Speaking of judging, what have you judged for lately?

gisa886 · April 2012

I judge people who put their kids in the shopping cart without wiping it with a Clorox wipe or baby wipe first. I judge hard too.

jkfranklin · April 2012

I judge the girl on fb who all she talks about is when she can get her next tattoo, but then complains about having her cell phone and cable turned off because she didn't pay the bill. Also, she just had posted about going to a tattoo appointment about 2 weeks ago and the yesterday posted that she had been keeping a secrect for over a month that she was pregnant. So she knowingly got ink done while pregnant.

Bonidiebabe · April 2012

Dh and I were bashing this guy so hard yesterday for letting his LO ride on the bottom of the shopping cart. My best friend in HS had the worst teeth (as far as crooked goes) because she hit her teeth off the rail riding that way.

ImThisBabysMom · April 2012

I barely leave the house lol so I don't see much to judge. But I did judge SIL when they brought son to our new house. He was so bad. I don't know who that kid was, he never acts like that. He was climbing on fragile boxes and slammed the door into the wall and doing other stuff. I just kept thinking....this is our house. We just bought it. Control him. Stop him. Take him home. Spank him. Something! I had to get up and go tell him to get off the fragile boxes. I was annoyed.

Christina_Diane · April 2012

I judge what other people have in their grocery carts, especially if they do not appear to be healthy, even more so if their children are unhealthy, and very much so if they are using a motorized cart

I judge if people let their children run rampant in public. Once at a store, a young boy threw a hanger at me. You betcha I said something to the little boy, whose mother was within an ear shot, and then told the manager. Also, while working on my Master's degree, I was a food server. I totally judged parents who let their kids drink soda after soda. There was even a family with a little girl, probably around 2, and she wandered straight into the kitchen multiple times. The parents did not care, and it was a huge liability issue for us if we dropped something on her.

PinkPeony6210 · April 2012

I have two...

I judge people when they don't return their cart to the cart corral. I just want to get out of my car and do it for them (I have before).

I also judge people when they spell "definitely" wrong. It's one of my biggest pet peeves.

Beener0514 · April 2012

This week I have judged:

- a woman in Target whose child (about 2 years old) was screaming bloody murder. Meanwhile, she ignored him, left him the shopping cart and continued with her business. How about trying to pick him up? See if he is hurt? Or, if it is that bad (and trust me, it was) then leave the store!

- a girl on FB I went to school with whose son, at age 4, is at least 50 lbs overweight. He's so fat, he doesn't even look like a child. I solely blame the parents for letting a child get that overweight.

Christina_Diane · April 2012

PinkPeony6210:
I have two...

I judge people when they don't return their cart to the cart corral. I just want to get out of my car and do it for them (I have before).

I also judge people when they spell "definitely" wrong. It's one of my biggest pet peeves.

Oooh. Number 1 is a good one. I can't stand when people are too lazy to walk their cart back to the corral. It is so disrespectful. I don't want my car dinged because of someone's laziness.

Confession. I used to always spell definitely wrong. I spelled it definately until my first job out of college. It was one of those words that I always had trouble with. However, so true to Gisa's sig page, it wasn't until TN corrected me that I actually learned how to spell it.

bellablue2 · April 2012

I judge my friend IRL and on FB who insists on posting literally 15 pictures a day of herself and her children. Oh, and quotes and food pictures as well. It is driving me ccrazy!

SteelCity44 · April 2012

I judged my IL's this weekend for the overly gross baby stuff they have out for the 6 month old. I'm not sure who's fault it is, since the baby's mother (my SIL) doesn't really "care" for her child, and it's up to my MIL to take care of. The pack'n play is filthy on the sides... like visibly filthy. The changing pad that they use has never had it's solo cover washed since my 3 year old nephew was born. The toys are gross. The chair that the baby LIVES in is filthy.Oh, and the blankets they use to prop the bottle up while laying her in the pack'n play is also disgustingly gross and filled with dog hairs.

They keep plastic over the couches now and cover them with large blankets because the ancient dog has accidents on them. Then, they proceed to lay or seat the baby on those couches. They had to throw away the Boppy because the baby's head was sliding into the gap in the pillow, and they would find her face covered with the pillow.... because they were using it as a freaking pillow in her pack'n play... because baby's need pillows. Ugh. I judge HARD when I'm at the IL's. Thank God I'm a perfect mother (note sarcasm).

CTri17 · April 2012

gisa886:
I judge people who put their kids in the shopping cart without wiping it with a Clorox wipe or baby wipe first. I judge hard too.

lol you'd be judging me then. I do it, but certainly not all the time.

As far as me judging, a girl I went to HS with who called herself a MILF on FB and she was serious (but I won't share the whole sitch)

tiannalee · April 2012

I judge people who dont pay attention to their kids at parks. I was there with DS yesterday and the number of women who were playing with their smartphones instead of watching the havoc some their kids were casing was just unreal.

CTri17 · April 2012

Beener0514:
This week I have judged:

- a woman in Target whose child (about 2 years old) was screaming bloody murder. Meanwhile, she ignored him, left him the shopping cart and continued with her business. How about trying to pick him up? See if he is hurt? Or, if it is that bad (and trust me, it was) then leave the store!

Sometimes ignoring a tantrum is all you can do. Though if it went on for long, then I would have done something else, toddlers have crazy wills

TKx2 · April 2012

gisa886:
I judge people who put their kids in the shopping cart without wiping it with a Clorox wipe or baby wipe first. I judge hard too.

Yeah, that's disgusting. I carry extra wipes in my purse just in case the store is out.

SteelCity44 · April 2012

PinkPeony6210:
I have two...

I judge people when they don't return their cart to the cart corral. I just want to get out of my car and do it for them (I have before).

I also judge people when they spell "definitely" wrong. It's one of my biggest pet peeves.

I agree that people should return the cart, but I'll confess that when I was swollen and tired I would very occasionally leave the cart by the car if there were others there and the return was just too far to consider. I would always nicely put the stray carts together though!

JenLiggons · April 2012

If people didn't make comments about how many kids I had (this is my third and last but DH has one as well so when we have them all we get all kinds of looks and comments) I probably wouldn't judge others for this but..

I've caught myself judging people I keep in contact with on Facebook for making public trainwrecks out of their lives. The same people that had things to say when we announced the pregnancy just happen to have 4 kids by 4 different men and sit on FB complaining about being unemployed and not having a sitter so they can go party. Yea, I shouldn't judge them, but I can't help it.

TKx2 · April 2012

I have been judging one of our best friends lately because he is nothelping his wife at all with their newborn twins and 2 year old. He's been one of our best friends since college but I seriously want to go over there and nutpunch him. Also makes me appreciate my awesome DH that much more!!

Beener0514 · April 2012

CTri17:
Beener0514:

This week I have judged:

- a woman in Target whose child (about 2 years old) was screaming bloody murder. Meanwhile, she ignored him, left him the shopping cart and continued with her business. How about trying to pick him up? See if he is hurt? Or, if it is that bad (and trust me, it was) then leave the store!

Sometimes ignoring a tantrum is all you can do. Though if it went on for long, then I would have done something else, toddlers have crazy wills

I totally understand that and before I judged her, I felt sorry for her. But then I watched her for a bit and from my perspective with this particular parent, she was just too busy with her life to care about her kid. She was on the phone and completely distracted with her shopping. I can't tell you how many other people in the store just stopped to stare at this woman. It was that bad.

gisa886 · April 2012

Beener0514:
CTri17:
Beener0514:

This week I have judged:

- a woman in Target whose child (about 2 years old) was screaming bloody murder. Meanwhile, she ignored him, left him the shopping cart and continued with her business. How about trying to pick him up? See if he is hurt? Or, if it is that bad (and trust me, it was) then leave the store!

Sometimes ignoring a tantrum is all you can do. Though if it went on for long, then I would have done something else, toddlers have crazy wills

I totally understand that and before I judged her, I felt sorry for her. But then I watched her for a bit and from my perspective with this particular parent, she was just too busy with her life to care about her kid. She was on the phone and completely distracted with her shopping. I can't tell you how many other people in the store just stopped to stare at this woman. It was that bad.

I was going to say the same as CTri, but that situation is totally different.

CTri I judge because of the flu germs that are going crazy amongst other things. My mom is a pharmacy tech so I get to hear about all the crap that goes around. Makes me crazy.

BigAppleBiggerBelly · April 2012

I judge people for walking really slowly. If my full-term pregnant ass blows past you, maybe you should consider stepping it up a bit. Even at the hospital yesterday, the nurse who was leading me to my NST was so freaking slow and commented on me walking too quickly. No, you're just lazy. Let's move!

bbflynyc · April 2012

I judge the hospital staff in scrubs outside the hospital smoking.

I judge people who drive in circles in parking lots because they don't want to walk more than 20ft (exception for old and handicap people)

I judge people who don't pick up their dogs' poop on a walk

I judge people with really stupid bumper stickers on their car and/or vanity plates

I judge people who drive like maniacs with children in their car

gisa886 · April 2012

I also judge motorcyclists and handicapped people who park in the yellow lined not parking space. Makes me want to key them

pensparade · April 2012

I judge baby names.

I also judge moms who treat their kids like crap in public. Not that it's good anywhere, but in the middle of the grocery check out, you're just asking for DHS to knock on your door.

TKx2 · April 2012

gisa886:
Beener0514:
CTri17:
Beener0514:

This week I have judged:

- a woman in Target whose child (about 2 years old) was screaming bloody murder. Meanwhile, she ignored him, left him the shopping cart and continued with her business. How about trying to pick him up? See if he is hurt? Or, if it is that bad (and trust me, it was) then leave the store!

Sometimes ignoring a tantrum is all you can do. Though if it went on for long, then I would have done something else, toddlers have crazy wills

I totally understand that and before I judged her, I felt sorry for her. But then I watched her for a bit and from my perspective with this particular parent, she was just too busy with her life to care about her kid. She was on the phone and completely distracted with her shopping. I can't tell you how many other people in the store just stopped to stare at this woman. It was that bad.
I was going to say the same as CTri, but that situation is totally different.
CTri I judge because of the flu germs that are going crazy amongst other things. My mom is a pharmacy tech so I get to hear about all the crap that goes around. Makes me crazy.

I judge because I've seen the nasty things kids do to/wipe on carts. I don't even want to touch them without wiping them down!

MarxieVonTrapp · April 2012

Oh, pensparade, I'm right there with you. I judge baby names.

I judge people with poor grammar.

I judge women who wear rompers.

I judge girls and women who wear clothing sizes too small. Just get the larger size--no one knows it's a 14 and not a 6 except for you.

BigAppleBiggerBelly · April 2012

bbflynyc:
I judge the hospital staff in scrubs outside the hospital smoking.
I judge people who drive in circles in parking lots because they don't want to walk more than 20ft (exception for old and handicap people)
I judge people who don't pick up their dogs' poop on a walk
I judge people with really stupid bumper stickers on their car and/or vanity plates
I judge people who drive like maniacs with children in their car

All of these! I really hate those stickers that show stick figures of the family and pets. I judge anyone smoking because if you're under 50, you grew up hearing the evils of cigarette smoke, so why would you ever start?

BigAppleBiggerBelly · April 2012

bbflynyc:
I judge the hospital staff in scrubs outside the hospital smoking.
I judge people who drive in circles in parking lots because they don't want to walk more than 20ft (exception for old and handicap people)
I judge people who don't pick up their dogs' poop on a walk
I judge people with really stupid bumper stickers on their car and/or vanity plates
I judge people who drive like maniacs with children in their car

All of these! I really hate those stickers that show stick figures of the family and pets. I judge anyone smoking because if you're under 50, you grew up hearing the evils of cigarette smoke, so why would you ever start?

vsalt31 · April 2012

BigAppleBiggerBelly:
I judge people for walking really slowly. If my full-term pregnant ass blows past you, maybe you should consider stepping it up a bit. Even at the hospital yesterday, the nurse who was leading me to my NST was so freaking slow and commented on me walking too quickly. No, you're just lazy. Let's move!

Haha This made me LOL!

KaitQuinn · April 2012

bellablue2:
I judge my friend IRL and on FB who insists on posting literally 15 pictures a day of herself and her children. Oh, and quotes and food pictures as well. It is driving me ccrazy!

This! Especially the food pictures!

Daniellemf1228 · April 2012

I judge people that wear pajama pants out in public like they are really clothing. If I can still gather enough effort to wear actual clothing at 36 weeks pregnant I think other people have no excuse. Especially since my maternity pants put plenty of unwanted pressure on my pelvis which hurts all the time. Get dressed, you look like a slob.

vsalt31 · April 2012

I judge what people in line in front of me are buying at the grocery store. For example, when someone buys 6 bags of doritos, frozen dinners, pop, and velveeta cheese, I judge them hard core. Where is the fresh produce?!

Confession: I use to also judge people hard core for "not controlling their child" in a public place. Never again, now I know how hard it can be!

Eilis123 · April 2012

I judge people whose FB status updates are always some version of "FML". Get a therapist.

I judge bad drivers.

Tambcat · April 2012

Do you wipe down the slides at the playground too?

mommabear17 · April 2012

I judge the people in my neighborhood who are too lazy to donate really nice toys their kids don't want anymore and instead put them out for the trash. When leaving this morning, one of the neighbors up the street had out a play kitchen, some kind of ride-in car and another larger toy. All appeared to be in great shape.

It breaks my heart that there are kids out there that would love to have those toys and they're just throwing them away. There are so many charities that would take them and even come to their house to pick them up.

SteelCity44 · April 2012

Eilis123:
I judge people whose FB status updates are always some version of "FML". Get a therapist.
I judge bad drivers.

I don't judge them. I unsubscribe from them if they're family or de-friend them if they're not.

gisa886 · April 2012

Tambcat:
Do you wipe down the slides at the playground too?

So far we haven't been to the park because all she wants to do is run around in a circle and our backyard is good for that. The reason why I think carts are so important is because she touches it and then puts her hands right in her mouth. She is still too little understand not to do that. She also touches the straw on her cup. Really gross.

I judge people who use gay and retarded in place of stupid and don't see anything wrong with it. They just blow it off like it is no big deal and continue to be ignorant.

tiannalee · April 2012

SteelCity44:
Eilis123:
I judge people whose FB status updates are always some version of "FML". Get a therapist.
I judge bad drivers.
I don't judge them. I unsubscribe from them if they're family or de-friend them if they're not.

Ugh...I hate cryptic facebook updates: "Have a lot on my brain...hopefully things get better", etc.....

HappyFeet07 · April 2012

1) I judge my friend IRL & on FB because she's always slamming her baby daddy for not being around much to help with their son. However, she's constantly "pawning" him off on someone so she can go out and get wasted. She then posts the pictures on FB for all of the world to see.

2) My other friend gets judged because she wants to always complain about how her and her boyfriend don't have any money. However, he is constantly buying pot and they spend money on things that aren't necessary. For example, they bought tickets to opening day (easily $150) and she's missing work for it. IMO that isn't something you should do if you're hurting for money so badly. My fiance and I would LOVE to go to Opening night because its on my bday, but this year it just isn't in the cards for us. Sure, we could spend the money, but it would be irresponsible considering money is tight.

GAPeach68 · April 2012

I judge people that smoke with kids in their car.

I also judge people driving with kids that are obviously not properly in a seatbelt or car seat.

I judge people that leave their dogs in the car while they go in a store.

I judge people that "check in" to places on FB. Really? Do we need to know that you're at Office Depot?

Christina_Diane · April 2012

GAPeach68:
I judge people that smoke with kids in their car.

I also judge people driving with kids that are obviously not properly in a seatbelt or car seat.

I judge people that leave their dogs in the car while they go in a store.

I judge people that "check in" to places on FB. Really? Do we need to know that you're at Office Depot?

Those are all really good ones. I refuse to check in on FB, or even post mobile photos while I'm on vacation for safety purposes.

Beener0514 · April 2012

I judge my DH's cousin. She was a young mom who has totally pawned off her baby on her father who watches his grandkid 24/7 and acts like a surrogate father. (God bless that man because otherwise, the kid would be totally f-ed up). Meanwhile, she's always posting on FB pics of her and her kid and posting things like she's freakin' Mother of the Year. PUHLEASE. I know you haven't spent more than 10 minutes this WEEK with your child and at least one of those minutes was spent posing for that picture you just posted. Grr.

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