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sneaking on for some sneaky fx and hope!

elizabethnseannyelizabethnseanny
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Hi everyone...sorry I haven't been posting, but I've been lurking since my last BFN a few weeks ago.

I went through the HSG, lots of gross clomid, and 3 cycles of treatment all out of pocket and am out of hope. DH and I have decided to stop treatment and move on with our 5% chance, which to me means time to mourn not having a child together. He doesn't feel that way, and is still in the denial stage. So I don't want to confuse him by letting him know it's almost O time and I've got some nice CM for the first time in months. I've got a stirring of hope though. My RE said 80% of her patients get pregnant within 3 month of HSG. Maybe we still have a chance?

I've really moved on- discontinued my short term disability, got back into the gym (god that feels great!) and offered to travel next week for work.

But lemme tell ya, I wouldn't be sad at all if this just happened.

 I sound a little crazy. Sorry, thanks for the support!

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Re: sneaking on for some sneaky fx and hope!

  • dhreczuckdhreczuck member

    Fingerscrossed for you, I don't believe you should give up hope or dwell on the statistics at all. I think you still have a great chance of conceiving naturally :)

     

    nate and teddy
    Me 41 DH 46  Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test. TTC #2 **5th cycle 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
    ** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy is due 04/28/13!!     Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

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  • annaliselannalisel member

    Fx behind my back.

    I'm in the same place with even lower odds (though we have one more IVF cycle) and my husband and I haven't been able to let go yet. I'm not sure if this is good or bad, but it is what it is.

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  • TammyDoubleBTammyDoubleB member
    My fingers are crossed that you are one of the 80%!
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    My Age - 41, DH's Age - 42

    TTC #1 since November 2011
    Dx: Endometriosis, Stenosis of the Cervix, Uterine Polyp, Hostile CM and Borderline PCOS
    Stage 1 Endo and Uterine Polyp removed and Cervix widened on July 9, 2012.
    IUI #1 Clomid 50 mg - 3/6/13 BFN
    IUI #2 Clomid 50 mg - 4/3/13 BFN
    IUI #3 Clomid 50 mg - 10/4/13 BFN
    IUI #4 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 11/2/13 BFN
    Cycle #28 - Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger + TI (IUI #5 cancelled) - 2/5/14 BFN
    IUI #5 Clomid 100 mg + HCG trigger - 3/5/14 BFN
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  • danieleandwaynedanieleandwayne member

    80% is a good stat-- I'd focus on that one!  Smile Heck, I see people beat worse odds than that in the ICU all the time, and if they can do it, there is no reason you can't! 

    Give that uterus a pep talk! Caress her, tell her that you love her, and then let those spermies give her a little tickle! Go! Go! Go! 

    FX!

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    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member

    Don't give up! GL :)

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • lindaeverlylindaeverly member
    I'm glad that you haven't given up!  I'm the type of person that I hate admitting defeat, no matter what it involves.  That could be why I ended up rupturing a disc in my neck last year, but who's keeping track. :)  FX that this is a good month for you!
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  • MrsTRAVMrsTRAV member
    Fingers crossed!

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  • elizabethnseannyelizabethnseanny
    Thanks everyone...I'm trying to focus on other things and just hope a miracle happens. I have a blessed life to be thankful for.
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