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Did I do the right thing?
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Re: Did I do the right thing?
Honestly, you're the one going to hell.. Have fun pack for the heat.
Romans 14:1-13 ESV / 267 helpful votes
As for the one who is weak in faith, welcome him, but not to quarrel over opinions. One person believes he may eat anything, while the weak person eats only vegetables. Let not the one who eats despise the one who abstains, and let not the one who abstains pass judgment on the one who eats, for God has welcomed him. Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand. One person esteems one day as better than another, while another esteems all days alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind. ...
I really hope someone C&Ps this to the proboards.
Unable to even.
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Dude, ditto this. WTF is your problem?
I am so glad your god came down from the clouds and dubbed you Queen Judger and Jury.
You are a rude, self-righteous, nosy assshole, a gossip, and an awful "friend."
Words to live by:
"Believe nothing of what you hear and only half of what you see."
It is pretty shameful.
Wow, just wow.
I am a christian and also pro-life, but you sicken me. Absolutely sicken me and to think that you used our loving God as a tool for your evil. It actually makes me sick to my stomach.
No, you did not do the right thing. What is wrong with you that you would even think that ? Are you deranged ? Seriously, I am at a loss over what you said to her.
Since you are all about people meeting their maker, well you will do the same thing. One day, you will have to answer to Him for your own behavior as well. This was absolutely none of your business, none.
I pray this poor woman has the strength to report you to HR and you lose your job over this.
1) you should be fired for your grossly unprofessional behavior
2) she didn't ask your opinion, she didn't tell you her business
3) she could sleep with the entire free world and it remains NOYB
4) you know what the bible says about people like you, right? you think she earned a one way ticket to hell? you just purchased yourself an express ticket.
5) you are out of your mind crazy.
eta: my computer will not let me capitalize
You sound like a complete jerk. And an illiterate one at that.
What she does is none of your business, and your ridiculous "beliefs" have nothing to do with her.
This! This is why I have such high respect for our lovely christian friends.
Lurker chiming in late, but your post makes me absolutely sick. I work at a Christian pregnancy resource center and I counsel a lot of women in crisis pregnancy situations who are considering or planning abortions. I am a strong Christian and am totally pro-life, but I would never in a million years tell someone to burn in hell or attack them for their decision. I'd especially never emotionally manipulate them into making the decision I thought was right for them. If I said any of the things you said to her to a client, I'd lose my job. My job, and your job as a friend (if your friend had brought the matter to your attention), is to hash out the options and consequences of each and to stand by that person no matter what.
If your friend had come to you struggling with her decision, I'd say you could have offered her alternatives and provided as much support as possible no matter what she decided. However, she didn't come to you, and you did betray the confidence of your almost equally crappy mutual friend.
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