TTC After a Loss

Hows everyone doing today?

Just wanted to check in with you all.

Hope everyone is well.

Hopefully everyone is relaxing today.

Talk to you all soon. 

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Re: Hows everyone doing today?

  • This is not the place to troll. It's not appropriate to bring that drama here, no matter how much you find it to be entertaining.

     

    It's not that the ladies here are thin-skinned, it's that everyone is at a different stage in their grief process, and some are not at a point where they can manage someone making light of their loss.

     

    I know this is probably going to be ignored by you, but on the off chance that you have some compassion and dignity, I am asking that you stir up drama elsewhere, like on Nest boards or something.


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  • Oh dear God, this board has been my safe haven lately.  Now you come along.

    *just ignore, just ignore... starting now... just ignore....*  Confused

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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • Please just go away.
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
  • Just upping my post numbers. Seems like a good place to waste a post.
    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • Or two...
    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • Crap, what was I thinking? We don't feed the trolls here! From here on out, let's not even respond to Hayley's posts, capiche?
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
  • Third time is a charm Big Smile

    ::::4Legs is waving buh by:::

    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • image4legsRbest:
    Just upping my post numbers. Seems like a good plce to waste a post.


    ARE THOSE YOUR FURBABIES?!?!?! Omg, I want to snuggle them all!!!!!
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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • Two are fosters (now adopted), two are mine :) They are snuggalicious!!!

    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • image4legsRbest:

    Two are fosters (now adopted), two are mine :) They are snuggalicious!!!



    Awww! If I didn't have so many furbabes of my own, I would foster.  I have SO much respect for people who do.  How old are they/what are their names?
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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • imageJellybean902:
    image4legsRbest:

    Two are fosters (now adopted), two are mine :) They are snuggalicious!!!



    Awww! If I didn't have so many furbabes of my own, I would foster.  I have SO much respect for people who do.  How old are they/what are their names?

    Our two are Kaiser (10) and Abe (somewhere ~7ish). Fostering is the most rewarding thing I have ever done in my life. I think everyone should try it once. You can never have too many Smile

    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • Roll Call! ;-)

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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • Boop.

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    BFP #1: 8/2011 ** EDD:  5/9/2012 **  Missed m/c discovered at 13 weeks

    BFP #2: 4/4/2012 ** EDD:  12/24/12 ** Born: Charlotte "Charlie" Olivia   12/18/2013, 8 lbs 1 oz, 21 inches!!!  


  • image4legsRbest:
    imageJellybean902:
    image4legsRbest:

    Two are fosters (now adopted), two are mine :) They are snuggalicious!!!



    Awww! If I didn't have so many furbabes of my own, I would foster.  I have SO much respect for people who do.  How old are they/what are their names?

    Our two are Kaiser (10) and Abe (somewhere ~7ish). Fostering is the most rewarding thing I have ever done in my life. I think everyone should try it once. You can never have too many Smile



    I agree, but my city ordinance suggests otherwise! (I'm already one over the limit.... Embarrassed But I couldn't resist any of my furbabes!)
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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • Post number 1,499!
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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • imagePetraStonegirl:

    Oh! Oh!

    LOOK AT ME!!!!

     

     

     

     

    I'm here, too! 

    Where'd ya go? I can't see you...

    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • OOGY BOOGY WOOGY
    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • 1,500....

    Don't you just love even numbers?! I sure do!
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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • imagedelino:
    OOGY BOOGY WOOGY


    LOL!!!! I just had a gigglefit
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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • imagePetraStonegirl:

    Hi!

    Just wanted to pop in and let you know I was here! 

     

    Peek a boo!

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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


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    You didn't see me! 

     

    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • imagePetraStonegirl:
    I'd normally be picking my toe cheese, but I'd rather be here!

    Just for you Petra....chillin out:

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    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • Oh Petra, you made that crazy cracker's post totally worth it. Thanks!

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Here.

    (Yeah, that was my favorite.) :)

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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

    “So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
  • Petra, where ARE you?!

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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • Scooch over, your crowding the bench!

    Toe cheese, yummy. THAT is WFD. Won't DH be surprised at my new culinary delight!

    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • Is she here????
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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • image4legsRbest:

    Scooch over, your crowding the bench!

    Toe cheese, yummy. THAT is WFD. Won't DH be surprised at my new culinary delight!



    ::barf::
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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • ( o Y o )

    ::streaks through thread::
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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • image4legsRbest:

    Scooch over, your crowding the bench!

    Toe cheese, yummy. THAT is WFD. Won't DH be surprised at my new culinary delight!

    Come sit next to me.

    I have some popcorn:

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    And some toe cheese:

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    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • imagedelino:
    image4legsRbest:

    Scooch over, your crowding the bench!

    Toe cheese, yummy. THAT is WFD. Won't DH be surprised at my new culinary delight!

    Come sit next to me.

    I have some popcorn:

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    And some toe cheese:

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    Dinner and desert! Woot woot!

    And why are you taking pictures of my feet?????

    ETA: No, wait a minute - those are Petra's feet!!!!

     

    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • Sorry 4Legs!  Here, I'll add a pic of mine:

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    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • imagedelino:

    Sorry 4Legs!  Here, I'll add a pic of mine:

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    I'd recognize those anywhere, my love. I did see you on The Walking Dead the other night! Stellar performance!!

    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • imagewickedsugar:
    Wicked was here.. Now everybody RELAX Stick out tongue

    Phew - DEEP breath. I am soooooo relaxed. Yeah, I feel better Smile Think I'll go get pg now!

     

    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • Jellybean-you only come here because everyone hates you on TTGP. 

    Thats not my fault. As for the rest of you, I will stay here and am not going anywhere! 

  • image4legsRbest:

    imagewickedsugar:
    Wicked was here.. Now everybody RELAX Stick out tongue

    Phew - DEEP breath. I am soooooo relaxed. Yeah, I feel better Smile Think I'll go get pg now!

     

    You better relax honey! 

  • imagePetraStonegirl:

    imagewickedsugar:
    Wicked was here.. Now everybody RELAX Stick out tongue

    BOOM! 

    Petra-your not doing it right. It's:

     

    #BOOM

    stop trying to be me. Your failing miserably! 

  • imageHayleyCks87:

    Jellybean-you only come here because everyone hates you on TTGP. 

    Thats not my fault. As for the rest of you, I will stay here and am not going anywhere! 

    Im heeeeeeeeere!!!!!!! 

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    TTC since Aug 2011. BFP #1 on 10/28/2011 EDD of 07/02/2012 Natural MC on 11/22/2012  BFP #2 on 10/28/2012  EDD of 7/13/13  Judah Ari born on 7/11/13.

    I love my rainbow baby!


  • imageJellybean902:
    imagePetraStonegirl:

    Hi!

    Just wanted to pop in and let you know I was here! 

     

    Peek a boo!

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    Well aren't you a comedian over here?

    As you hide out cause no one likes you anywhere else! Ha 

  • imagePetraStonegirl:
    imageHayleyCks87:
    imagePetraStonegirl:

    imagewickedsugar:
    Wicked was here.. Now everybody RELAX Stick out tongue

    BOOM! 

    Petra-your not doing it right. It's:

     

    #BOOM

    stop trying to be me. Your failing miserably! 

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    *you're 

    Thats exactly how I feel about you honey, you need to relax! 

  • imageJellybean902:
    imageHayleyCks87:

    Jellybean-you only come here because everyone hates you on TTGP. 

    Thats not my fault. As for the rest of you, I will stay here and am not going anywhere! 

    Im heeeeeeeeere!!!!!!! 

    I gues the TTCAL boar gives you more courage...aww how cute! 

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