My friend sent me that link yesterday and I couldn't read past page one. That's just rude. Some people really need to find other things to worry about.
The comments in that thread are so disgusting and hurtful. I can't believe people like that exist. I'm in shock that anyone would say those things to someone whose just dealt with terrible tragedy. People need to get a life.
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I didn't read all the responses on BNOTB, but what I did read was pretty awful.
I think J9Melissa used to post there. I wondered what she thought of that. Are those women always so cruel?
And yes, it stands for babies not on the brain.
I did...I left ~ 1-1.5 years ago because of that Awful Bish! Ala is a HORRIBLE person. Her little minions are annoying as well.
The board used to be so much fun. No drama. Then enter Ala. BARF
Ugh, it sucks that some people are so poisonous they can change a whole board like that. I just don't even understand what could cause a person to spew such sh!t.
Ugh, it sucks that some people are so poisonous they can change a whole board like that. I just don't even understand what could cause a person to spew such sh!t
I truly believe she has a mental illness. I don't know which one, but I'm really thinking bipolar. Or just crazy.
I couldn't even make it through the first page, those people are just rude
Same here. I opened the post...read through the first page and then came back here to see if i was the only way that thought they were wayyyyyy out of line. I mean seriously, back when I newly wed I ventured over to that board on occasion, mainly lurking, but occasionally came out of hiding. There was the occasional snark, but it was a tight group of women overall, but I don't think I've ever seen this kind of treatment. I'm guessing that many of the old regulars have moved on.
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I couldn't even make it through the first page, those people are just rude
Same here. I opened the post...read through the first page and then came back here to see if i was the only way that thought they were wayyyyyy out of line. I mean seriously, back when I newly wed I ventured over to that board on occasion, mainly lurking, but occasionally came out of hiding. There was the occasional snark, but it was a tight group of women overall, but I don't think I've ever seen this kind of treatment. I'm guessing that many of the old regulars have moved on.
That is correct. There are a FEW older regs that are still there, but they stayed out of that ish!
While I don't wish a loss or anything like that on even those snarky wastes, I do hope that those 2 have some sort of, "Oh, so that's how I've been treating people..." moment and realize how pathetic they are.
Ugh, I seriously would smack somebody if they ever said anything like that IRL. I wouldn't even be able to stop the reflex.
ETA - After reading the post above from 12-24 too, I think that Ala chick is the most vile poster I have come across yet. And she has kids??? And when not posting Dead Baby Jokes that got removed by their mod, she made this her siggy. WOW.
alabaster_angel:
I never knew my father. I was raped in 2001. My cat died in 2003. I got my first wheelchair in 2007. But for the love of GOD I do NOT want to talk about it.. so don't even ask.
While I don't wish a loss or anything like that on even those snarky wastes, I do hope that those 2 have some sort of, "Oh, so that's how I've been treating people..." moment and realize how pathetic they are.
Ugh, I seriously would smack somebody if they ever said anything like that IRL. I wouldn't even be able to stop the reflex.
ETA - After reading the post above from 12-24 too, I think that Ala chick is the most vile poster I have come across yet. And she has kids??? And when not posting Dead Baby Jokes that got removed by their mod, she made this her siggy. WOW.
alabaster_angel:
I never knew my father. I was raped in 2001. My cat died in 2003. I got my first wheelchair in 2007. But for the love of GOD I do NOT want to talk about it.. so don't even ask.
I was wondering what it said, but it was gone by the time I got there. Disgusting.
So I made it through two more posts and glad so see people with decent morals coming through...but damn that alabasterbitch...I will venture to guess she is a poor lonely very unpopular teenage girl hiding out in her room bulllying internet strangers behind the cloud of internet anonymity because a real woman would not stoop to such low behavior.
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Yeah she's a real gem! I'm also pretty sure she created an AE called bipolarbobby and started a new thread.
But thanks for coming over there for back up! I know FIGG and she is one of the nicest sweetest people. She has already been through so much that I just couldn't ignore that post.
that post makes me sick to my stomach. So we can recognize our babies because they are alive but she cannot mention her babies that she birthed and loved, just like us...because she had to bury them?
Oh and the poster, Erin, that started it all. I have met her IRL...at a local g2g. She was on my local knot board back in the day. I had no idea she was such a baby hater though.
she's actually on my FB and has commented about F being cute before :0
So I made it through two more posts and glad so see people with decent morals coming through...but damn that alabasterbitch...I will venture to guess she is a poor lonely very unpopular teenage girl hiding out in her room bulllying internet strangers behind the cloud of internet anonymity because a real woman would not stoop to such low behavior.
Holy crap.... There could have been a way better way to state that she had problems with her signature.... But good Lord... If it's just text it's not that hard to ignore.
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I was wondering the same thing. The main page for the board says:
Babies not on the brain? Post here if you're tired of people asking, "When are you going to have a baby?"
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babies not on the brain.... i think
She seems really nice too. She's one of the ladies on my anniversary board on TN that I recently started posting on.
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Yeah, there was also a thread about this on 12-24 https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64476670.aspx
I didn't read all the responses on BNOTB, but what I did read was pretty awful.
I think J9Melissa used to post there. I wondered what she thought of that. Are those women always so cruel?
And yes, it stands for babies not on the brain.
Holy heck some of those ladies are out of control.
Sometimes I wish there was more snark on our board but that sh!t is just ridiculous.
I couldn't finish either, I browsed some of the spawn threads too. But in the end my disgust got me to leave.
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OUCH! i feel bad for her - no one deserves to be "welcomed" like that
Wowie wow wow. I think loveofmikes summed it up best with "waste of air flesh bags."
I shall refrain from using obscene words to decribe how I feel about those "ladies" and use emoticons instead.
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The board used to be so much fun. No drama. Then enter Ala. BARF
Ugh, it sucks that some people are so poisonous they can change a whole board like that. I just don't even understand what could cause a person to spew such sh!t.
ETA: Confirmed on her blog. She's bipolar.
Same here. I opened the post...read through the first page and then came back here to see if i was the only way that thought they were wayyyyyy out of line. I mean seriously, back when I newly wed I ventured over to that board on occasion, mainly lurking, but occasionally came out of hiding. There was the occasional snark, but it was a tight group of women overall, but I don't think I've ever seen this kind of treatment. I'm guessing that many of the old regulars have moved on.
Wow, what a crazy bunch of C U Next Tuesdays.
While I don't wish a loss or anything like that on even those snarky wastes, I do hope that those 2 have some sort of, "Oh, so that's how I've been treating people..." moment and realize how pathetic they are.
Ugh, I seriously would smack somebody if they ever said anything like that IRL. I wouldn't even be able to stop the reflex.
ETA - After reading the post above from 12-24 too, I think that Ala chick is the most vile poster I have come across yet. And she has kids??? And when not posting Dead Baby Jokes that got removed by their mod, she made this her siggy. WOW.
I never knew my father.
I was raped in 2001.
My cat died in 2003.
I got my first wheelchair in 2007.
But for the love of GOD I do NOT want to talk about it.. so don't even ask.
I was wondering what it said, but it was gone by the time I got there. Disgusting.
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Yeah she's a real gem! I'm also pretty sure she created an AE called bipolarbobby and started a new thread.
But thanks for coming over there for back up! I know FIGG and she is one of the nicest sweetest people. She has already been through so much that I just couldn't ignore that post.
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that post makes me sick to my stomach. So we can recognize our babies because they are alive but she cannot mention her babies that she birthed and loved, just like us...because she had to bury them?
Oh and the poster, Erin, that started it all. I have met her IRL...at a local g2g. She was on my local knot board back in the day. I had no idea she was such a baby hater though.
she's actually on my FB and has commented about F being cute before :0BLOG
Shes gone!
https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64521219.aspx
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