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A delicate subject...

Fran5329Fran5329 member
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My husband is rather big, especially when he's excited. But now that I'm in my second trimester, I find that I'm having a terrible problem accommodating him, if you know what I mean. I have a much more difficult time fitting him inside me than before, and it seems as if my vagina has somehow shrunk as my pregnancy has progressed. Has this happened to anybody else, and do you have any advice?
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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    Which part of this is delicate, his enormous peen or your shrinking vagina? Just curious.
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    imageLILBIT1221:
    Which part of this is delicate, his enormous peen or your shrinking vagina? Just curious.

    Ahahaha!!  LOL!

    OP - Sorry, I have not had this issue so I cannot offer any advice. I just had to express how funny this response was.

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  • lupineauralupineaura member

    I'll try and give you a serious answer...

    Perhaps it is more of a lubrication, rather than physical, issue? Lubrication can change during pregnancy, particularly if you may not be as "in the mood" as you were before. Try some lube and see if that helps. Good luck! 

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  • KaylaC0514KaylaC0514
    tighter vag is normal during preg., try lube, different positions, lots of foreplay etc.
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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    imageMandJS:
    imageAmbsies:

    You should try fisting.  Not only will you then be able to accommodate your H's ginormous peen, you're also preparing for childbirth!

    ETA:  link is perfectly safe- I promise!

    Oh the fisting post. That was a good day. 

    oh, it was indeed.
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  • roxyttandmeroxyttandme member

    It is taking an incredible amount of self control to act Iike an adult with this post. Oh, the things running through my sick, sick, head... Hahaha... Damn I'm funny....

    :::steps away before I put my foot in my mouth::: 

    Wait!

    Nope, walking away..... 

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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    imageTheAnne:

    OP:  lol

     everyone else, don't hate just because you have cavernous vaginas.  gosh. 

    maybe my DH just doesn't have a peen as big as her DH, ever think of that? Why does it have to be MY vag with the issue, huh?
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  • joshandpandajoshandpanda member
    imagestephaniemthomas:

    The return of the this OP is sure to make for some good laughs today.

    ::grabs popcorn::

    yay!!! Im grabbing popcorn now too! Just gave me something to do with the last couple hours at work today! Score! 

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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    imageroxyttandme:

    It is taking an incredible amount of self control to act Iike an adult with this post. Oh, the things running through my sick, sick, head... Hahaha... Damn I'm funny....

    :::steps away before I put my foot in my mouth::: 

    Wait!

    Nope, walking away..... 

    OH! Roxy, PLEASE come back! I would LOVE to hear what you have to say here.
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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    imageTheAnne:
    imageLILBIT1221:
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    OP:  lol

     everyone else, don't hate just because you have cavernous vaginas.  gosh. 

    maybe my DH just doesn't have a peen as big as her DH, ever think of that? Why does it have to be MY vag with the issue, huh?

    Before I can finish judgement I will need to see pics of said smaller peen.  

    Oh.
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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    imageSookieFrackhouse68:

    I would suggest lube and positions that allow for more shallow, er, penetration. So you know, doggy style and junk are out.

    Some discomfort during pregnant sex is very normal.

    buzz kill.
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  • kelnyckelnyc member

    I love how you tried to be discreet with the "if you know what I mean" line and then proceeded to tell us exactly what you mean anyway.

    Also, using the same post title as last time? Sleep

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  • mikeandcristinamikeandcristina member
    Does anyone ever wonder if OP is some sweaty, greasy, fat man in his 40's, surrounded by fast food wrappers and chip bags, and empty pop bottles that he's peed into, that likes to sit at his computer in his mother's basement and masturbate to the replies of pregnant women to his sex related posts? Just curious.
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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    imageLoisLane23:
    imageSookieFrackhouse68:

    I would suggest lube and positions that allow for more shallow, er, penetration. So you know, doggy style and junk are out.

    Some discomfort during pregnant sex is very normal.

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    Bahahahahahahaha ::gasp:: hahahahahaha
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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    imagemikeandcristina:
    Does anyone ever wonder if OP is some sweaty, greasy, fat man in his 40's, surrounded by fast food wrappers and chip bags, and empty pop bottles that he's peed into, that likes to sit at his computer in his mother's basement and masturbate to the replies of pregnant women to his sex related posts? Just curious.
    Well, now that you mention it.
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    imagemikeandcristina:
    Does anyone ever wonder if OP is some sweaty, greasy, fat man in his 40's, surrounded by fast food wrappers and chip bags, and empty pop bottles that he's peed into, that likes to sit at his computer in his mother's basement and masturbate to the replies of pregnant women to his sex related posts? Just curious.

    Not until right this second. Ewwwwwwwwww. 

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  • mikeandcristinamikeandcristina member

    For the fat man:

    Suck it up and let him cram as much of that in there as he can. After all, it is your duty as a wife, regardless of you being pregnant or not.

    SHAZAAM!

     

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  • AnaKat405AnaKat405

    Hey OP, not sure if this is a serious post or not, and not sure what to make of it after reading your other delicate subject post but I PM'd you a link to some info that may be useful to you.

    Best of luck! :)

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  • Lou&BethLou&Beth
    With the increased blood volume of pregnancy, you are probably just a little swollen compared to normal. I don't think it's anything to be concerned about.
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  • ChristinaDawnChristinaDawn
    imageAmbsies:

    You should try fisting.  Not only will you then be able to accommodate your H's ginormous peen, you're also preparing for childbirth!

    ETA:  link is perfectly safe- I promise!

    OMFG. I just busted out laughing at my desk.  

     

    OP:  i ditto lubes and just try your best.  I have noticed that I am tighter which has made sex pretty amazing, however we're not to the point of not fitting yet ;)

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  • blindvictoryblindvictory member

    Well, if he's only big when he's excited, there's a simple solution. Only have sex when he's NOT excited. 

    YWIA.  

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  • sychehsycheh
    Could it be swelling of your lady area (which I am obsessed with right now, since it's like my first major symptom)?
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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    imageblindvictory:

    Well, if he's only big when he's excited, there's a simple solution. Only have sex when he's NOT excited. 

    YWIA.  

    Yes
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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    imageCourtandNate:

    imageLILBIT1221:
    Which part of this is delicate, his enormous peen or your shrinking vagina? Just curious.

     This has completed my day!  THANK YOU

    *curtsies*
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  • tinyhumantoetinyhumantoe member

    1.  Lube up

    2.  Make him go s-l-o-w

    3.  Anything other than missionary with him on top is painful for me

    Also, I get some major cramping for hours after we have sex.  The ginormous snoogle back & belly pillow that I bought (that takes up 1/2 the bed) seems to do a good job of keeping him away from me.  I wonder if he knows I even sleep in the same bed?

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    imagetinyhumantoe:

    1.  Lube up

    2.  Make him go s-l-o-w

    3.  Anything other than missionary with him on top is painful for me

    Also, I get some major cramping for hours after we have sex.  The ginormous snoogle back & belly pillow that I bought (that takes up 1/2 the bed) seems to do a good job of keeping him away from me.  I wonder if he knows I even sleep in the same bed?

    Really? Missionary? That's the most uncomfortable thing for me right now. His body weight on mah bump? No thank you.  

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  • CinemaGoddessCinemaGoddess member
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    Just please promise that you'll use protection. The last thing you need right now is to get pregnant again.
    Yes

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    You should try fisting.  Not only will you then be able to accommodate your H's ginormous peen, you're also preparing for childbirth!

    ETA:  link is perfectly safe- I promise!

    Oh the fisting post. That was a good day. 

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    imageCinemaGoddess:
    imagekirky05:
    Just please promise that you'll use protection. The last thing you need right now is to get pregnant again.
    Yes

    What about a nesting doll situation?

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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    imagekirky05:
    Just please promise that you'll use protection. The last thing you need right now is to get pregnant again.
    Now Kirks, don't go scaring the girl!
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  • CoUnTryBB1CoUnTryBB1 member
    imageAmbsies:

    You should try fisting.  Not only will you then be able to accommodate your H's ginormous peen, you're also preparing for childbirth!

    ETA:  link is perfectly safe- I promise!

    OMG - This was hilarious and totally just made my day.  

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  • LILBIT1221LILBIT1221 member
    imagestf3814:

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    FTW!
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  • ChibiMommyChibiMommy member

    Is it like this? 

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  • stf3814stf3814 member
    imageChibiMommy:

    Is it like this? 

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    AWESOME!

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  • mikeandcristinamikeandcristina member
    imagestf3814:
    imageChibiMommy:

    Is it like this? 

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    AWESOME!

    I LOVE THIS. Between this, the fisting, trying it while he's not excited, and the not getting pregnant again posts, I've now peed myself 4 x's today laughing.

    BTW, where is OP? S(he) hasn't made any comments about anything going on in this thread...

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  • DLD102DLD102 member

    imagemikeandcristina:
    Does anyone ever wonder if OP is some sweaty, greasy, fat man in his 40's, surrounded by fast food wrappers and chip bags, and empty pop bottles that he's peed into, that likes to sit at his computer in his mother's basement and masturbate to the replies of pregnant women to his sex related posts? Just curious.

    Lil' bit.  HAHAHAHAHAHA!  That is all.

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  • BPerBPer member
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    imageCinemaGoddess:
    imagekirky05:
    Just please promise that you'll use protection. The last thing you need right now is to get pregnant again.
    Yes

    What about a nesting doll situation?

    If her baby got pregnant, and then her BABY's baby got pregnant, things could get really out of control.  There would definitely be no room left for her hubby up there. 

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