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Baby momma drama? No, let's try baby daddy drama..

UpstateEMTMommyUpstateEMTMommy
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So the BD and I have been working on getting back together and then come to find out he's telling some really big lies. Well now he might be staying with the other girl and things just got super complicated to the point of frustration that I had to use up PTO for a sick day yesterday from work because I knew I couldn't focus on my patients with all of my personal drama... PTO I need for when LO arrives. URGH. Why can't this all be simple? Why does my 30yo BD have to be so much less mature than some of the dads on Teen Mom? I hope to God he wakes up for our little one's sake. I am not getting my hopes up though. And the girl he's choosing? Works at a convenience store, lives with mom and dad at 29yo, just got her 2nd offense DUI and Driving under suspension and has quite the reputation for being a psycho. Needless to say she's not going anywhere near my child. And let's see, I'm 23, have been on my own for almost 6 years now, have my own beautiful home, 2 healthcare well-paying (sorta) jobs, no driving record let alone criminal record and his family loves me while they hate her... URGH URGH..

 

Sorry, rant over.

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Re: Baby momma drama? No, let's try baby daddy drama..

  • achase123achase123

    Let her have him if he's going to be a liar and a cheat.  It isn't a competition and by putting her down it comes across like you think it is.  Many of us on this board have been cheated on while we were pregnant so I'm sorry for your circumstances.  You will end up MUCH better off in the end with someone who can remain loyal.

    And as far as the OW, you have no control over who he takes your child around so you'll have to come to terms with that as well. 

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  • nikkilyn35nikkilyn35 member
    Achase is right, you'll have no control over who your ex takes the child around.  and that type of thought is frowned upon in court too, it comes across as controlling and possibly vengeful.  but it is easy to get caught up in that with all the emotions and hormones associated with being pregnant and going through stress with your signifigant other.  try not to let that get the better of you.
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  • PrettyInPearls23PrettyInPearls23 member
    Why would you want to be with someone who chooses a woman of such a low standard...and lies about it.  And please, please don't say for the sake of your child.

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