Since we are all so bored lately...

Syncronicity09

thought I would share the latest drama making its way through TN and TB.

https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64457764.aspx

hepcats

What does BNOTB stand for?

mamarazzi528

hepcats:

What does BNOTB stand for?

I was wondering the same thing.  The main page for the board says:

Babies not on the brain? Post here if you're tired of people asking, "When are you going to have a baby?"

The_Birds_04

Poor girl.  I feel bad she got that kind of response.

Syncronicity09

Babies NOT on the brain, I think.

hannahruth32

All I can say is people have way too much time on their hands!!

amanda1680

hepcats:

What does BNOTB stand for?

babies not on the brain.... i think

Syncronicity09

The_Birds_04:

Poor girl.  I feel bad she got that kind of response.

She seems really nice too. She's one of the ladies on my anniversary board on TN that I recently started posting on.

jcsumm0

Yeah, there was also a thread about this on 12-24 https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64476670.aspx

I didn't read all the responses on BNOTB, but what I did read was pretty awful.

I think J9Melissa used to post there.  I wondered what she thought of that.  Are those women always so cruel?

And yes, it stands for babies not on the brain.

MommaG123

Holy heck some of those ladies are out of control.

Sometimes I wish there was more snark on our board but that sh!t is just ridiculous. 

pammeelala

wow...I couldn't even finish going through that.  I can't believe some people are so mean

Syncronicity09

pammeelala:

wow...I couldn't even finish going through that.  I can't believe some people are so mean

I couldn't finish either, I browsed some of the spawn threads too. But in the end my disgust got me to leave. 

helenejr

OUCH! i feel bad for her - no one deserves to be "welcomed" like that

blainethetrain

Wowie wow wow. I think loveofmikes summed it up best with "waste of air flesh bags."

 

MammaBear81

I couldn't even make it through the first page, those people are just rude

soontobe05

My friend sent me that link yesterday and I couldn't read past page one. That's just rude. Some people really need to find other things to worry about. 

supermom83

I shall refrain from using obscene words to decribe how I feel about those "ladies" and use emoticons instead.

march2008

That was completely messed up.

J9melissa

jcsumm0:

Yeah, there was also a thread about this on 12-24 https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64476670.aspx

I didn't read all the responses on BNOTB, but what I did read was pretty awful.

I think J9Melissa used to post there.  I wondered what she thought of that.  Are those women always so cruel?

And yes, it stands for babies not on the brain.

I did...I left ~ 1-1.5 years ago because of that Awful Bish! Ala is a HORRIBLE person. Her little minions are annoying as well.

The board used to be so much fun. No drama. Then enter Ala. BARF

 

kaitylin

The comments in that thread are so disgusting and hurtful. I can't believe people like that exist. I'm in shock that anyone would say those things to someone whose just dealt with terrible tragedy. People need to get a life.

PurdueMama14

Wow...only read the first page of replies. But wow. There are some cold-hearted b!tches over there!

jcsumm0

J9melissa:

jcsumm0:

Yeah, there was also a thread about this on 12-24 https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64476670.aspx

I didn't read all the responses on BNOTB, but what I did read was pretty awful.

I think J9Melissa used to post there.  I wondered what she thought of that.  Are those women always so cruel?

And yes, it stands for babies not on the brain.

I did...I left ~ 1-1.5 years ago because of that Awful Bish! Ala is a HORRIBLE person. Her little minions are annoying as well.

The board used to be so much fun. No drama. Then enter Ala. BARF

 

Ugh, it sucks that some people are so poisonous they can change a whole board like that.  I just don't even understand what could cause a person to spew such sh!t.

 

 

J9melissa

jcsumm0:

Ugh, it sucks that some people are so poisonous they can change a whole board like that.  I just don't even understand what could cause a person to spew such sh!t

I truly believe she has a mental illness. I don't know which one, but I'm really thinking bipolar. Or just crazy.

 

ETA: Confirmed on her blog. She's bipolar.

Sunidaze

MammaBear81:

I couldn't even make it through the first page, those people are just rude

Same here.  I opened the post...read through the first page and then came back here to see if i was the only way that thought they were wayyyyyy out of line.  I mean seriously, back when I newly wed I ventured over to that board on occasion, mainly lurking, but occasionally came out of hiding.  There was the occasional snark, but it was a tight group of women overall, but I don't think I've ever seen this kind of treatment.  I'm guessing that many of the old regulars have moved on. 

J9melissa

BrandySun:

MammaBear81:

I couldn't even make it through the first page, those people are just rude

Same here.  I opened the post...read through the first page and then came back here to see if i was the only way that thought they were wayyyyyy out of line.  I mean seriously, back when I newly wed I ventured over to that board on occasion, mainly lurking, but occasionally came out of hiding.  There was the occasional snark, but it was a tight group of women overall, but I don't think I've ever seen this kind of treatment.  I'm guessing that many of the old regulars have moved on. 

That is correct. There are a FEW older regs that are still there, but they stayed out of that ish!

maddiemoon43

Wow, what a crazy bunch of C U Next Tuesdays.

While I don't wish a loss or anything like that on even those snarky wastes, I do hope that those 2 have some sort of, "Oh, so that's how I've been treating people..." moment and realize how pathetic they are. 

Ugh, I seriously would smack somebody if they ever said anything like that IRL.  I wouldn't even be able to stop the reflex.

ETA - After reading the post above from 12-24 too, I think that Ala chick is the most vile poster I have come across yet.  And she has kids???  And when not posting Dead Baby Jokes that got removed by their mod, she made this her siggy.  WOW.

alabaster_angel:

I never knew my father.
I was raped in 2001.
My cat died in 2003.
I got my first wheelchair in 2007.
But for the love of GOD I do NOT want to talk about it.. so don't even ask.

Syncronicity09

maddiemoon43:

Wow, what a crazy bunch of C U Next Tuesdays.

While I don't wish a loss or anything like that on even those snarky wastes, I do hope that those 2 have some sort of, "Oh, so that's how I've been treating people..." moment and realize how pathetic they are. 

Ugh, I seriously would smack somebody if they ever said anything like that IRL.  I wouldn't even be able to stop the reflex.

ETA - After reading the post above from 12-24 too, I think that Ala chick is the most vile poster I have come across yet.  And she has kids???  And when not posting Dead Baby Jokes that got removed by their mod, she made this her siggy.  WOW.

alabaster_angel:

I never knew my father.
I was raped in 2001.
My cat died in 2003.
I got my first wheelchair in 2007.
But for the love of GOD I do NOT want to talk about it.. so don't even ask.

I was wondering what it said, but it was gone by the time I got there. Disgusting.

Sunidaze

So I made it through two more posts and glad so see people with decent morals coming through...but damn that alabasterbitch...I will venture to guess she is a poor lonely very unpopular teenage girl hiding out in her room bulllying internet strangers behind the cloud of internet anonymity because a real woman would not stoop to such low behavior.

MrsCodeMonkey

Oh, wow! That woman is out of her mind to be making statements like that about such a sensitive topic. I'm glad people posted defending the OP. 

LoveOfMikesLife

Yeah she's a real gem! I'm also pretty sure she created an AE called bipolarbobby and started a new thread. 

But thanks for coming over there for back up! I know FIGG and she is one of the nicest sweetest people. She has already been through so much that I just couldn't ignore that post.  

chuicafina

Wow...that was some serious bitchiness going on there. I'll take our puppies and rainbows thankyouverymuch.

MommaA117

that post makes me sick to my stomach. So we can recognize our babies because they are alive but she cannot mention her babies that she birthed and loved, just like us...because she had to bury them?

Oh and the poster, Erin, that started it all. I have met her IRL...at a local g2g. She was on my local knot board back in the day. I had no idea she was such a baby hater though.

she's actually on my FB and has commented about F being cute before :0

kellymacc

I couldn't finish the thread. WOW!! Poor Figgs, those women are nuts!!!

J9melissa

BrandySun:

So I made it through two more posts and glad so see people with decent morals coming through...but damn that alabasterbitch...I will venture to guess she is a poor lonely very unpopular teenage girl hiding out in her room bulllying internet strangers behind the cloud of internet anonymity because a real woman would not stoop to such low behavior.

Unfortunately she is married....with 2 kids. O_o

Kymbirleigh

Holy crap.... There could have been a way better way to state that she had problems with her signature.... But good Lord... If it's just text it's not that hard to ignore.

Syncronicity09

Shes gone!

https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64521219.aspx