TTC After a Loss

Stepping out of the Shadows-Intro

Hey ladies,

  Thought it might finally be time to introduce myself.  Smile  My husband and I got our BFP back in August on our first month of trying.  Unfortunately, it wasn't but a week and a half later when I miscarried.  We got the go ahead after one cycle to try again and have been since (minus a month I was having some non-TTC related health issues).   I've been lurking for quite awhile (since probably November/December) but never introduced myself because I kept thinking, "It will happen to us soon."  Well, it (obviously) hasn't and we just passed our estimated due date the Monday after Easter.  So I am hoping that y'all will allow me to finally join you.

  A little about me:  I just turned 31 (this week) and DH is 32.  I work in the tax field and DH is a farmer.  In my spare time I love to bake, travel and watch college football (especially my LSU Tigers!)  We also have four fabulous furbabies who are keeping me sane through this entire process.

  I look forward to getting to know you all.

 

BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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PGAL/PAL welcome

Re: Stepping out of the Shadows-Intro

  • Oh wow, my siggy pic is obnoxiously huge!  How do I make it smaller?
    BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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    Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

    Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
    Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
    Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
    Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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    PGAL/PAL welcome
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  • Welcome. I am sorry for your loss.
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  • Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for your loss.

    Please take some time to look through our blog (Link is in my siggy in Green) It is full of useful information Big Smile

    Hope your stay here is short and sweet

    As far as your siggy, what did you use to get the picture code (Tinypic, photobucket, etc)?

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  • Welcome to the board, I'm sorry for your loss!  I too waited to post for a long time thinking "maybe this month is my month".  I hope your stay is short and sweet!

    Regarding the siggy pic, I tihnk you have to go back to tinypic and resize it, but I'm no expert.

    DD 9/2/13


  • Thanks ladies!

    VikingQueen, I definitely learned from my lurking to make sure and read the blog (which is fabulous by the way!)  Wink  But it would probably do me good to do a refresher read so thanks for letting me know!

    I used Tinypic for the photo code.

    BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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    Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

    Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
    Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
    Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
    Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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    PGAL/PAL welcome
  • imagelsuhoneybadger:

    Thanks ladies!

    VikingQueen, I definitely learned from my lurking to make sure and read the blog (which is fabulous by the way!)  Wink  But it would probably do me good to do a refresher read so thanks for letting me know!

    I used Tinypic for the photo code.

    lol everyone can use a refresher every once in a while.. I actually went back in read it not too long ago and I've been here forever it seems Stick out tongue

    I'm not too familiar with tinypic.. I know you can go and redo it in  tinypic for a smaller option or you can change the numbers on the code you already have.. but liek I said I'm not too familiar as I use photobucket. Maybe someone else can chime in with it Big Smile

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  • Im so very sorry for your loss. Welcome officially to the board. I hope your stay here is short! 

    I have to say before I saw your 2nd post, I thought wow she must be a huge LSU fan :) 

  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board! 
  • Welcome to the board.  I'm very sorry for your loss.
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  • Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    I'm an LSU girl too!

     


    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


  • I am so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie - (B9PH)

     

    Lilypie - (0YVF)
     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

  • Welcome, sorry you have to be here but glad you found us. 

  • Im sorry for your loss, welcome to the board!
  • Glad you came out of the shadows but I'm sorry you find yourself here.  Welcome

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  • imageStephNordenmalm:

    Im so very sorry for your loss. Welcome officially to the board. I hope your stay here is short! 

    I have to say before I saw your 2nd post, I thought wow she must be a huge LSU fan :) 

    LOL, yes so true  Big Smile

     

     

    imageLaurakat81:

    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    I'm an LSU girl too!

     

     

    I'm so glad there are more of us!  

    BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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    Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

    Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
    Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
    Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
    Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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    PGAL/PAL welcome
  • Thank you all for the warm welcome ladies!
    BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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    Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

    Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
    Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
    Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
    Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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    PGAL/PAL welcome
  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board! 
    Anniversary
    BFP #1: 12/5/11, M/C 12/19/11
    BFP #2: 5/22/12 Due 2/1/13 Baby girl born 2/2/13
  • I'm so sorry for your loss, but glad you found this board.  I've found it to be very helpful in my healing process.  I hope your stay is short!!  Welcome. 
    After 22 months TTC and the loss of our identical twins at 10w6d, we're excited about our rainbow baby!
    Stick, baby, Stick!
    Beta #1 (12dpo): 38.3; Beta #2 (15dpo): 202.7
    Baby Girl born 1/17/13
  • Welcome!  Hopefully you won't be here too much longer...that goes for all of us!
    Cycle 7: BFP 1-17-12, Missed Miscarriage at 8w6d (measured 7w2d, no HB), D&C 2-29-12
    Cycle 9: BFP 5-3-12:EDD 1-24-13 It's a girl! Born 12-27-12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  You've found a wonderful board to be a part of though! Hope your stay is very short. :)  And Happy Belated Birthday!

    Lilypie - (dLe1)

     

          ***BFP 1-22-13, baby boy dx with Trisomy 13 at 15 weeks.

           We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***

     Lilypie - (AW2u)
     

     Lilypie - (L84X)Lilypie - (D4Hj)

     

     

     

     

  • sorry you have to be here and hope your stay is short and sweet. I would love to have a farm in upsate NY! I visited there before and my DH lived there for a short time, it's really pretty. ((hugs))
    My little boy went to heaven during childbirth Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    BabyFruit Ticker

    type 1 diabetic for 7 years. Been on the pump for 6 years.
  • Welcome to the board, I am sorry for your loss and I hope your stay here is short.

    Also, go Tigers!!! I live in south Louisiana, only about 45 min from BR.

    DS1: 8/3/10, DD1: 8/17/13, DD2: 8/13/15
    Twins lost to due to partial molar pregnancy: September 2011 
    ~~PAL, PgAL Always Welcome~~
  • Welcome to the board...These ladies have truly helped me...I am new too...Hope your stay is short and sweet as we all want to graduate from this board at some point...

    By the way we have something else in common...My husband is a farmer too...

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  • I am so sorry for your loss as well as having to play the waiting game for your next BFP. I am sure the wait is so hard :( 

     

     

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  • sorry for your loss, but welcome. DH's family are LSU fans :)

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

    All AL are welcome
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  • I'll welcome you to the board, even though I'm a Razorback. Stick out tongue I'm so sorry for your loss. (((HUGS)))
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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    My Blog: One Emerald
    BFP#1: 9-13-11 EDD: 5-26-12 MMC: 11-4-11 D&C: 11-8-11
    BFP#2: 7-6-12 Elizabeth Faye ("Zuzu") born 3-21-13
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