TTC After a Loss

FF played a Cruel Cruel trick

This morning, after I entered my temp (which was a big dip to the coverline) she gave me dotted crosshairs. I assumed it was because of the dip

When I went to FF just now, online (versus my app)  it says "we're sorry to hear of your miscarriage" ?? What?!?!?!

 

Somehow both today & CD 18 were checked off as a miscarriage. Thanks FF for the confidence boost. You can be a real biotch sometimes.

 

 

Married My Love on 6/18/2006
BFP#1 10/1/2011. Our perfect little girl, Her heart stopped @ 12w1d. D&E 11/23/11
BFP#2 3/13/12 Weird CP/Possible EP @ 6w0d
BFP#3 5/28/12 CP @ 5w0d
BFP/WTF#4 10/26/12 CP
BFP#5 12/10/12 EDD 8/23/2013
<3 Baby Boy Born 8/22/13 <3
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Re: FF played a Cruel Cruel trick

  • That's horrible! FF can be so awesome but so frustrating sometimes too. Earlier this cycle, it tried giving me CHs when I knew I hadn't yet O'd.
    BFP #1, 12/22/09 - DD#1 born 9/2010
    BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
    BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
    BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
     

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  • FF can be so offensive sometimes.  One cycle at like CD3 it gave me this whole dissertation on not drinking because I had marked "drinking" for the day prior.  It wasn't even during the 2WW! 

    I just gave you a chart stalk and your chart looks good.  There is definitely a thermal shift since CD18.  FX this is your cycle!!! 

    Married since 7/25/2009
    BFP #1 9/25/2011 | EDD 6/1/2012 | M/C 10/26/2011 at 8w6d
    BFP #2 3/13/2012 | EDD 11/23/2012
    9DPO hcg: 45; Prog: 41 | 14DPO hcg: 694 | 17DPO hcg: 2733 | 28DPO hcg: 53,006
    First u/s 4/13 showed a beating heart! Second u/s 5/2 showed a HB of 163! Let's GROW, baby!
    He's here! Kellen born 11/16/12 - 8 lbs 8 oz 22 inches long via scheduled c-section (breech baby, gestational diabetes mama)
  • imageToiKenne:

    FF can be so offensive sometimes.  One cycle at like CD3 it gave me this whole dissertation on not drinking because I had marked "drinking" for the day prior.  It wasn't even during the 2WW! 

     FF - You are not ToiKenne's AA sponsor. Just STFU and do your job!

    Married My Love on 6/18/2006
    BFP#1 10/1/2011. Our perfect little girl, Her heart stopped @ 12w1d. D&E 11/23/11
    BFP#2 3/13/12 Weird CP/Possible EP @ 6w0d
    BFP#3 5/28/12 CP @ 5w0d
    BFP/WTF#4 10/26/12 CP
    BFP#5 12/10/12 EDD 8/23/2013
    <3 Baby Boy Born 8/22/13 <3
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  • What the what?!  I think FF officially needs to be re-named Fertility Foe after that mix-up.  Way to lift a girl's spirits....
    BFP #1 - Chemical Pregnancy ----BFP#2 - DD born at 32 weeks-----BFP #3 Spontaneous Identical Twin Boys lost due to Missed M/C - on 7/1/11----BFP #4 Baby girl lost due to Trisomy 22 on 1/6/12 PGAL and PAL Always Welcome! Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • I have never seen anything on there about drinking...and pre-O? That probably would have made me send them a nastygram email. Unless I have a very good reason, I refuse to let TTC completely take over my life.
    BFP #1, 12/22/09 - DD#1 born 9/2010
    BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
    BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
    BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
     

  • Oh, what? That sucks! Bummer..sorry you had that.
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  • WTH! Thats horrible! :( STupid FF!
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    BFP #2 - 04/04/12, 1st Beta @ 9DPO 19, 2nd Beta @ 13 DPO 168. 1st u/s - 4/30/12 - we have a heartbeat!!
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  • What!? How is that even possible for them to have checked that?!? I am so sorry!


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • BTW - What is the reason for the open circle on CD 22? 

    With the big dip, I might BD today, just in case you really haven't O'd yet.  Even though you probably did have. 


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
    The day you first lay in my arms, you made my life complete.
    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • imageCashewsMommy:

    BTW - What is the reason for the open circle on CD 22? 

    With the big dip, I might BD today, just in case you really haven't O'd yet.  Even though you probably did have. 

     Dh will be very happy to hear your suggestion!!!

    open circles: Woke up at 3AM and barely went back to sleep. I temps at 3am as well, and it was about.1 degree off, but figure i should put in  "sleep deprived".  CD 22 I woke up at 7 AM (after waking up again at 3-4 am and going back to sleep)... it was Sunday Embarrassed

    Married My Love on 6/18/2006
    BFP#1 10/1/2011. Our perfect little girl, Her heart stopped @ 12w1d. D&E 11/23/11
    BFP#2 3/13/12 Weird CP/Possible EP @ 6w0d
    BFP#3 5/28/12 CP @ 5w0d
    BFP/WTF#4 10/26/12 CP
    BFP#5 12/10/12 EDD 8/23/2013
    <3 Baby Boy Born 8/22/13 <3
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  • imageshanrob:
    What the what?!  I think FF officially needs to be re-named Fertility Foe after that mix-up.  Way to lift a girl's spirits....

    For real. Nice Fail, FF. :(  That's insane.

    Me: 38 l DH: 41
    Gavin - 8/27/10
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    Gabriel - 2nd tri loss 5/17/16 Trisomy 18 & 21
    Hope -  2nd tri loss 12/7/16 complications from pneumonia


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  • Well, if nothing else, thanks for the warning! If I saw that, I think I would just be so crushed. Sorry it's all screwy with you ... I've actually been thinking a lot about you, and am hoping this is your month!
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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

    “So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
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    Well, if nothing else, thanks for the warning! If I saw that, I think I would just be so crushed. Sorry it's all screwy with you ... I've actually been thinking a lot about you, and am hoping this is your month!

     

    Awww, you're so sweet, you deserve a treat!!

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    Married My Love on 6/18/2006
    BFP#1 10/1/2011. Our perfect little girl, Her heart stopped @ 12w1d. D&E 11/23/11
    BFP#2 3/13/12 Weird CP/Possible EP @ 6w0d
    BFP#3 5/28/12 CP @ 5w0d
    BFP/WTF#4 10/26/12 CP
    BFP#5 12/10/12 EDD 8/23/2013
    <3 Baby Boy Born 8/22/13 <3
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  • Thanks! I needed that. Us Katharine/Kathryn/Catherine/Katherine's have to stick together. :)
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    We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.

    “So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
  • Oh that's awful! Sorry you had to see that.
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