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June 2011 Moms
Syncronicity09
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Sex Talk Monday!
Syncronicity09
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I'm not sure how you ladies want to format this? Should I post questions each week, or do an open discussion?
I'll start this week with a question?
How often do you and YH have sex per week? Is the less, more or exactly what you would like? What do you do to spice things up?
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Re: Sex Talk Monday!
Was this sprung up from that book? 50 shades of grey or whatever? hehehe
How often do you and YH have sex per week?
I would say we DTD or a form of it every 2 days... or less....
Is the less, more or exactly what you would like?
I think it is the perfect amount. Maybe I would like to do it every night, but we are so tired with D and DH liked to play videos game through the night on weekends.
What do you do to spice things up?
Attack in the middle of the night... or drink a glass of wine! haha
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Lol, no. There was a post last week about adding a few new daily posts to get more activity on the board.
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Attack in the middle of the night.....LOL....i love it!
How often do you and YH have sex per week? 1-2
Is the less, more or exactly what you would like? less
What do you do to spice things up? little things thru the day. dirty talk...sexting...
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No real average here. Last week we did it 2x, this week 3x but prior to last week it had been 2 weeks since the last time. I tend to get hornier as the end of my cycle approaches I think.
It's perfect for me! I almost always initiate . . .DH is pretty go with the flow, he knows I'll make it up for a 2 week dry spell later in the month.
As far as spicing it up, I like to buy new lingerie on occasion, plus I like to have nice underthings most days. And we've been known to hop in the shower with one another. And I have attacked mid-afternoon during naptime on a weekend
How often do you and YH have sex per week?
On a good week 4-5, on a "slow" week 1-2 (DH has been picking up a few extra over night shifts so that messes things up sometimes)
Is the less, more or exactly what you would like?
4-5 is perfect, 1-2 not so much.
What do you do to spice things up?
We keep it pretty spicy already, I don't think we need to change a thing!
It's actually about the same for us. About 2 to 3 times a week.
I think that we are both happy with the frequency. I could always go for less but I think it's healthy that we do it as much as we do.
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How often do you and YH have sex per week
Once a week or less
Is the less, more or exactly what you would like?
I could go more often, but DHs schedule stinks and when he actually is home we rarely think about it.
What do you do to spice things up?
Wear something fun
This is pretty much my way of doing it as well. If we only did it when I *really* wanted to, it would probably be 1x or 2x a month, and DH would like it 5-6x a week- so I guess it's a compromise.
How often do you and YH have sex per week? Lately it's been 1-2 times a week.
Is the less, more or exactly what you would like? I posted last week about having no libido...well it's BACK!!!! I'm pretty much ready to go anytime so I'm hoping DH gets on board. I'd like to get back to at least once a day but we shall see.
What do you do to spice things up? Bringing in toys is always a good time.
Finances have a big impact on the state of the relationship which of course impacts the sex aspect. Maybe you and your DH should sit down and come up with some financial goals and a plan on how to acheive them. That way you both are working towards the same thing together. Or myabe even spit finances. You buy LO's clothes he pays the cable bill, you pay the cell, he pays the electricity etc. Can you trust him to pay the bills he would be responsible for on time?
How often do you and YH have sex per week? Per week? Zero. Right now it's been almost 4 months. Before that it was 1x every 1-2 months.
Is the less, more or exactly what you would like? It's terrible. 1-2x per week would be great, but I don't see that ever happening.
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We only have joint accounts and I handle paying the bills. It wouldn't be done on time if he were in charge of it. He only gets paid once a month and I'm twice a month (one of them corresponding with his so that is when I take care of most of the bills)
How often do you and YH have sex per week? Usually just once a week
Is the less, more or exactly what you would like? I'd like to do it more often, but I just haven't been in the mood lately. I'm not sure if it's due to breastfeeding, or maybe just stress. DH would definitely like it to be more often.
What do you do to spice things up? New lingerie and catching him off guard usually works for him. I could use some more spice, myself, though!
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So what about next week ladies? Do you feel comfortable getting racier? It looks like this post was only mildly popular...but on other boards it gets a lot of attention, but is usually pretty racy.
So how about it? Is anyone against a racier post next week?
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Seriously like once a month :-
I would prefer 2x a week but it is DH that has no drive ..
I'm currently trying to work on spicing it up though!! I just bought that We Vibe III that I had posted a couple days ago and it should be here Wednesday! Can't wait
DH & I watched Lifetime's 7 Days of Sex and he said he was open to doing a challenge like that of our own! I'm thinking I should dress up for him ..
How often do you and YH have sex per week? I'm lucky if it is once a month. Although there was a recent 'heat wave'.
Is the less, more or exactly what you would like? Less. A lot less. If I've said it once, I have said it a thousand times...third shift sucks.
What do you do to spice things up? Not a whole hell of a lot. I just get demanding on occasion (i.e....if it's been a while and I feel the urge...I will tell him that when I'm doing the bedtime routine with Stella, when I'm done, he better be upstairs and naked).
How often do you and YH have sex per week? 1-2 times
Is the less, more or exactly what you would like? I still have not gotten my labido back, so this is perfect for me right now. I'm anxious to see what happens when I wean in a couple of weeks!
What do you do to spice things up? Not a lot. I try to intiate it once in awhile.
Pretty much all of this. We are cosleeping and DS has some serious sleep/attachment issues that we are trying to address. Our neighbor "borrowed" DS last week so that we could get it on.