TTC After a Loss

Getting back on track question

So I have a question for you ladies that had a D&C. How long did it take for your cycles to get back to a some what normal cycle? Before my m/c I was very regular every 28 days.  I waited 8 weeks for AF after my D&C and now Im on my 2nd cycle since and Im on day 34 and no AF. I thought after my first I would get back to normal. 

Out of wishful thinking I took a test and got a negative result.I really didn't think I was at this point, still  I didn't realize how hard it would be to see that first negative pg test.  I just want my body to get back to normal its so frustrating.  

Thanks for any input! 

 

Re: Getting back on track question

  • I'm still waiting.
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  • Isn't it the most frustrating thing ever! I just want to feel like I'm back in control of my body :/

    Sorry just kinda venting there.  

  • You may never go back to what was your previous normal. My cycles changed after each m/c and each time, they changed to something different. Go figure.

    TTC since April 2010
    BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
    BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
    Surprise BFP #3 – December 2011, diagnosed as cornual, terminated January 2012
    BFP #4 – June 2012, m/c July 2012
    Diagnosed with bicornuate ute and MTHR gene mutation
    BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
    BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
    No longer TTC. Diagnosis: Hostile ute. Heartbroken and bitter. Pursuing surrogacy.
    June 2013 - Carrier found! Could this really happen?!
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  • Blerg, I'm still waiting...just over 4 weeks and no AF in sight :/
    Cycle 7: BFP 1-17-12, Missed Miscarriage at 8w6d (measured 7w2d, no HB), D&C 2-29-12
    Cycle 9: BFP 5-3-12:EDD 1-24-13 It's a girl! Born 12-27-12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • I'm sorry your body is not getting back to normal. After my d&c, I never got back to normal. It took a round of clomid and a second loss for me to get back to normal. It really does suck, I know the feeling. (((HUGS)))
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    BFP #1 12/29/10 EDD 08/29/11 Blighted Ovum 02/09/11 D&C 02/11/11

    Clomid 50mg BFP #2 09/21/11 EDD 05/29/11 Chemical Pregnancy 10/4/11

    BFP #3 4/19/13 Beta1- 106 Beta2- 524 Beta3- 3500 EDD 12/22/13 LO born 12/31/13

  • I had a laparoscopy with my D&C (for ectopic pregnancy) so not quite the same as your situation.   I got AF 23 days later Indifferent  It was also the heaviest, worst AF of my life.  So bad that after 10 days of filling a pad every hour or two, I was put on BCPs.

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  • My first AF came a little over 5 weeks from my D&C. The next cycle was 32 days.  Prior to my loss I was very regular.  28 or 29 day cycles, and O'd on day 14 or 15. I miss those days.

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  • I gave birth and had a partial d&c for some leftover placenta. It took me 7 weeks.  I don't think there's really a "normal". At least not at first. I hope your cycle gets back to some semblance of normal soon. 
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  • It took 4-5 weeks after my D&C for AF to arrive.  The 1st cycle absolutely sucked!  I had bad cramps, HEAVY bleeding, & it lasted almost 2 weeks.  My next 2 cycles were 27 days long, lasting 4-5 days, heavy flow for 2 days, then tapered off. 
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  • My first cycle arrived "on time" within 5 weeks.  My second cycle went crazy... I'm on Day 33 right now and if I "O" yesterday like I'm pretty sure I did, then this cycle will be about 46 days (let's hope my LP stays 14-15 days like it was).  My body followed the exact same pattern coming off BC.  1st cycle was great and then I had a couple of longer cycles before my body finally regulated itself (I think with the help of drinking my Raspberry Leaf Tea).  To this day my "O" can be delayed  a few days if I'm not drinking it pretty regularly.  
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  • Cycle #1:  about 35 days

    Cycle #2: about 28 days

    Cycle #3:  about 21 days

    Cycle #4 (first cycle charting): 27 days

    Cycle #5: 40 days


    BFP 12/19/08- DS born 8/25/09 9lbs2oz via Zavanelli Maneuver
    BFP 8/26/11- Missed miscarriage discovered 10/19/11 at 11w2d, measured at 9 weeks gestation w/ no HB. D&C 10/21/11
    BFP 3/17/12 at 12dpo CP 3/21/12
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  • Thanks to everyone that posted.  Its comforting to know that alot of women have the same issues and feelings that I do.  Were so lucky to live in a time when a place like this exists for us. Could you imagine in the old days when you won't have had  assess to all this information. I would have felt so alone!  

    Thanks Again Ladies! 

  • I am still waiting.  I had my miscarriage 4 weeks ago yesterday.
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  • I'm still Waiting, but my Dr. told me I should expect it around the end of this month or the first few days of May... which would put me at 5-7 weeks after my D&C if his predictions are right. 
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