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HI

I still lurk.. I don't feel like I have much to offer.. but I like to see the pictures of your little ones growing.

Still waiting for the tox results to come in.. Lawyer talks.. Dective meetings.. Life is fun.

Got the wonderful reminder that my child passed witha  $8K hospital bill that I had to fight with insurance to resubmit, as they said Z was taken off my insurance effective 1/9/12.. so per the rep would be 12:01 am on 1/9/12. 45 minuets of almost tears and explaining everythign she got a manager on the phone who is going to resubmit the bills..

Other than that I mostly lurk.. between here, TTCAL, and PGAL..

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    ::hugs:: I think of and pray for you often.
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    Its good to see you! I was thinking about you today. 

    ((big hugs)) There is a special place in hell for insurance companies, I am sure of it.

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    It's good to *see* and hear from you.  I'm so sorry you're going through all this and think of you often.
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    Thinking of you every day....
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    Thanks for the update--please keep them coming.  I think about you and Jay often.  I'm glad the insurance resubmitted the bills.  That's got to be a large load off your shoulders.  

    Have you lurked on the Loss board at all?  I've heard such great things about that board and I'm sure they would love to offer you support also.  ((hugs)) 

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    We are all a family and you are part of the PAL, PgAL, and TTCAL family. I think of you often and love to gets posts from you. If you need someone to talk to, we are here. I hope the detective process gets you some answers. Hugs
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    Big hugs. Thanks for the update. I think of you a lot.
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    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
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    ((Huge Hugs))  You and Z are often in my thoughts.

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    *Hugs* I think of your family often.
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    ((hugs)) I think of you often. Great to hear from you!
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    Good to see you.  Thinking of you and your family.
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    I think of you and your family often. I hope that things with the insurance company works out for you. Please keep us updated on how you're doing.
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    Huge hugs.  I think of you every day.
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    bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
    bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
    bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
    bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
    bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
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    It's good to "see" you here. Thanks for the update. You're often in my thoughts. 

    I want to kick your insurance company in the nuts. Unbelievable.  


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    ((hugs)) You and Z are in my thoughts daily.
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    BFP 1.30.11 - CVS 3.28.11 (Girl) - EDD 10.11.11 - Born 10.6.11
    BFP 12.18.12 - 12.20.12 CP
    BFP 3.18.13 - CVS 5.21.13 (Girl) - EDD 12.2.13 - Born 11.24.13
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    Hi there, thanks for checking in. I think of you and your sweet boy often. I'm sorry you are having to battle with insurance, as if you don't already have enough on your plate. Don't be a stranger, you are a part of this community as much as anyone else. ((Hugs))
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    Hey lady!  That's total BS about the insurance.  I really hope you get some resolution soon about everything. 

    You're a member here forever, so don't be shy.  ((HUGS))

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    :hugs:

    I think about you and Z all the time. I'm sorry to hear about the asshat insurance- it's not fair you have to deal with them on top of everything else.

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    Hi Amye! The whole insurance thing is bullshit.   I had some problems after Gavin died and I flipped *** on his insurance company who immediatly straightened things out after  I went nuts.

    If you aren't busy in the next couple days I would love to text and talk to you if you are up for it. Take care hunny xoxo. 

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    Hugs I think of you every day. 
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    :(  I think of you often and continue to pray for you.  I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all of this garbage on top of everything.  (((hugs)))
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    Hi Amye.  I think of and pray for you and your sweet Zachary often.  Please know that you're always a part of this community and always welcome.  As for the insurance company and hospital - what a bunch of asshats!  Hopefully that'll be resolved now and you won't have to deal with the bills any more.  (((Hugs)))
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    Ugh that is infuriating that theyvw
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    ((Big HUGS)) I think of you all the time and wonder how you are doing.  I'm so sorry you are having to deal with the insurance BS on top of everything else. 
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    Sweetie - I had no idea that you lost Zachary.  I am so, so sorry and absolutely heartbroken for you.  I hope that they find out what happened and that people can just help you heal instead of adding to your pain.  You and your sweet son will be in my thoughts always!  (((HUGE HUGS)))

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    Hey There!

    Good to see you.  Sorry to hear the insurance is giving you a hard time.  How can they possibly not have measures in place to not get things right?  And then to give you a hard time about it...ridiculous.

    No need to just lurk.  We think about you and Z often.

    ((hugs))

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    Thinking about you a lot! Thanks for letting us know you're still around... hoping you get a reprieve from all this yuckiness very soon. ((HUGS))
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    I'am always thinking about you guys and pray for you everyday.Insurance companies are horrible, and I hope everything got fixed so that you don't have to deal with that aspect again. *hugs*

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    Thinking of you and your family. I am so sorry you have to deal with the insurance company on top of everything else.
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    You're constantly in my thoughts Amye. I'm so sorry that you have constant reminders of losing the Z man. (HUGS)
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    How awful  to have to deal with the insurance like that. Ugh. I"m glad they are going to resubmit.
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    So sorry you have to deal with bs instead of the kindness and consideration you deserve from your insurance provider.  ((hugs))

     I am sure you feel a little lost right now.  But you are a member here forever, don't hesitate to post, especially if we can ever do anything or be there for you.

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    Hugs, insurance companies should rot. I think of you often. 
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    I think of you and your family often as well.

    Honestly, those bills should just burn away. Such boolshit. 

    I will continue to pray for you. ((hugs))

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    It's good to see you. But i'm sorry you're going through all this!
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    So nice to hear from you.  So sorry your insurance is being such crap.  I still think of your and your family all the time.  
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