Hmm. Unless she altered her siggy before I read this, I don't really see what the problem is. The description of the board makes me think it's more for people who aren't ready/don't want to have kids. It's not like it's the Child Free: Not by Choice board, YKWIM?
But maybe I'm missing something.
This. I don't get it. Comparing the descriptions on BNOTB and CFNBC they seem very different.
Wooaaah, has anyone seen that alabaster chicks new siggy? What. The. Fuuuuuuck. That is so beyond rude, especially if its not true.
A woman's life is nine parts mess to one part magic, you'll learn that soon enough...and the parts that look like magic turn out to be the messiest of all.
I really just can't believe that someone would treat another person that way, even if it is anonymous and on the internet. I could never ask someone to hide the fact that they lost babies. Or anything like that. I wonder if that girl feels good about herself now, if she feels some sort of weird powerful. If she does, I feel really really sorry for her.
A woman's life is nine parts mess to one part magic, you'll learn that soon enough...and the parts that look like magic turn out to be the messiest of all.
Wooaaah, has anyone seen that alabaster chicks new siggy? What. The. Fuuuuuuck. That is so beyond rude, especially if its not true.
What a wench.
We should just invite the OP over here. We don't talk about babies that much anyway.
Haha very true. Maybe, what, like 30% of the time? At least lately
A woman's life is nine parts mess to one part magic, you'll learn that soon enough...and the parts that look like magic turn out to be the messiest of all.
I really just can't believe that someone would treat another person that way, even if it is anonymous and on the internet. I could never ask someone to hide the fact that they lost babies. Or anything like that. I wonder if that girl feels good about herself now, if she feels some sort of weird powerful. If she does, I feel really really sorry for her.
This. I couldnt imagine speaking to another human being like that. Internet or not. Especially in regards to still born children, its disturbing.
I side eye a few of the siggys on the bump that have detailed medical information, but accept that it is the post'ers choice to put that info out there for the world to see.
I would never call them out on it, and most certainly wouldn't begrudge a mom's right to grieve how she sees fit.
I'm so lost as to why these "ladies" are being such biitches to OP. The board description is: "Babies not on the brain? Post here if you're tired of people asking, 'When are you going to have a baby?'" Sounds like AlabasterAngel is the one who shouldn't belong.
I side eye a few of the siggys on the bump that have detailed medical information, but accept that it is the post'ers choice to put that info out there for the world to see.
I would never call them out on it, and most certainly wouldn't begrudge a mom's right to grieve how she sees fit.
I always assume it's for some other board that I don't participate in. I've never had a need to put my medical information in my siggy, but I can understand why those on the TTC, loss, or high risk boards would. It's too bad you can't elect to leave your siggy out sometimes.
That alabaster chick is officially the biggest douchecanoe on any board. ML was at least not heartlessbiitches.
"We like nothing better than buffing our Zygoma. And imagining a horny time traveling long overcoat purple scarf wearing super sleuth nordic legend fuck fantasy. Get to work on that, internet." Benedict Cumberbatch
That alabaster chick is officially the biggest douchecanoe on any board. ML was at least not heartlessbiitches.
A woman's life is nine parts mess to one part magic, you'll learn that soon enough...and the parts that look like magic turn out to be the messiest of all.
I side eye a few of the siggys on the bump that have detailed medical information, but accept that it is the post'ers choice to put that info out there for the world to see.
I would never call them out on it, and most certainly wouldn't begrudge a mom's right to grieve how she sees fit.
Exactly. Your siggy tells about who you are, and it is your right to put whatever you would like on it.
I side eye a few of the siggys on the bump that have detailed medical information, but accept that it is the post'ers choice to put that info out there for the world to see.
I would never call them out on it, and most certainly wouldn't begrudge a mom's right to grieve how she sees fit.
Exactly. Your siggy tells about who you are, and it is your right to put whatever you would like on it.
Wow. Oh no, alabaster, how are you even here? Can you stand how we all have babies in our siggies? Aren't your eyes going to explode?
I'd say it's appropriate.
Because this is the bump.. a place for people to discuss their babies.
We also talk about pets and politics here. Should we not be doing so and go to the Nest instead to do this? Please state the etiquette of what each board have in their signatures in addition to what the requisite hours of posting.
For example, since I post on TB, must I have a picture of my kids? Or may I keep my satire?
I'm amazed at how far this spread... I thought they were accusing me of starting a board war at first. So i checked out a few boards to see what they were talking about. LOL
Either way.... I just wanted to clarify something. My original siggy was slightly different. I had my "EDD" and "BFP" date listed with each pregnancy. It wasn't like I recited the bump glossary and spelled out our TTC troubles. Oh well.
Our baby boy,Logan, was born still at 19w3d on 7/1/2011 Our 2nd baby boy, Mason, was born still at 20w3d on 1/31/2012
After a much needed sanity break... we are praying for our rainbows
Figgs, you can stay here with us. We're not heartless b*tches like those on BNOTB.
This. You can totally hang out here!
A woman's life is nine parts mess to one part magic, you'll learn that soon enough...and the parts that look like magic turn out to be the messiest of all.
I only read a little bit of it before i got disgusted. I didn't like the comment of someone saying that they didn't want to be reminded of dead babies everytime she reads her post.....how can people be so retarded. I felt so bad for her.
Re: crazy ish
are you fuckings kidding me? really? I mean, fuckings really?
This. I don't get it. Comparing the descriptions on BNOTB and CFNBC they seem very different.
I feel bad for the OP.
I say we move over to that board for the next 24 hours and post every baby/kid related topic we can think of.
She has 2 lines in her siggy, it's not like she has 6 inches of pics and badges for goodness sake!
What a wench.
We should just invite the OP over here. We don't talk about babies that much anyway.
Haha very true. Maybe, what, like 30% of the time? At least lately
This. I couldnt imagine speaking to another human being like that. Internet or not. Especially in regards to still born children, its disturbing.
It's a very in your face siggy for some one who has their pearls clutched over a mention of a loss.
I am guessing she changed her siggy because I didn't see any acronyms like some people were pointing out.
What a bunch of elitist biitches, though. Seriously.The worst of them- AlabasterAngel- actually does have kids. Oy.
Totally healthy that she makes her home board bnotb and defends to the death their right to be siggy memorial free.
Interesting bunch over there.
It is the same siggy that she has had from the start of this. so rediculous!!!
Couple of bitches on that board.
I side eye a few of the siggys on the bump that have detailed medical information, but accept that it is the post'ers choice to put that info out there for the world to see.
I would never call them out on it, and most certainly wouldn't begrudge a mom's right to grieve how she sees fit.
Some women just *need* something to b!tch about. Ridiculous.
I always assume it's for some other board that I don't participate in. I've never had a need to put my medical information in my siggy, but I can understand why those on the TTC, loss, or high risk boards would. It's too bad you can't elect to leave your siggy out sometimes.
"We like nothing better than buffing our Zygoma. And imagining a horny time traveling long overcoat purple scarf wearing super sleuth nordic legend fuck fantasy. Get to work on that, internet." Benedict Cumberbatch
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I'd like to punch her right in the twat.
:nods:
::waves madly at Daisycakes::
That is just sooooo effing rude - poor Figgs. I can't believe how incredibly rude some of those women are.
Because this is the bump.. a place for people to discuss their babies.
We also talk about pets and politics here. Should we not be doing so and go to the Nest instead to do this? Please state the etiquette of what each board have in their signatures in addition to what the requisite hours of posting.
For example, since I post on TB, must I have a picture of my kids? Or may I keep my satire?
Please to remove your depressing siggy as I just lost my dog and don't want to be reminded about dead pets.
I'm amazed at how far this spread... I thought they were accusing me of starting a board war at first. So i checked out a few boards to see what they were talking about. LOL
Either way.... I just wanted to clarify something. My original siggy was slightly different. I had my "EDD" and "BFP" date listed with each pregnancy. It wasn't like I recited the bump glossary and spelled out our TTC troubles. Oh well.
Our baby boy,Logan, was born still at 19w3d on 7/1/2011
Our 2nd baby boy, Mason, was born still at 20w3d on 1/31/2012
After a much needed sanity break... we are praying for our rainbows
((BFP 7/29/13)) ((EDD 4/12/14)) It's BOY/GIRL twins!!!
Figgs, I'd like to offer my sincerest apology for all that happened to you.
and YGPM in a few
formerly VXS
This. You can totally hang out here!