my heart hurts so much for you. I'm so sorry sweetie this just isn't fair esp with DE. I'm glad to hear they will give you another shot to try again but sorry that it might be awhile before that happens.
I am so sad to read this ::::hugs::::: maybe you'll be surprised tomorrow. It was amazing that the re would give you another cycle though. Take care of yourself sweetie.
S/PAIFW
Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
IVF #3
TTC with DOR, low morphology, fertilization issues
IVF#1 Oct 2009 (CCRM) - BFN
IVF#2 March 2010 - Poor response/cancelled
DE IVF#1 Aug 2010 - BFN
DE IVF#2 Dec 2010 - Transferred 1, 2 frozen - BFP!
TTC#2 FET Jan 2013 - Transferred 1 - BFP!
TTC #1 Since 11/08 - Dx: MFI & PCOS 7 IUIs = All BFNs 2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN
2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents May IVF #3 = c/p June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler) July FET #2 = BFN Aug FET #3 = BFN Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn) Nov HSG/Sono = Clear! Dec FET #4 = BFN
2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl) June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy) Sept FET #6 = TBD **PAIF/SAIF Welcome**
This sucks and is so unfair. I am so sorry. Will they still transfer the two 6 cell? I will be thinking of you and sending you hugs.
No, RE said they should be around 100 cells by now. He said if they are around 70 tomorrow he would transfer them if not they probably won't be viable. He said he would be surprised if by tomorrow they are where they should be. Ugh...right???
I am AMA and all tests on H came back normal
3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
PAIF/SAIF always welcome
Ugh - this is all so unfair I am so very sorry sweetie!
~*~ Our IF Journey~*~
TTC for 5+ years
2/09 - TI = BFP * 3/09 - M/C with D&C * 8/09 - C/P
Jan - July '10 - Clomid/Follistim + IUI = all BFN
Aug - IVF #1 - 3 embies transferred = BFN
Mar - IVF #2 - 2 embies transferred & 4 frosties = BFN
June - FET #1 * 2 embies transferred = BFP (C/P @ 5w4d)
Sept - FET #2 * 2 embies transferred = BFP
Nov - M/C & D&C at 10 weeks
May - surprise BFP with no medical intervention
Sept - 20 week US showed we're having a BOY!
~*~ EDD: 2/4/13 ~*~
Don't know if you remember me. I used to be a regular poster here, but now that we have given up on TTC I mainly just lurk on occasion.
I am so sorry this happened to you. I tried DE twice and first time was a c/p and second time was a m/c due to Turner's syndrome. That wasn't supposed to happen with DE. They tell you that DE is the answer and it seems unbelievable when it doesn't work. I was so angry.
I am happy to hear that your RE is giving you a free cycle. That is very nice.
I also saw in your other post that you are having your H checked out too. I think that is a very good idea. I always questioned if my DH could have more problems than they realized. With 2 OE IVF, and 2 DE IVFs with two different donors, we only ever had one good blast to transfer (and it turned out that one wasn't good either--m/c). The rest were all mediocre. I just found it hard to believe that we didn't have a sperm problem too. Had we continued trying, I was going to insist on further testing. So, I think it is good that you are pushing for some additional testing on your DH.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I am thinking about you. Big ((hugs)) from someone who has been there.
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Re: nothing to transfer!!!- UPDATE
my heart hurts so much for you. I'm so sorry sweetie this just isn't fair esp with DE. I'm glad to hear they will give you another shot to try again but sorry that it might be awhile before that happens.
Big huge hugs.
~Lauren~


**SAIF always welcome.**
After 2+ years, 3 losses, 3 surgeries, 2 IVFs and 1 FET our little girl is here.
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I will be sending lots of grow vibes to your two remaining embies and praying hard for good news tomorrow, Hon ((MORE HUGS))
Me: 32 - Stage II Endo / DH: 36 - Low count and morphology (1%)
IUIs 1-3 BFN, lap Dec. 2010, IUIs 4-6 BFN
IVF w/ICSI #1 - ER 2/8: 24R 19M 9F ET 2/13 2-5 day blasts (no frosties) = BFP - b/g twins!
E & C Born 10/19/2012
Tara & Dave - TTC since September 2006
PCOS - dx 1999 (amenorrhea) | freakishly long fallopian tubes
Hypoglycemic | thyroid issues | severely anemic
Multiple Clomid cycles of 50, 100, 150 - absolutely no response
Follistim 50/100 | Follistim 75/125 | Follistim 100/150 IUI - all BFNs
Converted IVF - BFP - m/c | FET - BFN | IVF #2 = BFN
IVF #3
IVF#1 Oct 2009 (CCRM) - BFN
IVF#2 March 2010 - Poor response/cancelled
DE IVF#1 Aug 2010 - BFN
DE IVF#2 Dec 2010 - Transferred 1, 2 frozen - BFP!
TTC#2 FET Jan 2013 - Transferred 1 - BFP!
Oh Reb, I'm so heart broken for you! Sending huge hugs!
7 IUIs = All BFNs
2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN
2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents
May IVF #3 = c/p
June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler)
July FET #2 = BFN
Aug FET #3 = BFN
Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn)
Nov HSG/Sono = Clear!
Dec FET #4 = BFN
2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w
May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl)
June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All
July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy)
Sept FET #6 = TBD
**PAIF/SAIF Welcome**
Dx MFI, AMA, Endo, AMH .16
Lap 10/09 Removed endometrioma, stage IV endo and adhesions
Lap 2/10 Endometrioma cysts & adhesions returned.
Ivf #1 4/10 Antagonist, ET Cancelled.
IVF #2 2/11 A/ACP+E2V C/P
IVF #3 6/11 Letrozole/Antagonist BFN
IVF #4 11/11 Low stim Antagonist BFN
Lap 3/12 Lap & Selective HSG
Many cycles of Letrozole and LP HCG w/TI and LDN
IVF #5 8/12 Low stim BFN
IUI #1 10/12 BFN br> S&PAIFW
No, RE said they should be around 100 cells by now. He said if they are around 70 tomorrow he would transfer them if not they probably won't be viable. He said he would be surprised if by tomorrow they are where they should be. Ugh...right???
3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
PAIF/SAIF always welcome
Oh Reb, I am so, so sorry.
I am sending you and your DH much strength while you heal from this.
xo
I am so sorry sweetie, my heart is breaking for you ((HUGS))
I'm keeping my fingers crossed the two continue to grow and you are able to transfer.
::: Married June 2003:::

TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008
Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo
DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA
Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN
IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN
IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response
IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable
IVF# 4= c/p
***CCRM ODWU***
Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus
Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally
***New RE***
DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture.
IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled
IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5
Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015
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~*~ Our IF Journey~*~
TTC for 5+ years
2/09 - TI = BFP * 3/09 - M/C with D&C * 8/09 - C/P
Jan - July '10 - Clomid/Follistim + IUI = all BFN
Aug - IVF #1 - 3 embies transferred = BFN
Mar - IVF #2 - 2 embies transferred & 4 frosties = BFN
June - FET #1 * 2 embies transferred = BFP (C/P @ 5w4d)
Sept - FET #2 * 2 embies transferred = BFP
Nov - M/C & D&C at 10 weeks
May - surprise BFP with no medical intervention
Sept - 20 week US showed we're having a BOY!
~*~ EDD: 2/4/13 ~*~
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Our Bulldogs - Bubba & Millie
I agree this isn't suppose to happen with DE....as if us DE girls haven't been through enough...
Still only thinking the best for you with your other two embies.
Forever our's October 17th 2012
Don't know if you remember me. I used to be a regular poster here, but now that we have given up on TTC I mainly just lurk on occasion.
I am so sorry this happened to you. I tried DE twice and first time was a c/p and second time was a m/c due to Turner's syndrome. That wasn't supposed to happen with DE. They tell you that DE is the answer and it seems unbelievable when it doesn't work. I was so angry.
I am happy to hear that your RE is giving you a free cycle. That is very nice.
I also saw in your other post that you are having your H checked out too. I think that is a very good idea. I always questioned if my DH could have more problems than they realized. With 2 OE IVF, and 2 DE IVFs with two different donors, we only ever had one good blast to transfer (and it turned out that one wasn't good either--m/c). The rest were all mediocre. I just found it hard to believe that we didn't have a sperm problem too. Had we continued trying, I was going to insist on further testing. So, I think it is good that you are pushing for some additional testing on your DH.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I am thinking about you. Big ((hugs)) from someone who has been there.
Sh!t. I am so sorry. IF blows.
((huge hugs))
Currently pg with our 1st after 6.5 yrs of IF (thank you IVF)
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