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Success after IF
I. Am. Furious.
Today is my Dad's memorial service. I wake to a husband who is having one of his "attacks". Chest pain (not heart related...ER twice has ruled that out), shortness of breath because of said chest pain, numb hands and feet because of said shortness of breath. He refuses to go the ER and pay a $200 co-pay plus a bunch of other chit that ends up on the bill.
It is now too late for me to take him to the ER. I leave for the memorial in 2 hours. So it looks like I have to go alone. 
I'm mad at him for not going to the doctor after his endoscopy showed a perfect digestive tract. He said "I feel better. Let's just see if it comes back."
Well yeah, it did. And now you're missing Dad's memorial and sending me alone. I'm furious with him and even more sad than I was.
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Re: I. Am. Furious.
-----Lisa-----
TTC #2 with PCOS since September 2009
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Is it a panic attack? With all that is going on, and the symptoms you describe it could possibly account for how your H is feeling. Panic attacks can mirror the symptoms of a heart attack.
I am sorry you are going through all this.
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Oh honey! That's awful! Can he take some malox, some aspirin & buck up for a couple hours? I would be shattered.
Sean had a similar attack last year & I called 911. They gave him something to relax his digestive track after ruling out a heart attack & it worked wonders. Dr said to try mallox next time...
Big hugs. We are all there with you in spirit today.
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I am so sorry I would be furious too.
As for his symptoms they are a lot like what my mom has, and hers is a sodium inbalance, not sure if they rulled that out yet or not but something to bring up if they haven't.
Oh dear. I am so so sorry. I would be furious too.
I really don't have any words to help you. But I've been praying for you. I hope today is peaceful with your family. Shelf your anger towards dh so you can be fully with it today. Celebrate your daddy. His life his love your memories.
((hugs))
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That's really just horrible and I'm furious for you.
Thinking of you tonight after this long and most difficult day. I'm so very sorry...for everything.
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