Monday Biotchfest

brookelynpaisley · May 2012

Left over Mother's Day junk or normal Monday crap... let it all out

The girl that sits near me is back fresh from maternity leave. She just happens to not have computer'/network access, so she has NOTHING to do but talk about her baby and show off pictures.

tayray1 · May 2012

Worst weekend ever!! Good friends just had their 2nd on Saturday and MH actually wanted me to go with him to the hospital..I just couldn't do it. ( He didn't end up going either, just go too busy) but I was pissed that he even suggested me going. I'm all for being supportive, and I responded when they both sent me multiple pics of the little guy, but to actually go to the hospital? No thanks. Then we had low numbers for our first IUI and the appt was over 2 hours..(the RE was packed on Mother's Day). Plus, every cashier told me Happy Mother's Day yesterday, WTF!!

LyssRob · May 2012

I POAS Thurs (14dpt) and got a BFN. Had to go in this morning for beta (RE policy) and I told the girl taking my blood that I was pretty sure it would be negative due to my previous tests at home. Her response? "They could be false negatives!"

Thanks. Thanks a lot. Now I am staring at my cell phone waiting for the news. I had already told myself I was out and was ready for the next cycle, (and I felt okay about it), but she totally mind-f*cked me and now I think the news will be hard to hear. Plus its making the minutes tick by VERY slowly. Ugh!

ETA: BP--your biotchfest turned me bronze!

Shayliz · May 2012

I hate my left ovary. It never dominated before the ectopic. It's like it senses the tube is missing and is like oh hey guys, let's get our shiit together now and respond every single time.

notquiteblushing · May 2012

I didn't doublecheck something before it went back to the client on Friday and it's all messed up and now I look stupid. I didn't mess it up. Crying

They need it today and I'm stressing.

brookelynpaisley · May 2012

LyssRob:

I POAS Thurs (14dpt) and got a BFN. Had to go in this morning for beta (RE policy) and I told the girl taking my blood that I was pretty sure it would be negative due to my previous tests at home. Her response? "They could be false negatives!"

Thanks. Thanks a lot. Now I am staring at my cell phone waiting for the news. I had already told myself I was out and was ready for the next cycle, (and I felt okay about it), but she totally mind-f*cked me and now I think the news will be hard to hear. Plus its making the minutes tick by VERY slowly. Ugh!

ETA: BP--your biotchfest turned me bronze!

Sweet!

Ugh - I hate the mind-eff of any sort. I gotta love people for trying to cheer you up and help you be optimistic, but sometimes they just need to STFU

Shay - I'm sorry your left ovary is being an a-hole

LyssRob · May 2012

sctiger52408:

We finished state testing last week but due to starting school late (to finish building projects) we now have 4 normal weeks of school plus the week of half days. I finished all my standards before testing, so now I have to come up with random social studies related crap to cover. Also since the kids are used to school being close to over after testing, they are going to be monsters for the next few weeks, even if they were good before.

Also, I'm in the 2ww (5dpiui) of a promising IUI and that is all I can think about. I am anxious, nervous, hopeful, basically whatever emotions you can feel, I'm feeling it. I want to fast forward through this week so I can just find out.

I HATEEEEEE the time between state tests and the end of the year. What a waste!! I am from NY and it is much better there as the Regents exams are given at the end of June.

Can you have them do a long activity? Like they can create a review board game or powerpoint or something that will take awhile?

kristykay123 · May 2012

My future SIL called me psycho, effing ridiculous, a drama queen, and much more over the bridesmaids dress debacle. Needless to say, I won't be buying a bridesmaids dress anytime soon!

Shayliz · May 2012

kristykay123:
My future SIL called me psycho, effing ridiculous, a drama queen, and much more over the bridesmaids dress debacle. Needless to say, I won't be buying a bridesmaids dress anytime soon!

When is her episode of Bridezillas?

CousinVicki · May 2012

kristykay123:
My future SIL called me psycho, effing ridiculous, a drama queen, and much more over the bridesmaids dress debacle. Needless to say, I won't be buying a bridesmaids dress anytime soon!

wait,the last post i read was you asking what to do about sizing. what happened in between??

brookelynpaisley · May 2012

Shayliz:

kristykay123:
My future SIL called me psycho, effing ridiculous, a drama queen, and much more over the bridesmaids dress debacle. Needless to say, I won't be buying a bridesmaids dress anytime soon!

When is her episode of Bridezillas?

Seriously. And why is she making people buy dresses a year in advance anyway? I never responded to that thread, but I think the whole thing is ridiculous, and I'm telling you that now.

kristykay123 · May 2012

Shayliz:
kristykay123:
My future SIL called me psycho, effing ridiculous, a drama queen, and much more over the bridesmaids dress debacle. Needless to say, I won't be buying a bridesmaids dress anytime soon!
When is her episode of Bridezillas?

Since the wedding is a year away, I'd say wait about a year and a half and you'll see her on there. I was proud of myself for not ripping her a new one though. I usually cuss like a sailor but didn't this time. She's lucky.

Rvnsgrl81 · May 2012

AF like symptoms since Friday evening. Horrible on Saturday. Still a no show. I just want her to show her face so I can start this new cycle for IUI#1. And I have tested per DH's request "because you never know" if you ask him, and just whiteness stared back at me.

Why does this cycle by body have to have the longest LP I have had in almost 2 years of trying?!?

tiger.girl102 · May 2012

Ok... So I go to the gas station on Saturday and start pumping my gas. This van pulls in and parks. The driver gets out and lights up a cigarette. I am thinking to myself "Wow really?? There is probably thousands of gallons of fuel here and you want to use an open flame... THANKS!". Well.... then the driver walks around the vehicle and she is HUGELY pregnant!!!!!! Are you kidding me...... I wanted to hit this girl....

kristykay123 · May 2012

CousinVicki:
kristykay123:
My future SIL called me psycho, effing ridiculous, a drama queen, and much more over the bridesmaids dress debacle. Needless to say, I won't be buying a bridesmaids dress anytime soon!

wait,the last post i read was you asking what to do about sizing. what happened in between??

I told her that I talked to the dress place and they were going to give me the last possible date. She said that was me going behind her back as if what she was telling me wasn't the last possible date. I told her it wasn't something worth fighting over and that I would just order, no big deal. She called and went off on me, yelling, cussing, calling me names. "I'm sorry you're having problems getting pregnant but..." Not cool, even after I told her I would order. She's very immature and will only text me about it now. I told her I prefer working this out by phone because things can be misunderstood in text. She said she doesn't want to call me just so I can blame everything on her. This isn't even half of what was said...I feel sorry for my BIL.

brookelynpaisley · May 2012

kristykay123:
CousinVicki:

kristykay123:
My future SIL called me psycho, effing ridiculous, a drama queen, and much more over the bridesmaids dress debacle. Needless to say, I won't be buying a bridesmaids dress anytime soon!

wait,the last post i read was you asking what to do about sizing. what happened in between??

I told her that I talked to the dress place and they were going to give me the last possible date. She said that was me going behind her back as if what she was telling me wasn't the last possible date. I told her it wasn't something worth fighting over and that I would just order, no big deal. She called and went off on me, yelling, cussing, calling me names. "I'm sorry you're having problems getting pregnant but..." Not cool, even after I told her I would order. She's very immature and will only text me about it now. I told her I prefer working this out by phone because things can be misunderstood in text. She said she doesn't want to call me just so I can blame everything on her. This isn't even half of what was said...I feel sorry for my BIL.

I know it's family and that makes things tricky, but I think you'd be dodging a serious bullet and giving yourself the gift of sanity by declining to be in that wedding.

Does she honestly think you guys are dumb enough to think it takes a year to make a dress? Run. Far, far away.

Shayliz · May 2012

kristykay123:
CousinVicki:
kristykay123:
My future SIL called me psycho, effing ridiculous, a drama queen, and much more over the bridesmaids dress debacle. Needless to say, I won't be buying a bridesmaids dress anytime soon!

wait,the last post i read was you asking what to do about sizing. what happened in between??
I told her that I talked to the dress place and they were going to give me the last possible date. She said that was me going behind her back as if what she was telling me wasn't the last possible date. I told her it wasn't something worth fighting over and that I would just order, no big deal. She called and went off on me, yelling, cussing, calling me names. "I'm sorry you're having problems getting pregnant but..." Not cool, even after I told her I would order. She's very immature and will only text me about it now. I told her I prefer working this out by phone because things can be misunderstood in text. She said she doesn't want to call me just so I can blame everything on her. This isn't even half of what was said...I feel sorry for my BIL.

She seriously needs to chillax. I think we ordered dresses in May for my October wedding, but that was because the dresses went Special Value/Clearance at David's Bridal. It must be a ploy to get you to order though, because they STILL carry the damn dress.

kristykay123 · May 2012

brookelynpaisley:
kristykay123:
CousinVicki:

kristykay123:
My future SIL called me psycho, effing ridiculous, a drama queen, and much more over the bridesmaids dress debacle. Needless to say, I won't be buying a bridesmaids dress anytime soon!

wait,the last post i read was you asking what to do about sizing. what happened in between??

I told her that I talked to the dress place and they were going to give me the last possible date. She said that was me going behind her back as if what she was telling me wasn't the last possible date. I told her it wasn't something worth fighting over and that I would just order, no big deal. She called and went off on me, yelling, cussing, calling me names. "I'm sorry you're having problems getting pregnant but..." Not cool, even after I told her I would order. She's very immature and will only text me about it now. I told her I prefer working this out by phone because things can be misunderstood in text. She said she doesn't want to call me just so I can blame everything on her. This isn't even half of what was said...I feel sorry for my BIL.

I know it's family and that makes things tricky, but I think you'd be dodging a serious bullet and giving yourself the gift of sanity by declining to be in that wedding.

Does she honestly think you guys are dumb enough to think it takes a year to make a dress? Run. Far, far away.

That's the decision I've come to as well. My husband stands completely behind me (he's always hated her and isn't surprised this has happened). I think there's no going back on a lot of the things that she has said. I can see things getting worse as her wedding date gets closer.

notquiteblushing · May 2012

keelyd:
FF is f*cking with me. Seriously, FF, I'm 5dpo? Doubtful. My temps look like the freaking Rocky Mountains. I'm thinking this is some trick to make me wait even longer to start my progesterone scrip... just as I was beginning to think that I'd just go ahead and make appts fit around work.

I think FF is wrong or that those crosshairs will dissapear. Sorry it's so frustrating.

tombomb84 · May 2012

I had my hair done on Saturday and told my hair dresser that I wanted to go back to my natural color (strawberry blondish). Now it is dark brown and I f*cking hate it. The worst part is that when I got home DH told me that he feels like nothing makes me happy anymore...and he might be right.

vanillajen · May 2012

Mother's Day. Enough said, right?

I actually came into it with a pretty good attitude. We spent it with DH's family which includes my sweet little nephew and my SIL who thinks you just need to bone every other day to get knocked up. *eye roll* It was all going as good as it could be until we went to bring out the cake we got for DH's mom. I brought it out with him and his brother and they were singing some Mother's Day song (apparently from Full House?) and clapping and SIL starts yelling "Wait, wait! Jen should NOT be bringing the cake out, she's a mom too!! Sing to her too!!"

1. We were only singing and bringing it out to my MIL. Not all the mothers in the room. I don't know why she felt like she had to include me.

2. She KNOWS about how long we've been trying and a bit about the struggle it's been. Enough where I feel like she should know better then to put me in a situation where it's super awkward and I feel like I have to say that I'm not actually a mom.

3. She's sitting there with her beautiful baby boy and is trying to say that I'm a mom because our puggle was there. I'm sorry, I love our dog but I don't feel like she makes me a mom in anyway on Mother's Day.

Ahh I seriously needed this today!!

Juicy71 · May 2012

MH won't talk to me about our upcoming IUI at all... and every time I bring something up about it he gets mad (I asked him last night if he would ease up on his pot intake this week - not stop, just not smoke as much - it's a medically necessary thing for him but he doesn't need to smoke as much as he does). He got really mad at me and said he never told me he would cut back.... and has just been in a bad mood since. Today is the last day he should have a "release" I think (in case our IUI is Thursday - I'm getting checked Wed) but honestly I'm too nervous to say something to him about it. I guess I just have to trust that he knows and will do what he needs to do (or not do, such as the case may be). I'll admit I probably didn't approach the pot thing well but I'm tired of having to walk on egg shells around him about this whole process - as if it's not hard enough for me and I can't even talk to the most important person in my life about it!

On top of that, I went to visit my brother and SIL yesterday to see my nephew. SIL is KU now after IVF (she had 4 IUIs before she got KU with my nephew, 3 IUIs this time and got KU on 1st IVF) and she's about 15 weeks I think? Anyway, they found out they are having a boy and I asked her how she felt about another boy. She was like, "oh fine, but now we're just going to start fighting about names and about the baby's room and I still feel sick..." Her negativity about everything just drives me crazy... how many people would be happy to be in her shoes? Me, for one! And she is very aware of my m/c and our upcoming IUI so it just annoys me that she can't be more positive about it.

::vent over::

pulga131 · May 2012

kristykay123:
CousinVicki:
kristykay123:
My future SIL called me psycho, effing ridiculous, a drama queen, and much more over the bridesmaids dress debacle. Needless to say, I won't be buying a bridesmaids dress anytime soon!

wait,the last post i read was you asking what to do about sizing. what happened in between??
I told her that I talked to the dress place and they were going to give me the last possible date. She said that was me going behind her back as if what she was telling me wasn't the last possible date. I told her it wasn't something worth fighting over and that I would just order, no big deal. She called and went off on me, yelling, cussing, calling me names. "I'm sorry you're having problems getting pregnant but..." Not cool, even after I told her I would order. She's very immature and will only text me about it now. I told her I prefer working this out by phone because things can be misunderstood in text. She said she doesn't want to call me just so I can blame everything on her. This isn't even half of what was said...I feel sorry for my BIL.

Wow she is cray cray! Kudos to you for not losing your crap. I would be tempted to tell her to find herself another BM

pulga131 · May 2012

My biotchfest is lame. I just hate rainy gloomy days. I have to get so much done btw M-W bc the rest of the week/weekend is useless thanks to chemo. This is my off week with the maid so I need to clean, and do groceries and grade papers. I don;t feel like doing ANY of it. Thank you rain for making me even more lazy and depressed and migraine-y

Shayliz · May 2012

tombomb84:
I had my hair done on Saturday and told my hair dresser that I wanted to go back to my natural color (strawberry blondish). Now it is dark brown and I f*cking hate it. The worst part is that when I got home DH told me that he feels like nothing makes me happy anymore...and he might be right.

How did you end up with dark brown trying to do strawberry blonde? I wouldn't have left the salon!

kristykay123 · May 2012

Shayliz:
tombomb84:
I had my hair done on Saturday and told my hair dresser that I wanted to go back to my natural color (strawberry blondish). Now it is dark brown and I f*cking hate it. The worst part is that when I got home DH told me that he feels like nothing makes me happy anymore...and he might be right.
How did you end up with dark brown trying to do strawberry blonde? I wouldn't have left the salon!

Me too! Or I would have complained until I got a refund.

angel3082 · May 2012

Kristy- good for you for deciding not to be in the wedding! She sounds like a piece of work, and I'm sure there would've been drama with the bridal shower, bachelorette party, etc.

My biotch is semi Mother's Day related. My little sister had several seizures friday night and ended up in the hospital all weekend. She is feeling better now, but it was very scary for the whole family. In the ER Saturday morning, she was asking for pain meds because she was having muscle spasms in her back (related to the seizures). The nurse came in and said she had to wait for the pregnancy test results before giving her any IV pain meds. My mom's response, "Oh, wouldn't that be the best Mother's Day gift for me!!" Really, Mom, REALLY?? My sister doesn't want children for many years, and my mom knows everything about our struggles. My sister immediately looked at me and grimaced because at least she understood how that comment would make me feel. I just put my head down and kept quiet, then had a good cry when I got home & DH was at work. Did I mention that AF showed minutes before I left to head over to the hospital? As DH would say, "that was the pickle on the crap sandwich that was my day"

JBDamonM · May 2012

Kristy - I agree with all of the other PP's. Your future SIL is a crazy bitc* - time to get out of that wedding!

My bitc* and moan today is nothing to out of the ordinary. I'm tired. I feel blah.... I don't want to work and I slept for shi* last night.....

I need a vacation in the worst way

FutureMrsTowns · May 2012

at RE this morning, while scheduling my CD 14 u/s for my clomid treatment, the nurse scheduling the appt said that stupid *** thing that I hate that EVERYONE says "it'll happen as soon as you stop stressing about it" like REALLY? my ovaries are suddenly going to start working again just b/c I'm not trying to get pregnant anymore? funny, that didn't happen while DH was deployed for 6 months, in fact AF got FURTHER apart, kthnx

notquiteblushing · May 2012

angel3082:

My biotch is semi Mother's Day related. My little sister had several seizures friday night and ended up in the hospital all weekend. She is feeling better now, but it was very scary for the whole family. In the ER Saturday morning, she was asking for pain meds because she was having muscle spasms in her back (related to the seizures). The nurse came in and said she had to wait for the pregnancy test results before giving her any IV pain meds. My mom's response, "Oh, wouldn't that be the best Mother's Day gift for me!!" Really, Mom, REALLY?? My sister doesn't want children for many years, and my mom knows everything about our struggles. My sister immediately looked at me and grimaced because at least she understood how that comment would make me feel. I just put my head down and kept quiet, then had a good cry when I got home & DH was at work. Did I mention that AF showed minutes before I left to head over to the hospital? As DH would say, "that was the pickle on the crap sandwich that was my day"

I can't believe your mom said that while your poor sister was in pain and knowing what you're going through. Yikes. Major fail on her part. I'm so sorry.

jakraft837 · May 2012

didn't have anything but now i do!

Freaking AF has showed up 1 week early (thx irregular cycles). I called my RN who can't even write me the script for my meds until they get the all clear from this dumb breast biopsy I had on Friday.

I called dr's office who was sent the results, and they have them, but won't release the results to me over the phone. So now i have to shuffle stuff around and change my appointment from tomorrow to 4:15 today to get the results.

Them not telling me the results over the phone makes me nervous. My BFF says, maybe its good news and they want to get you in so you can start your IUI cycle without any further delays. I'm totally glass half empty and think they want to let me know i can't start fertility treatment.

In my head i was ready to do this tomorrow with my DH going with me, but now i have to go by myself cuz DH can't get out early today.

daiseydooda · May 2012

On the way to the RE hubby and I get a call from his aunt that his cousin just had her baby and we need to come and visit tonight. Then when I got home hubby received a call that his friend wanted to stop by with their new addition. At that point I just left the house immediately to spare the heart ache of hearing another person ask when are we going to have a baby.

tombomb84 · May 2012

kristykay123:
Shayliz:
tombomb84:
I had my hair done on Saturday and told my hair dresser that I wanted to go back to my natural color (strawberry blondish). Now it is dark brown and I f*cking hate it. The worst part is that when I got home DH told me that he feels like nothing makes me happy anymore...and he might be right.
How did you end up with dark brown trying to do strawberry blonde? I wouldn't have left the salon!
Me too! Or I would have complained until I got a refund.

She said that since my natural color is lighter than the color it was previously, the dark brown was the closest she could get. Unfortunately, we had a wedding to go to that night so I couldn't stick around long enough for her to change it. I want to call and complain, but honestly I don't even have the energy right now.

twistsandturnsto2 · May 2012

The end of my 2ww is near and it's really starting to get to me. DH said that he is expecting for it to not have worked, and I'm starting to think the same way. I am 12dpIUI and nothing is telling me either way if it worked or not. I know there is still hope, ive just got to wait it out a little more.

I've also got a wine tasting at work today(I'm a server) and I can't have any. I decided to go booze free for medicated cycles, so no free wine for me

I am just ready for the next few days to be over with already! I just want to know!

ksfrye · May 2012

Shayliz:
kristykay123:
My future SIL called me psycho, effing ridiculous, a drama queen, and much more over the bridesmaids dress debacle. Needless to say, I won't be buying a bridesmaids dress anytime soon!
When is her episode of Bridezillas?

LOL!

ksfrye · May 2012

jakraft837:
didn't have anything but now i do!

Freaking AF has showed up 1 week early (thx irregular cycles). I called my RN who can't even write me the script for my meds until they get the all clear from this dumb breast biopsy I had on Friday.

I called dr's office who was sent the results, and they have them, but won't release the results to me over the phone. So now i have to shuffle stuff around and change my appointment from tomorrow to 4:15 today to get the results.

Them not telling me the results over the phone makes me nervous. My BFF says, maybe its good news and they want to get you in so you can start your IUI cycle without any further delays. I'm totally glass half empty and think they want to let me know i can't start fertility treatment.

In my head i was ready to do this tomorrow with my DH going with me, but now i have to go by myself cuz DH can't get out early today.

Oh sweetie that is strange that they want you to come into the office. I hope it's not bad news. Keeping my fingers crossed for you. ((hugs))

jenn0620 · May 2012

I was more stunned than pissed, but I went to a client's house yesterday and as soon as I walked into her door her daughter( she lives with her daughter) says " Yay last mother's Day that you're not a mother!" what do you even say to that?

And I am sick of my SIL posting things on facebook about how rewarding it is to be a mother and it's the best gift/ job in the world. It's like we get it you are a mom and you love it. Stop rubbing it in the faces of the women who can't have children right now.

beth9409 · May 2012

jakraft837:

didn't have anything but now i do!

Freaking AF has showed up 1 week early (thx irregular cycles). I called my RN who can't even write me the script for my meds until they get the all clear from this dumb breast biopsy I had on Friday.

I called dr's office who was sent the results, and they have them, but won't release the results to me over the phone. So now i have to shuffle stuff around and change my appointment from tomorrow to 4:15 today to get the results.

Them not telling me the results over the phone makes me nervous. My BFF says, maybe its good news and they want to get you in so you can start your IUI cycle without any further delays. I'm totally glass half empty and think they want to let me know i can't start fertility treatment.

In my head i was ready to do this tomorrow with my DH going with me, but now i have to go by myself cuz DH can't get out early today.

Don't stress too much about the results. I've had several biopsies and they'll never give the results over the phone even if they're good. Mine weren't breast biopsies but I would think the protocol is similar. Try to stay positive!

Neesey · May 2012

I just dropped my pizza on the floor--cheese side down. Yuck!!!!! Now all I have for lunch are fruit snacks. I'm also ticked because I just got a call from a customer complaining about an employee that I have already been having issues with. Now I get to spend the afternoon writing up a formal counselling. Double Yuck!!!

jessi1988 · May 2012

Here goes....

I worked nights all weekend! I'm out of the IF closet, I don't broadcast but if someone has the guts enough to ask me about children I don't hold back. So one of my coworkers looks at me on Saturday night and says "are you gonna be ok tomorrow, I bet it's really going to bother you." I didn't even know how to respond to her so I just walked away saying nothing at all. Seriously, does she have any brains... this woman knows how difficult things are for me right now and has a two year old that she bitches about.. all.the.time!

To top that off, I switch to do 3 day shifts this week with a one day turnaround. Got off work at 5 am, and have to be to work first thing tomorrow morning. Fantastic!

Hope everyone's day/week only gets better from here.

mrsjollybrown · May 2012

I need a haircutbut since I'm unemployed and in job limbo I see no point in paying money to sit at home. Still in job limbo. And I just got the paperwork from the county tax office. Our home is valued at less than half of what we are paying for it. This is not the best news.

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