Pregnant after a Loss

Upgraded to strict bedrest now, I'm scared :(

My mfm doctor tends toward caution, so isn't putting me on anything but advil until my fft results come back, but is nervous.  since Friday my cervix has gone from 2cm to 1.5 and funneling in both cases.  she said it looks "terrible"

I did pass my nst, so that is good, im so scared to have these babies so early.  they could be fine but it would be a long road there.  and they could be not fine :(:(

please keep a few positive thoughts for me

 

typing with one hand and sideways so ignore my lack of convention please :)

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Re: Upgraded to strict bedrest now, I'm scared :(

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    *HUGE HUGS* for you and the babies. 
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  • Sending you many, may T&P and positive thoughts! Stay in there little ones!
  • thinking of you!! stay put baby boys!! keep growing!
  • I'll be thinking of you, I hope everything goes well!  Hang in there =)=)
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  • Oh no!!!  Thoughts and prayers are with you.  I hope those boys stay put and everything calms down.
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  • Thinking of you and hoping LO's stay put!! 
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  • sending your babies "stay put" vibes!!!
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  • Oh hon. I'm so sorry this is happening. You must be so scared. I'm glad that your MD is cautious and that your NST went well. Those are good signs. I'll be sending you lots of healthy stay put vibes.
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  • Sending positive thoughts your way ((HUGS))
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  • Sending T&P your way. I hope the bed rest helps calm things down and those LO's can continue baking for a good while longer.
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  • Lots of postive thoughts coming your way.  I'm sorry your scared.  Wish there was something I could say to ease your fear.  Just know that you are doing everything you can for your babies and try your best to take it easy. 
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  • Sending tons of ***stay put*** vibes.
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  • ((Hugs)) so sorry...that is terribly nerve racking I'm sure.  Hope those babies stay put.  Take it easy!  You will definitely be in my thoughts!
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  • *huge hugs* Looks like we're bed rest buddies.  I know it sucks and is super scary.  But if you have any questions about what my team is doing for us please don't hesitate to ask!
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  • I'm keeping you and your twins in my thoughts, Lotta.
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  • I hope the bed rest works and that your cervix cooperates so the babies can stay put a while longer.  Sending T&P your way!
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  • Sending you tons of T&P's. ((hugs))
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  • Prayers that those babies stay put! Hugs to you too. I hope that cervix parks itself at 1.5 till you get much closer to your due date.
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  • Huge hugs for you and the babies!! Praying that they stay in there for a lot longer!
  • Sending you lots of T&Ps.

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  • Sending lots of T&Ps that the babies stay put. Hang in there mama!
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  • Aww ... your getting so close now though.  I did bed rest too for a few months already so I feel ya! I know closer to the end I will be doing it again most likely. My niece and sister in law who had twins both said they had bed rest for several months. All the extra weight and pressure of two babies our poor cervix's are doing the best they can! I hope yours hold out long enough for them to be big enough and healthy enough to live on the outside of the womb! 

    Good luck ..  

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  • praying for you and that bedrest works to prevent labor!
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  • big, big hugs girl. Hang in there, lots of T&P your way!

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  • HUGS! I hope your cervix cooperates and the babies keep cooking for a while longer!
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  • Sounds like your doctor is being proactive, which is good.  Prayers for you that you get to keep those babies cooking!
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  • T&Ps those babies stay put in there and bedrests helps you!  (((Hugs))
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  • Sending lots of T&Ps your way. I just got put on bed rest myself for a shortened cervix.. So scary.
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  • I am sorry you are dealing with this!  Sending positive thoughts your way to keep those babies cooking as long as possible!

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  • HUGE HUGS to you! Keeping you in my thoughts! I truly believe in thinking positive thoughts and the power that holds so try to visualize them staying put! :)
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  • Lots of T&P heading your way. Get your rest and stay positive ((((hugs))))
  • Sending T&Ps your way for you and the babies.
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  • Major hugs and prayers for you and the babies! Keep cooking little ones!!!
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  • Thoughts and prayers for you and the babies.  I hope that they can stay in there and keep cooking for a few more weeks. 
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