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Vent!

emschick497emschick497
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Being a full time college student and working full time is becoming exhausting. And what doesnt help on top of that is my DF works 2 jobs 1 Full time and 1 Part time. We have barely had more than 5 hours together in the past few months and it is hard cause we are used to spending A LOT of time together. But my DF is a boss and when something goes wrong at work he has to go in. Like this past weekend! We had plans to spend the WHOLE DAY together since it was our first day off together in a while and someone called off at work and he had to cover it because he is the boss. So i was left at home by myself once again because of the idiots where we work (yes we work at the same company) cannot show up to work and his boss is useless! Just gets on my nerves that we try to plan stuff and it always gets messed up because of the idiots we work with calling off all the damn time! I just want to have 1 single stinking day with him with no interuptions and no one bothering us!

 

Just had to get that off my chest because its really starting to annoy me that we never have any free time together or at all it seems because we are both so busy with work and school. UGH!

Sarah Rose FF/EMT
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Re: Vent!

  • Newhall83Newhall83
    Yikes! i unfortunately don't think that gets any better when a baby comes :( hang in there!!! schedule a date night even if it's next month! :)
    TTC 9/11-2/12 ... BFP on 2/20 ! Hoping baby sticks around until October! :)BabyFruit Ticker
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  • LissaLeeLissaLee member

    Wow! With those schedules it's amazing you got pregnant in the first place!

    I remember when we were just starting out and had months like that too, it can be very lonely. School will eventually be over and then you'll be able to reconnect as a couple on a more consistent basis. FX that you guys get some time together soon!

    Mommy to Evelyn Clare born 6/23/07, Ryan Hansen born 12/10/09, and Charlotte Nicole born 11/1/12
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  • emschick497emschick497

    well this wasnt a planned pregnancy. we had been trying but when i was to have a breast reduction we stopped trying for a few months and I ended up getting pregnant and found out right before my surgery date because of tests they ran. and i have 2 more years of school to go so seems like forever.

    we know it will be even worse when the baby comes but thats why i think we should do out best to spend as much time together now before that point. but never seems to work out.

    Sarah Rose FF/EMT
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