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Not good.

U/s this morning only saw what might have been a sac, but it was only measuring 5w.  Some other "cystic" growth that they are questioning as possible molar pregnancy.  My doc is supposed to call back with any further testing.  

 

So what can I expect as far as miscarriage? When? Just like a period?  I guess if it is molar (please don't let it be) I would need aD&C? 

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  • No advice, I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • Oh honey. I'm so, so sorry. ((BIG HUGS))
  • Oh, Mousey.  I am terribly sorry to hear this.  You are in my prayers.  : (

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  • Oh no!  I am so, so sorry.  (((HUGS)))
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. 


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  • I am so, so sorry.

    When I had an early, natural m/c it was like a heavy period, with short bouts of painful cramps.  Sending t&ps your way.

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  • I'm sorry :(

    ((HUGS))

    It took me 7 weeks to bleed.

     

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  • i'm sorry :(

    m/c wise- i had an ectopic that ended with a methotrexate shot. lots of bleeding & cramping & clots. but everything went quickly & my levels were at 0 within 2 weeks. but it differs with everyone. in regards to a molar (which i do hope it's not) i was told i'd need a D&C + would be required to wait 6-12 months before trying for another pregnancy (i didn't have a molar)

  • Oh Mousey - I'm so sorry. 
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  • I don't have any relevant experience, just wanted to say I'm sorry, sweetie.
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  • Oh no, so sorry sweetie. I think everyone is different but with my m/c around 7 weeks, I only bled for a week (2 days were heavy the rest spotting) and was Oked to jump back on the wagon right away.
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  • My heart is breaking for you sweetie. I am so so sorry for your loss. I can only say that I hope this resolves as quickly and easily as it possibly can.

    ((((((((HUGE HUGS))))))))

  • Oh sweetie... I'm so sorry... I had a D&C w/my m/c because I couldn't wait around for it to happen on its own. I hope and pray you don't have a molar... When my SIL had one, her doc had her wait for a year before TTC again. HUGE BIG (((HUGS)))
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  • :( I am so sorry. No advice just thoughts and hugs. 
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  • NO NO NO NO NO!!!

    I have no advice, just hugs.  This sucks :(

     

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  • Oh no!!  I'm so, so sorry. 
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  • Oh no!!!  When do you go in for a repeat u/s?  Did the doctor give youo any hope??  If it is a m/c (and I hope it is not).  I opted for a D&C both times.  It was "easy" physically and then they were able to do testing on the tissue.  I am praying that it is not a molar either : (  ((HUGS)) 
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  • I'm so sorry, Mousey.
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    Oh no!!!  When do you go in for a repeat u/s?  Did the doctor give youo any hope??  If it is a m/c (and I hope it is not).  I opted for a D&C both times.  It was "easy" physically and then they were able to do testing on the tissue.  I am praying that it is not a molar either : (  ((HUGS)) 
    . My doc is supposed to call me but she's in a csection right now and seeing PTs today.  I don't see how this could end well... I should have been able to see a heartbeat today, but there was just the teeny sac :(. The radiologist had a little bit of hope, but it's been too long since my bfp for me to be that far off in dates.  And there is still the question of the cystic stuff going on.  Ugh... Thank you for your experience!
  • Oh Mousey!  I am so sorry.  :-(  I know it's slim, but I'm going to hope like hell that you just have a slow grower.  Anything is possible.  Perhaps not likely, but possible. 

    As far as the m/c, when I miscarried it was right after the baby's heart stopped beating...it had been beating really slowly and then stopped.  It was spontaneous.  The cramps were terrible and I felt like hell for 3 days.  Then I kind of came out of it...continued to bleed for a couple of weeks.  

    Big hugs to you.  I am so incredibly sorry.

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    Oh no!!!  When do you go in for a repeat u/s?  Did the doctor give youo any hope??  If it is a m/c (and I hope it is not).  I opted for a D&C both times.  It was "easy" physically and then they were able to do testing on the tissue.  I am praying that it is not a molar either : (  ((HUGS)) 
    . My doc is supposed to call me but she's in a csection right now and seeing PTs today.  I don't see how this could end well... I should have been able to see a heartbeat today, but there was just the teeny sac :(. The radiologist had a little bit of hope, but it's been too long since my bfp for me to be that far off in dates.  And there is still the question of the cystic stuff going on.  Ugh... Thank you for your experience!

    Well crap crap crap : (  I will hold on to that glimmer of hope but this just sucks!!!   

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  • Oh, I'm so very sorry and I'm praying super hard that it isn't molar.

    As for when the miscarriage will start, that is so hard to say.  With my second loss, my baby had died two weeks before I found out and I had no bleeding whatsoever and opted for a D&C.  I also think the experience with regards to bleeding is different for everyone.  Most likely it would be like a very heavy period.

    Again, I'm so sorry.

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  • ((hugs)) I am so so sorry. I'm sure this is devastating!
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    Oh no!!!  When do you go in for a repeat u/s?  Did the doctor give youo any hope??  If it is a m/c (and I hope it is not).  I opted for a D&C both times.  It was "easy" physically and then they were able to do testing on the tissue.  I am praying that it is not a molar either : (  ((HUGS)) 
    . My doc is supposed to call me but she's in a csection right now and seeing PTs today.  I don't see how this could end well... I should have been able to see a heartbeat today, but there was just the teeny sac :(. The radiologist had a little bit of hope, but it's been too long since my bfp for me to be that far off in dates.  And there is still the question of the cystic stuff going on.  Ugh... Thank you for your experience!

    Well crap crap crap : (  I will hold on to that glimmer of hope but this just sucks!!!   

    I believed in baby boy Mary, and I will be praying for little Mousey as well.  A glimmer isn't nothing.  So there!

     

     

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  • I am so sorry....you will be in my thoughts.  
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  • I am so sorry! 

     

  • I'm so sorry... praying for you
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  • No!  I'm so sorry.  I have no experience with a molar pregnancy but I hope if this is not a viable pregnancy (not sure how far along you are supposed to be measuring, stranger things have happened!) you can get through it without a D&C.

    I'm so sorry.  Keeping you in my prayers.

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  • I'm so sorry to hear this, hon.  (((huge hugs)))
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  • I do not have a reference, just wanted to say I am so sorry!
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  • I am so sorry! My miscarriage was at 10.5 so I had a D&C and my cousin just had a molar and they had to do a D&C, I bled for a few days and really bad cramps.. I am so sorry! You are in my heart and in my prayers!
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  • No :( oh nonono. I am so sorry for your loss. This is so unfair. :(
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  • Oh no.  I'm heartbroken for you.  I'm so sorry for your loss, Mousey.  A thousand big hugs to you. :(
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  • Oh no...  Big hugs!  So not fair.
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  • Oh Mousey, I'm sorry.  :(
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  • Oh lady, I am so very very sorry.

     

    (I would predict a heavy period, if that)

     

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  • Oh Mousey, I'm so so sorry. 

    My only true m/c was a blighted ovum and I had to have a D&C because I never bled on my own. 

  • Damnit, Mousey - I'm so sorry hon.
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  • (((hugs)))

    I am so sorry.

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  • I am so, so sorry.
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