TTC After a Loss

Buffy's feet in siggy

I was able to go through the memory box tonight and look at her pictures. I put a picture of Buffy's feet in my siggy.

I love looking at them, but I'm not sure if they are upsetting to other people. I don't want to upset anyone. 

What are your thoughts?

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"How very softly you tiptoed into our world. Almost silently; Only a moment you stayed. But what an imprint your footprints have left on our hearts."
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  • They don't upset me and they are precious.
    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
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  • imagedelino:
    They don't upset me and they are precious.

    Exactly this. They are absolutely beautiful and perfect in every way.  

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  • imagedelino:
    They don't upset me and they are precious.

    I am fine with them hun.

    Delino love the new avatar pic!

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  • I think they are beautiful, they do not upset me at all.

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  • I haven't been able to look at her pics at all, but this picture of her feet filled me with such love and pride. They were the tiniest most perfect things I've even seen.

    Thanks for the support everyone. 

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  • imagedelino:
    They don't upset me and they are precious.

    Agreed.

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    imagedelino:
    They don't upset me and they are precious.

    Exactly this. They are absolutely beautiful and perfect in every way.  

    This and this!  Beautiful!

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  • Sweet, perfect little feet!  
    Natural m/c Oct. 2005

    Dx: balanced translocation and LPD

    TTC since Oct 2011

    BPF 02/19/12, EDD 10/31/12, natural m/c 02/28/12 (4w6d)

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    BFP 12/02/12, u/s @ 6w,5d showed 2 HBs! Identical twins!!
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  • The definitely don't upset me.
    BFP #1 11/27/11 EDD 08/08/12 M/C 01/27/12 12 wks 2 days
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    BFP #3 01/05/13 EDD 09/17/13 u/s 1/24/13-great appt, measuring 2 days ahead, NT scan 3/11/13-great scan measuring 4 days ahead, A/S 4/29/13-another great scan can't wait to meet my baby BOY!!!!!
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  • No, of course not. They are beautiful and I love how you have a picture of your feet right beside hers.
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  • There's nothing upsetting about them at all!  Your LOs feet are the same as any other baby's feet.  There's no reason you shouldn't show off that cuteness.  Adorable.

    And I love the name Buffy! 

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  • The second pic of my feet show the tattoos that I got of her exact footprints on my feet so she will walk with me forever.
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  • Does not upset me at all {{HUGS}}
  • imageMandiemn:

    I haven't been able to look at her pics at all, but this picture of her feet filled me with such love and pride. They were the tiniest most perfect things I've even seen.

    Thanks for the support everyone. 

    They are perfect.  Please don't remove them from your siggy, it doesn't offend me at all and is part of your story. 

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    BFP#2 - 04/01/12, EDD 12/12/12, Arrived 12/4/12!!
    BFP#3 - 12/31/13, EDD 09/10/14 - Grow baby, grow!

  • They do not upset me at all. They are beautiful and sweet.
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  • Sweet, tiny toes! Thank you for sharing!

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    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

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  • imageMandiemn:
    The second pic of my feet show the tattoos that I got of her exact footprints on my feet so she will walk with me forever.

    I read on the Loss board when you had these done, and now I have the chance to tell you how beautiful they are.

    There is nothing concerning your sweet baby that would offend me, but it is awesome and respectful that you asked everyone. 

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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

    “So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
  • They don't offend me in the slightest. They are precious and beautiful.


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    Married 07/17/2010
    Diagnosed with PCOS 10/20/2010 
    TTC since Oct 2010 
    BFP #1 March 31st 2011 Due December 10 2011 
    Missed m/c discovered June 2nd 2011 at 12w4d
    D&C scheduled June 7th 2011 at 13w2d
    Found out our baby boy had Triploidy XXY through embryopathology
    BFP #2 September 28th 2011 Due June 8th 2012
    Missed m/c discovered November 20th 2011 at 11w2d
    D&C November 29th 2011 at 12w4d
    Found out our baby girl had Monosomy X through embryopathology
    BFP #3 April 24th 2012 Due January 5th 2013
    Betas falling on 04/26/12 Chemical Pregnancy
    RPL testing done, multi nodular goiters on thyroid discovered.

    BFP #4 November 22nd 2012, Due August 5th 2013
    Betas: 17 @ 9dpo, 62 @ 11dpo, 124 @ 12dpo, 321 @ 14dpo 720 @ 16dpo 13,805 @ 23 dpo 
    First ultrasound at 6w3d, hb 122 bpm. 
    Second ultrasound at 7w3d hb 143 bpm 
    Third ultrasound at 10w1d hb 167-170 bpm 
    Forth ultrasound 12w1d hb 167 bpm 
    Graduated rpl program, moving on to regular ob! 
    It's a boy! 

    Little man was born August 1st 2013, 7lbs 8oz and 20.5 inches long



  • imageMandiemn:
    The second pic of my feet show the tattoos that I got of her exact footprints on my feet so she will walk with me forever.

    They are sweet little feet and such a sweet sentiment.


    TTC started Oct '10
    Me: AMA w/RSD, atypical PCOS w/IR, LPD and High Prolactin. Controlled HP post-loss.
    DH: Low-T and borderline morph
    18 cycles, 3 medicated w/RE to get to a BFP!
    EDD 9/7/12, Saw HB @7w3d,missed m/c 1/30 @8w3d, d&c 2/8
    11 AL cycles, 9 medicated/IUI cycles. All BFFN!
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    BFP#2 our little cycle break surprise on AL cycle 12! EDD 10/27/13
    Beta #1: 41 Beta #2: 398; perfect u/s 3/11 hb @133bpm
    u/s 3/25 one perfect hb @183 bpm, adjusted EDD 10/23/13
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  • I think they are just beautiful!!
    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
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    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
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  • They are so sweet and precious.
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  • It's a beautiful picture and I truly feel honored that you shared it with us.
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  • They are beautiful.  You should honor your daughter as you see fit!

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    What a sweet picture - not upsetting at all. Please keep it.
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  • I'm completely fine with them!

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  • Perfect, adorable little baby feet.  Smile  That's all I see.
    BFP #1: 10.28.11 - Natural M/C: 12.9.11 @9w3d
    BFP #2: 1.30.12 - missed m/c found on 2.27.12 - D&C 3.1.12 @8w 
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    BFP #4: 9.28.14 / EDD 5.27.15 / It's a girl! 

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