After a long talk last night MH and I have decided to:
-Rush getting paperwork done and go forward with adoption!!!!!!!!!! Our ideal "deadline" to be done is May 25th and we've been told we can make it happen!.
-If we're not matched by Nov we'll consider maybe doing a round of IVF. If we have been matched, we'll be thrilled we've expanded our family and put future treatments on the back burner for a while.
Of course my case manager is out of the office till Monday, so I'll take a gamble and ask you ladies. On something like an "Adoptive Parent Questionnaire" MH and I would both fill one out right? It asks questions like "Describe your parent's relationship" and "Describe personal goals."
WHEW...it feels awesome to have made a decision and be working towards something rather than sitting in limbo.
::whispers:: I promise not to be a huge PW like I have been the last few days!