TTC After a Loss

..:: LaTi ::..

Oh hun! I just read your post in the "can't even imagine" thread. I am so sorry about your HSG from hell. I had no clue you were even getting an HSG done! 

My lurker mode has not been well lately, and i've kind of disconnected myself from the board this past month. I am so freaking sorry I missed it. I'm actually going to go searching for your post right now. 

How are you though? {{{hugs}}}


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Re: ..:: LaTi ::..

  • Don't worry about it Cashews. My post wasn't directed at people who are taking a step back from the board. More of a point to people who are active posters and actively receive support. KWIM?

    Long story short, the radiologist had a hard time getting my catheter in place. Took her about 20 minutes and multiple catheters to finally get one through my cervix and even then had a hard time keeping in there. I'm sure HSG's aren't typically painful, but mine definitely wasn't awesome. She thinks there might be scar tissue on my cervix from a prior procedure.

    I'm doing good now. Feel back to normal and HSG came back normal, as did DH's SA. While I'm relieved both are normal, I'm super frustrated because if those aren't the problem then WTF is? LoL. 


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  • First of all, in my spotting lurking that is something I have noticed lately. I'm all in for having a little bit of fun and NTTCALR posts. I loved me a PIP war back in the day! But we also gave support where it was needed, and I have noticed that the support for where it really matters is just not there anymore. Sad It sucks. 

     

    As for your HSG. Oh man! I am so sorry you went through that! I still have to make an appointment for mine, but I have insurance issues going on right now. I'm so glad everything came back normal though! I know how you feel... sometimes you wish that something was wrong just so you can get it fixed and move on. Without that something wrong, there's nothing to fix and no reasons why. It almost sucks more to be so freaking normal.  


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

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    I don't know how I missed it either, LaTi. Sad I knew it was on your calendar, but I didn't know when it was. I apologize for not sending you good vibes that day.

    I'm happy your HSG is over, but I'm sorry it was so horrific. It's good that it came back normal, but I do hope something (minor and fixable!) turns up somewhere, because it sure blows not having a "reason" for our heartache. "It happens" just doesn't cut it. ((hugs))  

    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
  • imageCashewsMommy:

    First of all, in my spotting lurking that is something I have noticed lately. I'm all in for having a little bit of fun and NTTCALR posts. I loved me a PIP war back in the day! But we also gave support where it was needed, and I have noticed that the support for where it really matters is just not there anymore. Sad It sucks. 

     

    As for your HSG. Oh man! I am so sorry you went through that! I still have to make an appointment for mine, but I have insurance issues going on right now. I'm so glad everything came back normal though! I know how you feel... sometimes you wish that something was wrong just so you can get it fixed and move on. Without that something wrong, there's nothing to fix and no reasons why. It almost sucks more to be so freaking normal.  

    I like to see the fun posts and the random stuff, don't get me wrong, but I would also like to see this board return to her former glory. More support where it's actually needed and less b.s. and drama.

    Most definitely about the lack of results. Even DH was like "seriously?" We just want a flippin' answer as to why we can't get pg. We knew my hormones were whacked, but even after my doc got that under control we still aren't getting pg. It's so flucking frustrating! Thank goodness I've got you ladies who get it!


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    ::butting in::

    I don't know how I missed it either, LaTi. Sad I knew it was on your calendar, but I didn't know when it was. I apologize for not sending you good vibes that day.

    I'm happy your HSG is over, but I'm sorry it was so horrific. It's good that it came back normal, but I do hope something (minor and fixable!) turns up somewhere, because it sure blows not having a "reason" for our heartache. "It happens" just doesn't cut it. ((hugs))  

    Thanks panacea! And a big fluck yes to the bolded. 


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    ♥BFP #2 "Offspring"- 11/10/12 | EDD: 07/25/13 | incomplete m/c 12/14/12 @8w1d | D&C 12/21/12♥
    ♥BFP #3 "Progeny" - 02/16/15 | It's a BOY!! | EDD: 10/17/15 | BD: 10/23/15
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  • I'm sorry I missed your post too LaTi. Sad But know that I think of you often. And you too Cashews!

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    Oh LaTi, I missed it too. I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that...it's so frustrating when you have to put yourself through so much, and fight so hard and then not feel like you are getting anywhere. 

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  • I am so sorry your HG did not go well and that it did not provide any answers. I can only imagine how frustrating that would be. I have not been here as long as some, but I think the tone has changed so much because there was such a big turnover. We had so many ladies move on, and it seems like so many new ladies are here. I think some trust and new friendship bonds need to be established in order to truly give others support. I have always appreciated your honesty and your willingness to share your experiences.
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  • LaTi I just wanted to say I am sorry for not seeing your post. Generally I always open your stuff and post. I have not been very active as of late. I have been in a rough spot and that is no excuse not to give support.

    I am also sorry your experience sucked. I have not had an HSG done but I have heard both it being fine and it being painful. I am terribly sorry yours was the worse of the 2.

    On one hand I am glad both your test and DH's came back normal but on the other it is very frustrating not having any kind of answer. I am praying you get some answers soon and that they can give an easy fix.

     

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  • I'm sorry you had a bad experience {{HUGS}}
  • Sorry we are all hijacking your post Cashews but I just wanted to butt in and say sorry that I missed your post LaTi also about your HSG from hell.  I have not been as active on this board as I would like to be and just wanted to say that I miss seeing your posts.  When I first came here 6 months ago you were one of my favorites and I miss your posts.  I had a HSG done yesterday and it was definetly not fun!  (((HUGS)))
  • LaTi, just wanted to add how sorry I am for what you went through and that you didn't see a lot of support here. I haven't been checking in as much since I'm TTA right now and feel very awkward about it. But I admire and respect the heck out of you, and I'm so sorry the HSG was awful for you. I'm hoping and praying that something turns up so you have some answers and a game plan on how to proceed.
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  • I don't normally click on PM posts. Glad I clicked on this one. I'm sorry to read about your horrible hsg experience. I too wouldn't be sure what to make of the "normal" answer. Are you having some follow up as to what to do next? Thinking of you - I know this has been a very long road for you so far.
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  • Thank you ladies for the support.

    As far as what's next on the agenda, doc is figuring out what med he wants to go with next and we'll go from there. No new meds will be tried until after the trip so for now just the old fashioned method. If in 3 cycles of a new med we still aren't pg, he will be recommending an RE for further testing.


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    ♥BFP #2 "Offspring"- 11/10/12 | EDD: 07/25/13 | incomplete m/c 12/14/12 @8w1d | D&C 12/21/12♥
    ♥BFP #3 "Progeny" - 02/16/15 | It's a BOY!! | EDD: 10/17/15 | BD: 10/23/15
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  • I just read your comment last night too- I'm so sorry I missed it!  You've been an amazing source of support and I feel like I let you down.  I'm sorry it didn't go well- I also had a horrible HSG experience (my first one) and I would not wish that pain on anyone.  I'm glad the results were good, but I definitely understand the frustration of still being no closer to getting answers.  ::HUGS::

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