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sex drive

achristen0711achristen0711 member
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Im 8wks 2d and i am just not in the mood to have sex at all. I dont want to be touched or kissed. I feel bad for my boyfriend. Am I the only one who's having these feelings, will I ever be in the mood again?
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  • Tiff520Tiff520 member
    Was feeling the same way.  Just had no desire for it at all.  It's seemed to have picked up in the last week, so you may start feeling better in the next few days!
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  • karnbaby74karnbaby74

    i can appreciate where you are coming from for sure... i have no desire either PLUS my breasts are so incredibly sore that they hurt if you look at them cross-eyed! sucks because we are celebrating a mini anniversary this weekend and................... well yea... hopefully my "mood" changes ;)

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  • Ramirezfam11Ramirezfam11 member
    Yeah my sex drive had stopped around that time but it sure did pick up around 10-11 weeks for me. I told my DH you better get some now cause I dont know if it will change the next day. Wink Now it comes & goes & my breast are not that sore like it was when I was 8wks. So dont worry it will change for you. Smile
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  • MarMatMarMat

    It might get better in 2nd tri. That's how it was with my first pregnancy. I was super horny during 2nd tri, but DH started to freak out with my belly and we hardly had sex in 3rd tri (not my fault). LOL.

     So this time around I'm taking any opportunity in case he freaks again with my belly. Somedays I'm tired, but I try to make an effort.

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  • achristen0711achristen0711 member

    Thanks Ladies you've been a lot of helpSmile

     

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  • CraftyKaylaCraftyKayla member
    I was the same way from about week 6 to 9 but then all of a sudden in week 10 I was like a dog in heat! :)
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  • Mama_BMama_B
    I think it changes from week to week.  I know with my first my sex drive was raging, I thought I was Pamela Anderson with those big boobs.  With my second if dh even touched me I would rip his head off.  With this one I'm in between, I can take it or leave it.  My nipples are so sore even my bra & shirts hurt them.
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  • Luckie519Luckie519 member

    With my first pregnancy, I was this way.  It never really got much better for DH either.  The last thing I wanted to do in my last trimester, with an added 50 lb belly, was have sex.  Yuck.  I kept reading everyone's post about always wanting to do it.

    This time around, I want to have sex every day.  LOL.  We just found out a week ago, but with the exception of one day, we have done it.  DH has already made several smart a** comments about how this is going to be the best 9 months ever.  LOL.

    All I can say, is to try and be somewhat affectionate to your boyfriend.  It's not really fair to make him go 9 months without sex.  With that being said, he needs to also respect your feelings and not try to jump you everyday.  Try to find a happy medium.

     


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