officially became a mother. So don't go assuming you know jack about my situation. I behaved like an adult.

    I judged the OP because she has been a PWing whiny AW since she came on this board. She has also posted some things that made her seem very ignorant to how the female reproductive system worked. Also, yes I do judge teen mothers who should be busy graduating high school. Since it's not that hard to pick up BCP these days.

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  • imageNana_Osaki06:
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      I am seriously wondering where the hell your parents are. It wouldn't matter to them how long we had been together, at 18 I wasn't allowed to move in with a BF. Heck I wasn't allowed to close my door when he was over at 18. Just everything seems so weird with you. This isn't a place where teen moms show up. When they do they normally get flamed off the board. I dunno. 

    I'm 18 and I haven't been flamed off of this board. My bf and I have been cohabitating for about 6 months but I'll let my parents know they shouldn't have allowed me to move in with him. Oh wait, I'm old enough to live on my own and make decisions for myself.

    However, are you still in high school? She is still in high school from the way it sounds. I couldn't move in with my BF until I graduated from beauty school.

    I'm not saying OP isn't crazy cakes but you honey don't sound like a winner either. I would side eye the sh!t out of you as well. You got KU young "on bcp", your parent's paid your way through school and you were the same age as OP. Yet you are judging OP? Nice! 

    eta- not saying young moms are bad but young moms judging other young moms...come on.  

    You obviously have no idea what the hell you are talking about. My parents and my grandfather put away money for me when I was a baby for my college. The rule was that until I graduated my secondary schooling (aka my beauty school since that is what I chose over traditional college) I had to live with my parents, have a job, finish school, and abide by their rules until graduation. If I did not want to follow their rules then I would of gotten my trust fund when I turned 31. I chose to follow the rules and go to school to get a career.

    I got engaged when I was 19 a month before I graduated beauty school. When I graduated we moved in with friends while I gained clientele at my salon. Yes, I was on BCP. I was trying to be responsible and NOT get pregnant so young. Unfortunately BCP is not 100% effective and it didn't work. I was 20 when I officially became a mother. So don't go assuming you know jack about my situation. I behaved like an adult.

    I judged the OP because she has been a PWing whiny AW since she came on this board. She has also posted some things that made her seem very ignorant to how the female reproductive system worked. Also, yes I do judge teen mothers who should be busy graduating high school. Since it's not that hard to pick up BCP these days.

    I'm sorry did you read the directions that you can't take antibiotics and/ or skip pills. Birth control is 99.9% effective, I find it odd of a miracle you became pregnant. You must have one fertile hoo-ha.  

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  • imageTheBishTTGP:
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    imageAri1028:

    imageNana_Osaki06:

      I am seriously wondering where the hell your parents are. It wouldn't matter to them how long we had been together, at 18 I wasn't allowed to move in with a BF. Heck I wasn't allowed to close my door when he was over at 18. Just everything seems so weird with you. This isn't a place where teen moms show up. When they do they normally get flamed off the board. I dunno. 

    I'm 18 and I haven't been flamed off of this board. My bf and I have been cohabitating for about 6 months but I'll let my parents know they shouldn't have allowed me to move in with him. Oh wait, I'm old enough to live on my own and make decisions for myself.

    However, are you still in high school? She is still in high school from the way it sounds. I couldn't move in with my BF until I graduated from beauty school.

    I'm not saying OP isn't crazy cakes but you honey don't sound like a winner either. I would side eye the sh!t out of you as well. You got KU young "on bcp", your parent's paid your way through school and you were the same age as OP. Yet you are judging OP? Nice! 

    eta- not saying young moms are bad but young moms judging other young moms...come on.  

    You obviously have no idea what the hell you are talking about. My parents and my grandfather put away money for me when I was a baby for my college. The rule was that until I graduated my secondary schooling (aka my beauty school since that is what I chose over traditional college) I had to live with my parents, have a job, finish school, and abide by their rules until graduation. If I did not want to follow their rules then I would of gotten my trust fund when I turned 31. I chose to follow the rules and go to school to get a career.

    I got engaged when I was 19 a month before I graduated beauty school. When I graduated we moved in with friends while I gained clientele at my salon. Yes, I was on BCP. I was trying to be responsible and NOT get pregnant so young. Unfortunately BCP is not 100% effective and it didn't work. I was 20 when I officially became a mother. So don't go assuming you know jack about my situation. I behaved like an adult.

    I judged the OP because she has been a PWing whiny AW since she came on this board. She has also posted some things that made her seem very ignorant to how the female reproductive system worked. Also, yes I do judge teen mothers who should be busy graduating high school. Since it's not that hard to pick up BCP these days.

    I'm sorry did you read the directions that you can't take antibiotics and/ or skip pills. Birth control is 99.9% effective, I find it odd of a miracle you became pregnant. You must have one fertile hoo-ha.  

    I have been on BCP since I was 15. I know the rules. No I was not on antibiotics and I did not skip a pill. I guess I am just a fertile myrtle then? Since you can't seem to wrap your mind around the fact that after 4+ years of BCP I somehow got pregnant by accident. It DOES happen. If you look up the real statistics to BCP you will find that it's actually only like 80% effective since 99% of females don't take it during the same time every day, same moon cycle or whatever. It's really not that unheard of to get KU on BCP.

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  • Why is anyone arguing with this newb over how Nana got pregnant?

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  • imagelittlemac1117:

    Why is anyone arguing with this newb over how Nana got pregnant?

    I have no idea. She seems really interested though. 

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  • imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:

    Why is anyone arguing with this newb over how Nana got pregnant?

    I have no idea. She seems really interested though. 

    Yeah, its pretty weird. Jeez, don't you know that the bcp prevents all pregnancies ever ever no matter what 100%?

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  • imagelittlemac1117:
    imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:

    Why is anyone arguing with this newb over how Nana got pregnant?

    I have no idea. She seems really interested though. 

    Yeah, its pretty weird. Jeez, don't you know that the bcp prevents all pregnancies ever ever no matter what 100%?

    Guess I'm just the idiot who doesn't know how to use them.

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  • imageTheBishTTGP:

    I'm sorry did you read the directions that you can't take antibiotics and/ or skip pills. Birth control is 99.9% effective, I find it odd of a miracle you became pregnant. You must have one fertile hoo-ha.  

    You are trying way too hard. Huh?


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  • imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:
    imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:

    Why is anyone arguing with this newb over how Nana got pregnant?

    I have no idea. She seems really interested though. 

    Yeah, its pretty weird. Jeez, don't you know that the bcp prevents all pregnancies ever ever no matter what 100%?

    Guess I'm just the idiot who doesn't know how to use them.

    Haha I guess so. But the OP is allowed to claim she got pregnant a week after her miscarriage. ::facepalm::

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  • lol @ fertile hoo-ha. because that makes sense...
    A woman's life is nine parts mess to one part magic, you'll learn that soon enough...and the parts that look like magic turn out to be the messiest of all.
  • on the off chance you did miscarry and get pregnant again that fast, I'm crazy jealous.

    My husband and I have been trying to conceive for two years (yes, I'm only 21, but we both finished college early and have a house/farm and job, so it seemed like a good time.) and after my first miscarriage I didn't ovulate for nearly three months...

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  • imagelittlemac1117:
    imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:
    imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:

    Why is anyone arguing with this newb over how Nana got pregnant?

    I have no idea. She seems really interested though. 

    Yeah, its pretty weird. Jeez, don't you know that the bcp prevents all pregnancies ever ever no matter what 100%?

    Guess I'm just the idiot who doesn't know how to use them.

    Haha I guess so. But the OP is allowed to claim she got pregnant a week after her miscarriage. ::facepalm::

    Yeah, this thread is full of stupid. I have no idea why the troll came rolling after me. Two completely different circumstances. Also, apparently saving for your child's college is "having your parents pay your way through school". So lame. 

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  • imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:
    imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:
    imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:

    Why is anyone arguing with this newb over how Nana got pregnant?

    I have no idea. She seems really interested though. 

    Yeah, its pretty weird. Jeez, don't you know that the bcp prevents all pregnancies ever ever no matter what 100%?

    Guess I'm just the idiot who doesn't know how to use them.

    Haha I guess so. But the OP is allowed to claim she got pregnant a week after her miscarriage. ::facepalm::

    Yeah, this thread is full of stupid. I have no idea why the troll came rolling after me. Two completely different circumstances. Also, apparently saving for your child's college is "having your parents pay your way through school". So lame. 

    ITA. I will definitely be saving up for my kids, and it will probably be the same sort of deal that you had: use it for college after high school or you don't get it until you're older. And I won't feel like we are "paying their way", I'll feel like we are able to provide for our kids and help them be successful. I wish my parents had been able to do that for me.

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  • Ok, seriously this whole conversation is ridiculous. I never read anywhere that teen moms aren't welcome on this site, so back off. It's not your life it's her's. She asked a question and wanted an answer. Answer the question at hand or don't answer at all. Good lord, do you teach your children to behave like this? Haven't any of you ever heard "If you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all?" 
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  • imagelittlemac1117:
    imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:
    imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:
    imageNana_Osaki06:
    imagelittlemac1117:

    Why is anyone arguing with this newb over how Nana got pregnant?

    I have no idea. She seems really interested though. 

    Yeah, its pretty weird. Jeez, don't you know that the bcp prevents all pregnancies ever ever no matter what 100%?

    Guess I'm just the idiot who doesn't know how to use them.

    Haha I guess so. But the OP is allowed to claim she got pregnant a week after her miscarriage. ::facepalm::

    Yeah, this thread is full of stupid. I have no idea why the troll came rolling after me. Two completely different circumstances. Also, apparently saving for your child's college is "having your parents pay your way through school". So lame. 

    ITA. I will definitely be saving up for my kids, and it will probably be the same sort of deal that you had: use it for college after high school or you don't get it until you're older. And I won't feel like we are "paying their way", I'll feel like we are able to provide for our kids and help them be successful. I wish my parents had been able to do that for me.

    I have already set DD up with her trust fund for college. I was extremely lucky to have it. My grandparents set it up for me when I was born. Both they and my parents put money into it as I grew up. I'm an only grandchild on my fathers side. My grandpa and late grandma thought it very important that I gained secondary education since they did not. I am very thankful for them.

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  • imageashtonblair123:
    Ok, seriously this whole conversation is ridiculous. I never read anywhere that teen moms aren't welcome on this site, so back off. It's not your life it's her's. She asked a question and wanted an answer. Answer the question at hand or don't answer at all. Good lord, do you teach your children to behave like this? Haven't any of you ever heard "If you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all?" 

    Well bless your heart. 

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