Hi ladies!! I've been MIA I know. Sorry about that! Miss you ladies.
If you don't post over on the Nest you haven't been lucky enough to see the new posting format. It's horrid. It just switched about an hour ago. Tons more scrolling, way too bright (like blindingly white at times, no more HTML supported, and if you have your preferences set to bump mode right now, you might want to click out before they decide to do the bump because those that toggle back and forth are locked into bump mode (viewing last posted items first).
Anyway.....hope everyone is doing well. I'll try to catch up in the next few days! xoxo
ETA: oh yeah, and it randomly selected a post count and color for you. I'm back to bronze with 1000 or so posts over there. WTF. Fail nest gods, fail.
Re: FFS - Watch out, the new format SUCKS!
Yuck. And they only present the first 20 posts.
I know it says no HTML but if you hit "quote" the body is obviously HTML. What is this bump mode format?
And Hi Rachel.
:::waves hi frantically ::::
Bump mode posted the threads with the newest replies first. I like to toggle back and forth with the feature. Some use it all the time.
I never even thought of the quote function but yeah...that doesn't make any sense. I haven't tried it yet but I've heard when you do go to quote it's harder to edit the (quote user) parts.
Ugh. I'm so not a fan.
Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
My IF/Everything Blog
There's No Crying in Baseball
***My posts are always SAIFW**
Makes me wonder if we should set up our own IFV FB page?!?
The new format blows big time.
I am totally down for it and would set it up if anyone wanted to. I'm a part of the main IF FB group but for various reasons, I am hesitant to post there.
ETA: ::poof::
Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
My IF/Everything Blog
There's No Crying in Baseball
***My posts are always SAIFW**
i'm in several fb groups and it so hard to keep up with!
Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)
It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
why do they always need to mess with stuff?
Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)
It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
if it aint broke, why fix it?
TTC #2 since June '08
~*DD 10.21.07*~
dx unexplained
IUI #1-4 BFN
IVF#1 June 2011 BFN
IVF#2 Dec 2011
Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634
EDD 8/25
*PAIFW/SAIFW*
that's fine as long as set up is same. i like seeing post titles and then needing to click to see responses
Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)
It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
I like this idea too, I can't access FB at work
lol, I'm so confused as to what we're talking about right now. If the bump changes format, that's when we (could) start a new IFV FB page or find another message board? Can you believe I have pretty much never posted on any other forums other than the knot, nest and then bump?
Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
My IF/Everything Blog
There's No Crying in Baseball
***My posts are always SAIFW**
ok I have only passing familiarity of these options:
https://www.network54.com/Forum/209394/
n.etwork54 hosts boards but you see the title of the responses. you also have the option for it to be pw protected because anyone can post to the public board, I think w/out an account. It's ghetto, no ads but no PIP either.
IVF connections is the slowest board in the universe, but they have a vets board already. you need an account to even view posts but they're organized similarly to the b. I don't know if you can post HTML.
I haven't looked into other options if anyone else has any experience with this or other boards they frequent whose format they like. Some research would need to be done if we migrate, but it makes keeping up with PAIF/SAIF a whole lot harder.... that's a big bad rub. I'm not volunteering to do this research.
And Rach, I don't post elsewhere either, at least not at present.
1, 2, 3 Not me!
Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
My IF/Everything Blog
There's No Crying in Baseball
***My posts are always SAIFW**
IVF.cnx looks like this. is there an example of a PIP that you have access to?
And, I am just saying that just because I'm thinking something out loud doesn't mean I'm an expert on that topic. I know others here have experience with other boards.
There used to be a way to make private boards using google. It's called "google groups".
I'd really prefer things to be private for a variety of reasons.
DX: 6/9/2011: Azoo ICSI/IVF only option for biological child
IVF #1: ER - 9/26 * ET - 10/1 * beta#1 10/13 - 140 * beta#2 10/17 - 477 * beta#3 10/20 - 1101
1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
FET #1 Jan/Feb 2012 - 3 delays - cancelled 2/13
FET #1.2 - May/June 2012 - ET 6/6/* beta#1 6/15 - 95 * beta #2 6/19 - 322 * beta #3 6/22 - 940
7/6 1st u/s @ 7 weeks - one beautiful hb - released from RE
EDD 2/22/2013
PAIF/SAIF/PGAL welcome
DX: 6/9/2011: Azoo ICSI/IVF only option for biological child
IVF #1: ER - 9/26 * ET - 10/1 * beta#1 10/13 - 140 * beta#2 10/17 - 477 * beta#3 10/20 - 1101
1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
FET #1 Jan/Feb 2012 - 3 delays - cancelled 2/13
FET #1.2 - May/June 2012 - ET 6/6/* beta#1 6/15 - 95 * beta #2 6/19 - 322 * beta #3 6/22 - 940
7/6 1st u/s @ 7 weeks - one beautiful hb - released from RE
EDD 2/22/2013
PAIF/SAIF/PGAL welcome
Ok I am willing to go check these all out tomorrow and give my feedback, and if anyone else wants to chime in then the more the merrier. Maybe the bump editors will see the mass exodus and revert to the old format?
Here is a PIP on proboards, and you can look at the support board as a sample.
https://support.****/index.cgi?board=tests&action=display&thread=413832
Side tangent...I miss all the WC regulars. Yeah there are still BU threads but...
I was talking with Madelyn about them the other day and she said to request an invite but I'm afraid I wouldn't meet the "rules" of being a regular contributor and would get bumped out, lol. I was more of a sporadic poster over there.
Thanks! I will try to look into some as well.
For the record, supposedly the change over here will be next week.
Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
My IF/Everything Blog
There's No Crying in Baseball
***My posts are always SAIFW**
Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant
Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB
baby girl born 5/10/13
TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28.
IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!! Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!
Tons of love and ((hugs)) to my IF sister NMscubagirl
We would need a board admin(s) and/or mod. Its potentially a large time commitment and unlike maintaining the blog (which is one way posting), a timely response to actual people is required. All this is new territory for me, I've neither set up a board not been involved in a newly minted one, but it's a commitment I am unable to make with my current obligations. There are other ways I would be happy to contribute.
IVF #1-July 2011 7/9/11-Started Stims
7/20/11-ER:No eggs in 4/5 follicles. Left the 5th follie intact and converted to an IUI
8/3/11-Beta #1=BFN,
Nov, 2011 BFP #1=m/c at 7 wks 3 days
11/11-AMH .47, IVF #2 March 2012...or not!! Surprise BFP on 2/19. Beta #1=161. Beta #2 305 Our little miracle girl is on her way! Due Oct 29, 2012
<a href="http://s1207.photobucket.com/albums/bb461/andersenspics/?action=view
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
What is crazy is that each board that has changed over has literally died. And the Bump/Knot just doesn't get it or care that people are leaving over this.
Rachel - I am a huge MM lurker and I am going to be sad to see those ladies leave.
lol. Oh I know. I've been around for awhile too and it's always been a hassle. The newest way is causing boards to flock to new forums and fb groups in droves. I mean, we're talking mass exodus of entire boards.
Exactly. I love MM. I'll follow wherever, lol.
Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
My IF/Everything Blog
There's No Crying in Baseball
***My posts are always SAIFW**
Absolutely understandable. I appreciate you just offering to help look into the options out there.
I will try my best to start it all up if we feel like it's needed.
Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
My IF/Everything Blog
There's No Crying in Baseball
***My posts are always SAIFW**
I can help with setup, it's the long term maintenance that's the issue. I'm wondering what all the other boards are doing, if FB is the most logical for keeping up with multiple boards, or migrating to the same host service so you only need to keep one account...
BTW we can feedback to the bump editors at community@thebump.com
There are already a couple of FB IF private FB groups:
PAIF
SAIF
Mom's through IF
DE/DS Support
The Nest Infertility Group (though I don't know how active this group is)
The nice thing is that they are private and don't show up on your feed. The down side is there can be a loss of some privacy with the use of real names and pics (hasn't been an issue for me). The other down side is that it since it is private, we aren't likely to ever get new members, so boards can slow down or die off over time. That was the nice thing about a public board - being able to share knowledge with others in our shoes.
I have an issue with some of the annonimity on some boards. like Moms through IF, I will never be welcome there. Long story not worth getting into but I won't be. I am part of NIG but because there are some people I prefer to not talk with, I don't like giving them personal access to me - especially when I'm apparently blocked by them on fb so they can see anything I post but I have no idea if they do the same. It's sucky because I wouldn't go and post on the s/paif fb boards any more than I already do on here...and that's not often at all.
Obviously this is a response based solely on my personal situation. I hardly think it applies to everyone, lol. Eh, I guess I'll either move to a new forum, hold the fort down over here...or GBCIVF.
Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
My IF/Everything Blog
There's No Crying in Baseball
***My posts are always SAIFW**
DX: 6/9/2011: Azoo ICSI/IVF only option for biological child
IVF #1: ER - 9/26 * ET - 10/1 * beta#1 10/13 - 140 * beta#2 10/17 - 477 * beta#3 10/20 - 1101
1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
FET #1 Jan/Feb 2012 - 3 delays - cancelled 2/13
FET #1.2 - May/June 2012 - ET 6/6/* beta#1 6/15 - 95 * beta #2 6/19 - 322 * beta #3 6/22 - 940
7/6 1st u/s @ 7 weeks - one beautiful hb - released from RE
EDD 2/22/2013
PAIF/SAIF/PGAL welcome
Honestly, that may be why they are doing this. If you think about it, the knot/nest/bump doesn't get revenue stream from us being on the boards. The revenue stream comes from buying wedding favors, magazines, baby gifts etc. I can't speak for anyone, but I don't look at any of that stuff or have ever purchased anything from this site. So to them, all I am is someone using bandwidth on their servers. If you make message boards cumbersome - well, maybe there's no incentive to use their bandwidth.
DX: 6/9/2011: Azoo ICSI/IVF only option for biological child
IVF #1: ER - 9/26 * ET - 10/1 * beta#1 10/13 - 140 * beta#2 10/17 - 477 * beta#3 10/20 - 1101
1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
FET #1 Jan/Feb 2012 - 3 delays - cancelled 2/13
FET #1.2 - May/June 2012 - ET 6/6/* beta#1 6/15 - 95 * beta #2 6/19 - 322 * beta #3 6/22 - 940
7/6 1st u/s @ 7 weeks - one beautiful hb - released from RE
EDD 2/22/2013
PAIF/SAIF/PGAL welcome
It makes sense but it's funny timing since there was an article just today about how staying off facebook can put money back into your pocket. There was some study done with the amount of revenue the ad click throughs generated. I'm like you, I never click them and I haven't bought anything....BUT...there obviously are people out there that do. The more active a board, the more potential sales. It just makes me shake my head in annoyance. I can deal with format changes but when the new format doesn't even work at all at time I don't feel like wasting my time.
Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
My IF/Everything Blog
There's No Crying in Baseball
***My posts are always SAIFW**