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TV In roon

Do you think my LO is too young for a TV in her bedroom? she will be 17 months old this month.
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  • We do have a tv in DD's room just because I liked having it there when I would feed and rock her late at night when she was an infant.  But DD is almost 18 months (on the 5th) and I cant imagine her getting use out of the tv for a while still.  We dont play up there, we play in the living room and she watches tv there.  Eventually it might be nice, but I think I am going to use it in a play room and only use her bedroom for sleeping.
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  • i am torn. We dont have a play room for her and her room is connected to the living room ( our house is very small) i dont think i would use it doing the week because i dont get home until 6pm and she is in bed by 8pm. and i do not want her to watch it while she is laying down tryin to go to sleep. i would only use it during the day on the weekends. she wont go into her bed room and play with toys that are in there, she will only go in there if me or my DH is in there. .... *sigh*
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  • Do you want her to forever have the tv in her room?  Just keep in mind, she won't be in a crib forever.  And she will learn very quickly how to turn on that tv, at night, during nap, during timeout, etc.

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  • no i dont want her forever in her room. She is not in a crib already, we  had to change her bed over to a day bed because she was climbing out of it. and we would be the tv and remote ontop of her one tall dresser, where i can barely reach.
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  • I wouldnt put one in there just yet. Honestly, I think my parents didnt let me have one until i was like 15. lol.  Some nonsense about family bonding time, that makes a little more sense now that I am a mother. lol


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  • I'm just saying, kids find a way.  We have a lamp on tall dresser.  DS figured out a way to turn it on. He had a toy on a shelf in his closet that I literally could not reach.  During nap one day, he got it down.

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    no i dont want her forever in her room. She is not in a crib already, we  had to change her bed over to a day bed because she was climbing out of it. and we would be the tv and remote ontop of her one tall dresser, where i can barely reach.
     

    If you really want a t.v. in there, I'd mount it on the wall.  Kids are pretty creative.  I'd be scared LO would try climbing the dresser (some LO's figure out how to pull out drawers and use them as steps).  I'm too worried about her pulling the t.v. down on herself to put it up on a high dresser.  It would probably be fine, but I have a cousin who broke her leg when she was 18 months because she climbed up the stand and pulled the t.v. on herself.  If you want to allow your LO to play unsupervised in her room, I wouldn't put heavy, high-interest items up on the dresser. 

  • It is going to take awhile before your LO will play in a different room.  We have a playroom and DS1 just started to be OK playing in there.  Before that he would drag his toys from the playroom into our living room.  IMO, a bedroom should never have a TV.  TV time is for family.  I didn't have one in my room till I was over 18 and home from college on breaks.  
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  • Why would she need her own TV?

    Overall, I'm not a fan of TVs in bedrooms. DH and I don't even have one in ours. If my kids want to watch TV, they aren't going to do it holed up in their bedrooms alone.

     

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  • TV in rooms can cause obesity (not MUD) https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-119594/TV-bedroom-cause-obesity-children.html

    It also can be linked to ADHD - I dont have a link but im sure you can find one

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    Why would she need her own TV?

    Overall, I'm not a fan of TVs in bedrooms. DH and I don't even have one in ours. If my kids want to watch TV, they aren't going to do it holed up in their bedrooms alone.

     

    This. When we bought our house, we made the decision not to have tv in our room. We sleep much better. Ds will not have a tv in his room until (maybe) his teenage years. If he is in his room playing for extended periods of time, I will read. As pp said, if you do decide to put the tv in, install it on the wall. That tv post a few down is scary.
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  • DH and I don't even have TV in our room.

    My sister put TVs in her kids room at a very young age. They've since been removed.

    I think 17 months is definitely too young, personally. But you're the parent. 

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    TV in rooms can cause obesity (not MUD) https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-119594/TV-bedroom-cause-obesity-children.html

    It also can be linked to ADHD - I dont have a link but im sure you can find one

    I'm not completely anti-tv in the bedroom, but I wouldn't do it this young.

    And this statement is funny. TVs don't cause obesity. Parents who don't regulate their children's activities and encourage them to exercise do. A child that sits in a room reading for 4 hours is the same as a child that sits watching tv for 4 hours from an activity level standpoint. Books don't cause obesity. lol

    edit: i don't care what anyone else does, but I hate the "tv and video games are evil and will make your child fat' arguement. They only do that if you are lazy about it. Cupcakes will make your kid fat too if they eat them constantly. It is possible to teach moderation (at an older age). Again, it's fine if you want avoid the whole thing. I understand that. 

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    i am torn. We dont have a play room for her and her room is connected to the living room ( our house is very small) i dont think i would use it doing the week because i dont get home until 6pm and she is in bed by 8pm. and i do not want her to watch it while she is laying down tryin to go to sleep. i would only use it during the day on the weekends. she wont go into her bed room and play with toys that are in there, she will only go in there if me or my DH is in there. .... *sigh*

    I still wouldn't use a tv to try to get her to play in there. Have you tried being in her bedroom while she's playing, but being more passive (or even ignoring her)? Maybe try being near her, but don't play with her, and then she'll get used to being more independent with playing (and then will hopefully go play in there, or you can go in with her and then leave). hth

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  • You want to put a tv in her room to entice a 17 month old to go sit in her room by herself? No, we wouldn't consider that.

     

  • I wouldn't, but we don't have a television in our bedroom. (We don't want one there.) She doesn't watch much TV anyway.
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  • We don't have tv in bedrooms in our house.  I limit tv for my older dd up to 1 hour a night, if she has time after homework, chores and activites.  She can watch it in the family room.  My 18 month old only watches tv if something dd is watching catches his eye.  I personally thing there are better things they can be doing than watching tv.  But you are the parent and do what is best for your family, I would definitely reconsider leaving your LO alone to watch tv alone in their room.
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  • Sometimes put the tv in the living room on kid shows but she's too busy to sit and watch a show. That isn't something I'm interested in encouraging anyway. I'm not sure why you want her to go in her room by herself. If you need a break you can still encourage her to play independently while you are around.
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    Overall, I'm not a fan of TVs in bedrooms. DH and I don't even have one in ours. If my kids want to watch TV, they aren't going to do it holed up in their bedrooms alone.

     

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  • imagedaisy889:

    TV in rooms can cause obesity (not MUD) https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-119594/TV-bedroom-cause-obesity-children.html

    It also can be linked to ADHD - I dont have a link but im sure you can find one

    Seriously? I'm sure if you look hard enough you'll find a link that TV causes cancer too. Or that TV causes your hair to turn gray before your 30's . Sheesh. 

     

    Tv won't cause obesity. Bad diet and lack of exercise will.  

    OP if you want a tv in your kids room mount it on the wall. I personally wouldn't want one in my DS room because I don't want him wanting to watch it all the time.  

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  • We have always had a TV in Emerson's room.   It's not an ideal situation but, it is what it is.  She gets to watch one show after books and brushing teeth while I get the babies down.

     

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  • Yes, I think 17 months is too young to have a t.v.. in the bedroom.

    We don't even have a t.v. in our 5 year olds room and although I know that he wouldn't be watching it 24/7, I still don't like the idea. Now, a desk and homework, that is a great allternative. :-)

    My 22 month old, won't even watch t.v.

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  • Considering the AAP recommends that children under 24 months not watch TV at all, yes, it's absolutely too young. Yes, most of us allow at least a little, but why would you want to encourage it? I also agree with the PP comments that TVs in bedrooms encourage family separation.
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  • I don't understand why you'd want a TV in your toddler's room. Why encourage it? I reserve TV for the 15 minutes per day that I am getting ready to go or making dinner and my toddler is grouchy.

    Actually, I don't think that any age is okay to have a TV in the bedroom, but that's neither here nor there.

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  • No, I think it's too young.  And I also do not have TVs in any bedrooms.  We won't have computers or homework done there either.  I'm old fashion that way, but your house your rules. 

    If you want it in there just to get your kid to play independently, I think that's a lousy reason.  Either play with them, or work on getting some independent play time without a TV.  Maybe bring some fun toys in (like blocks) that you can start to play with LO, then let them be for a few.  

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    i am torn. We dont have a play room for her and her room is connected to the living room ( our house is very small) i dont think i would use it doing the week because i dont get home until 6pm and she is in bed by 8pm. and i do not want her to watch it while she is laying down tryin to go to sleep. i would only use it during the day on the weekends. she wont go into her bed room and play with toys that are in there, she will only go in there if me or my DH is in there. .... *sigh*

    Well, since you asked...
    Seriously?  You want to put a TV in your toddler's room because she won't play in there by herself? Confused  The nerve!  She's 17 months old.  She wants to play with her family. 
    Personally I don't agree with TVs in children's rooms at any age.  We don't even have one in our room.  We only watch after DS has gone to bed.  He watches a couple episodes (6 min) of Shaun the Sheep in the evening sometimes.  There is plenty of evidence that exposure to TV under age 2 contributes to ADHD and other attention problems and that it just screws with their brain development in general.  Also, having the TV on even for "background noise" has been shown to result in slower language acquisition in babies since it means the caretaker is doing less direct interaction with the child.  Just something to think about.

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  • Like pp, we don't have tvs in any of the bedrooms.  It is unlikely that will change. 

    For now, our 11 year old uses a computer in the living room where the tv is the monitor, and we can easily see what he's doing.

     

    E will sit in his playroom in a play yard.  I will sit near him and read while he plays independently.  If he fusses, I just start playing with him until he's content.

    We mainly use his bedroom for sleeping and changing diapers.

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  • My kids will never have TVs in their room.  DH and I have made that vow.  They can have TVs in their rooms when they move out.  I think it's a bad idea, unless the TV is for your to watch for some reason.
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  • You only see her 2 hours a day during the week, yet you want to bribe her (with a tv) into playing in her room alone on the weekend? Seriously? Go play with your kid.
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  • Well right now I say that my kids will never have a TV in their room, so yes.
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  • I'm a TVaholic, have one in my room, and DD watches about 30 mins of TV per day, yet I don't understand why a 17 month old would need a TV in her room...

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  • I'm a TVaholic, have one in my room, and DD watches about 30 mins of TV per day, yet I don't understand why a 17 month old would need a TV in her room...

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