just got a surprise bfp

EmilyAnne · April 2012

Wow! Congrats. Give it some time for both you and your H to let it sink in.

Oh, and call you RE about getting a Beta. I'm sure they would see you. GL!

alchris · April 2012

Congratulations!

If I were in your shoes, I'd have such a similar reaction. Hopefully by taking it day to day, you and DH, both individually and together, can start to smile about the whole thing. For now, your complete shock is totally understandable for so many reasons!

I'd call your RE, at least I know I would want to.

Thinking of you!!!

dundasgirl · April 2012

I could have sworn I replied to this but I don't see my response anywhere?

Anyway...Congratulations! I understand the conflicted emotions of a surprise pregnancy. I was freakingoutbigtime when I got mine. And it wasn't what we planned, but DH has said over and over: Imagine if little Penny wasn't here? What would we do without her? She completes our family and things do happen for a reason. You got pregnant against the odds.

I think it's great that you and your DH have been working on your marriage. Open communication is super important and it will help you to work through both of your feelings.

Big hugs!

Ali212 · April 2012

Congratulations! I'm sorry it is a mixed surprise right now and understand how much you both must be processing. I hope everything works out best for you and your husband!

queenbone · April 2012

Well, I say congratulations!

My bff is super, super fertile and for various reasons her DH kept postponing a vasectomy. She got pregnant with what turned out to be their 3rd son. At first her DH was really upset, thought she should have an abortion, she then was upset, moved out for awhile, after the shock, he came around and was happy about the pregnancy, she moved back in, water under the bridge.

It is heartbreaking, and none of us ever want that to be the reaction we get to a pregnancy, especially when we are IF and have had to work so hard in the past. But I just wanted to let you know that even the worst initial reactions turn the other way, and everyone can be happy and excited for the new baby in the end.

naflmj · April 2012

Wow! I would call your RE and ask for a beta, I know plenty of people who do and it will be nice just to get some confirmation. I hope everything turns out well for you both.

macschic · April 2012

Congrats!!

emmyloustu · April 2012

larkin220:
I agree with everyone else. Congratulations and give it time.
I will also be the crass one here and say I'm impressed...sex two days in a row? Good for you girl! I don't have that kind of energy. ;-)

This made me lol! So, I'll say ditto!

leslie&brian · April 2012

Wow! Congratulations. What a crazy mix of emotions. You guys have plenty of time to let this sink in. Best of luck to you.

j11skate · April 2012

Congrats!!

ALY1981 · April 2012

Ohmigosh! Congrats-I'm sorry you are having so many conflicting feelings. I hope it's all okay soon. (((hugs)))

FaithRocks · April 2012

That is truly a miracle. I am really sorry about the circumstances, though. It must be tough to be so divided. Just give yourself some time to adjust to the idea and things will feel differently after a few days.