Are you effing kidding me DH?!???

Lhand11 · April 2012

"Those jeans look a little tight on you."

I'm sorry, I just gave birth to your son and things have shifted on/in my body! Are you serious! I finally made the switch out of maternity pants, but had to go up a size. I, probably like most, still have a pooch from where I carried a child for 9 months, so FORGIVE ME!

namara5532 · April 2012

Can I add a DH rant? Since I met him, DH seems to think that dishes are clean when they look clean. Before I moved in, he didn't use soap. He just rinsed dishes and calls them clean. Gross!

He gets annoyed when I do it, but often when he does dishes I have to ask him if he's using soap. The other day, he tried to say that a pot he cooked pasta in just needed to be rinsed without being washed. And today I grab one of my small containers to pump milk into, and there's obvious sticky residue on the inside. I"m so mad! I pump while baby nurses, so now I can't pump because the container is still dirty. I thought having a baby in the house would help him realize we need to do more to keep him from getting sick, but obviously he hasn't gotten the message.

megaloo27 · April 2012

Today I said "I look good, I just have a little pooch" and my husband replies "who doesn't!" It made me laugh. He lost over 100 pounds so he has one too!

ames243567 · April 2012

FarmBoysWife:
Lhand11:
"Those jeans look a little tight on you."
I'm sorry, I just gave birth to your son and things have shifted on/in my body! Are you serious! I finally made the switch out of maternity pants, but had to go up a size. I, probably like most, still have a pooch from where I carried a child for 9 months, so FORGIVE ME!
if my dh did that it would be no nookie for weeks and no conversation either... ass hay

Yes

CharlieTheUnicorn · April 2012

After my first baby, I was thrilled to be a size 6 by 4 weeks ( I was tiny thin Pre-preg). I was boasting how good I felt and what size I was in to her father, when he replied "Are you sure you should be in that size?" I wanted to kill him.

PsyDr04 · April 2012

Wow, you should have punched him. Not hard and not in the face, but hard enough for him to get the message.

DH knows better than to say stuff like that to me. Actually, I don't think he ever would. He has never made a negative comment about my body, other than maybe some teasing when I was pregnant and my tummy was growing, but it was not in a mean way. I was proud I actually got into a pair of pre-pregnancy jeans yesterday though they were a little snug. I definitely have a tummy pooch since giving birth (though in fairness I did before I was pregnant LOL).

dizzycooks · April 2012

PsyDr04:

Wow, you should have punched him. Not hard and not in the face, but hard enough for him to get the message.

DH knows better than to say stuff like that to me. Actually, I don't think he ever would. He has never made a negative comment about my body, other than maybe some teasing when I was pregnant and my tummy was growing, but it was not in a mean way. I was proud I actually got into a pair of pre-pregnancy jeans yesterday though they were a little snug. I definitely have a tummy pooch since giving birth (though in fairness I did before I was pregnant LOL).

This. Wow, I would have been pissed and dissolved into a puddle of tears! Us ladies are hard enough on ourselves without insensitive comments from our husbands!!

pcrock92 · April 2012

I was just about to post something like this. I tried on a pair of my pre-preg shorts yesterday and THEY FIT!!! Did I play on wearing them out of the house? No. But my SO decided that he still needed to say, "You don't look bad, you just have more cellulite than you had before. You just need to go running." I was like.. you've got to be kidding me!!!!!