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MrsSonny24MrsSonny24
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Hello all just wanted to introduce myself, as i now will be joining you all.  DH and I lost the love of our lives on 2/13/2012, he would have been 6 months on Thursday.  As of right now it's looking like SIDS, the autopsy did not show anything, but the blood and cultures won't be back for another 2-4 weeks yet.  I dropped my baby off at daycare 2 weeks ago today and he snuggled me more than usual, at 10am i received a call and my heart instantly shattered.  Wendy (the daycare provider, whom I loved) called in panic to say that she had put Easton down for a nap at 9am, checked on him twice and went back in at 10am to check on him.  She found him on his belly, blue.  He rolled often, but never ever while he was sleeping. She attempted to do CPR, called EMS and the rest is history.  The ER doctor said they did everything they could do to save him, but unfortunately it didn't work.  My life has been nothing but a nightmare since that moment, but I?m trying to stay optimistic.  He was the happiest, smiliest baby, the absolute love of my life.  I always said losing a child would be the absolute worst thing, now I?m living the nightmare along with the rest of you.  I look forward to getting to know you all! 

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  • Mjmksb04Mjmksb04 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you are able to take some comfort knowing you are not alone.
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  • fluttergirlmoonchild79fluttergirlmoonchild79 member
    He is such a cutie!  I'm so, so sorry for you loss.  My DH and I lost our son at 5 weeks and 1 day old.  He would be 4 months old tomorrow.  We put him down to bed for the night and realized we hadn't heard a sound out of a normally noisy sleeper.  I was awoken to my worst nightmare of my DH yelling "Corbin's not breathing".  We watched as the tried to bring him back but it didn't work.  This coming Saturday will mark 3 months since he became an angel. It took almost 6 weeks to get the autopsy back but when it did the cause of death was bronchitis, bronchiolitis and trachitis.  He was just as the pediatrician for a wellness check 2 days earlier and was fine.  It was a super virus. I hate you have to welcome you here but know we're all here for you and offer comfort and support.  Be gentle on yourself as you begin this process.  We're all here for you if you ever need to talk.  {{HUGS}}

     

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  • lpeter01lpeter01
    There are no words that I can say to you.  My heart aches so much for you and your DH.   I am praying for you both.  I am so sorry!
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  • HeatherhahHeatherhah member
    I am so so sorry for the loss your your sweet Easton. We are all here for you!! Hugs!!
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  • pottermommypottermommy member

    I am so incredibly sad for your loss.  I lost my Kamryn at 19 months.  She drowned in the tub while I was at work.  I well remember that call and the agonising trip to the hospital. 

    This is a life I wouldn't wish on anyone and I am so so sorry.  I hope we can help you through this aweful time.  Anything you need just ask.

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  • Bread09Bread09 member
    I am so very sorry for your loss--
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    2/21/11: IVF #1 Begins and results in TWINS!
    11/4/11: The twins are born at 36w4d!
    11/5/11: We said goodbye to our sweet baby girl as she was born with multiple complications and a severe heart defect, Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome.
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  • Gizu92708Gizu92708 member
    Im so sorry for your loss . Please know that you are not alone. We are all here to support you with anything.
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  • cherrycobblercherrycobbler member
    I'm so sorry for your loss of sweet little Easton.  I do hope that you are able to find some comfort among us.  We are always here for each other.  Much love and hugs to you and your family.
    BFP#1: EDD 10/11/11 Our sweet boy Robin was born 7 weeks a little early on 8/23/11 due to HELLP syndrome, unfortunately he was diagnosed with Trisomy13 and left us on 8/29/11. BFP#2: EDD 10/13/13
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  • tracydg33tracydg33 member
    I am so sorry for you loss I am to a SIDS mom. My DS was 3 months and 13 days old when he passed from SIDS
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  • MandynStephenMandynStephen member
    So sorry for your loss.  I didn't lose my angel to SIDS and I simply cannot imagine that kind of loss.  So sad.  ((hugs))
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  • littlepenguin2012littlepenguin2012 member
    I am so, so sorry for your loss.  There are just no words for this type of thing.  Please know you are welcome here. 
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  • pandabearloverpandabearlover
    I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Easton.  
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  • nuttycoconutnuttycoconut member
    My heart aches for you. Easton is such an adorable baby. 
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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    Easton is adorable. I am so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss. Words can not express enough the pain you are going through but know that we are here for you and support you. Big hugs.
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    I'm so sorry for the devastating loss of your son.  Welcome to the board, although I hate that you're having to join us. 
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    ((hugs)) I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  • olp79olp79
    I'm so sorry about your beautiful baby's loss :-(. I am devastated after losing my babies at 22w, I cannot imagine how you must feel, count on us for anything, we're here for u!
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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    Oh hunnie. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find comfort here during this difficult and awful time.
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  • pb127pb127 member
    I am so very sorry for the passing of you son. I hope we can help support and comfort you. Welcome here and (((hugs))).  Easton is a beautiful little boy.
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